Character is really hard to understand 5, character is really hard to understand

Don't be too yourself, people are contradictions, many times you can't know yourself at the time, you might as well come down and think about why you can't show yourself in public places.

Reflection is very important, is it too concerned about your own performance, too concerned about what others think of you, resulting in a blank brain short circuit;

or be more low-key, more casual below, but not used to not knowing what to do under the eyes of others;

Maybe it's not a matter of character, it's a shadow of previous failures.

Analyze the reasons well, and when you encounter this situation in the future, try to calm your heart and tell yourself that there is nothing to be afraid of. You will behave what you are, and slowly you will find the feeling.

This is called fear, will you be afraid of being ridiculed by everyone, afraid of hurting your self-esteem, so you don't dare to show yourself in front of everyone.

If so, it's not necessary, just think about what others think of you, and you also look at how you see yourself, if you yourself are not confident, you must look cowardly, others will even look down on you, you can't accept you, and ......They—all the things you see, touch, hear, and all of this exist because of your presence, and there's nothing to be afraid of. - There's no need to be afraid of something that won't exist once you disappear, right?

This kind of woman is very common, that is, she lacks care, she is very fickle, selfish and indifferent on the surface, if you really care about her, then you can resist it, and when you win her affection, she will change to you, if you really can't stand it, then withdraw as soon as possible, weak water three thousand, lest you suffer from this anger and go as far as possible.

That's the woman's problem ...

You can't kill all 、、、 with a stick

I guess you haven't met a good one、、、 how can a woman be completely aggressive like that, it's definitely not likable.

Just ignore her! ~~

This kind of thing has to be done slowly. Some women's possibilities are like this.,You have to be more considerate of him.。。 Find a way to get to know her better... It's said that the girl has changed eighteen.,This normal drop.。。

It depends on what role do you want to use her in your life? You tell me? Or when it is broken, she hesitates, and you don't need to persevere.

Do you still care about such a person? To stay away from her is to make yourself a little more relaxed.

Women are not difficult to understandIt's just that it's too fragile. The emotions themselves are too delicate. Of course, you need to protect yourself.

There's a saying, you know?

That is, you can get in touch with a woman, but you must not try to understand her, because women are very difficult to understand. They don't even know what they do sometimes.

Can a person's personality be changed? "It's a very valuable question, and many people are also distressed and confused about their own character flaws

Personality is a relatively stable and core personality psychological characteristic manifested in people's attitude towards reality and corresponding behaviors, and it is a personality trait that is most closely related to society, and contains many social and moral meanings in personality. It can be seen from this that once a person's personality traits are formed, it is difficult to forcibly change, but it is still possible to change them before they are formed.

Truly! As the old saying goes, "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change." ”

It is indeed a very difficult thing to change a person's personality, but it is not an unchangeable thing! As long as you are determined to change, and keep thinking about the direction you want, then you will change little by little!

That's right, the personality basically doesn't change, unless you get a major blow!

The country is easy to change.

A crow never the whiter for washing herself often; It's not impossible to change your original personality, it's just a matter of time; It depends on how you deal with it, calm down and think about everything first, the problem cannot be solved;

When talking to people, learn to listen first, and then speak when you are proficient in the topic, that is more confident, with confidence to speak fluently, the more fluent the more topical, more time to exercise, more talk.

People's personality is not innate, but the acquired environment, experience and so on the influence of cast, obviously, your personality is not born introverted, otherwise you will not feel very want to speak, there is this subjective understanding and desire to change, it means that you are not really introverted, but also a good premise for change.

And you can't find a topic not because of introversion, but because you have too little contact with people, you can start by listening to others more, chatting, don't say when you don't know what to say, listen to others when you are really interested in listening, after a long time, naturally your words will be gradually, and you may not be aware of it yourself. Don't talk to others without words, that way is only suitable for people who are very good at talking and cheerful, and it is counterproductive for people who are not very good at talking now.

Although it is good to have a desire to change, but be careful not to always think about how I am so introverted or something, the more you pay attention to your own problems, the weaker your ability to pay attention to others and the outside world, the more it affects your concentration when talking to others, and the more you feel that there is no topic.

It can't be fundamentally changed, but it can be controlled.

What can be changed is just a few years.

I used to be very introverted and didn't like to talk, but now others say that I am Tang Seng.

Don't think about the past, only experience it with your heart!

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change Maybe time will tell.

I'm in a situation with you, and I want to know the answer too!

Me too.

My mom also asked me to find more topics, and I don't have anything to talk about, so I want to do it too.

I think it's hard to change.

Ahem, the landlord directly said that you are interesting to her, okay? Actually, my high school classmates didn't talk much for 3 years, and then after the college entrance examination, they suddenly became familiar with a lot, because high school has been very busy. But after the college entrance examination, it is very idle, so it is more convenient to contact feelings.

Since she had a good chat with you, of course she thinks you're a good friend. Isn't it normal for you to leave each other's ** after you get to college, as for saying that you want to call her often** or text messages may be just a polite word, usually when you stay** will say "often contact", as for the actual situation, it depends on the relationship between the two of you. For example, if the relationship is very good, we will continue to contact each other in college, and the relationship is generally just a polite word.

If this girl is a girl, it is estimated that she is the former, and she really wants to keep in touch with you. If you are interested, you can also develop after college, and many high school classmates have fallen in love in college these years. However, if the two are not in the same city, it may be more painful.

Girl's mind, boy, don't guess, you can't guess and you can't guess.

If you have an idea of her, just ask.

If you don't have any thoughts about her, then what are you going to do with other people?

People may be interested in you, or they may simply feel happy to chat with you and treat you as a bosom friend Is this a person with rich social experience? You give me a hint and I give you a hint.

She doesn't hate you, but it's definitely not to the point of dying or alive Don't worry, at this time, there is a good condition to chase her, she will definitely run away Take it yourself.

It's possible that they just treat you as a regular friend, so don't think too much about it. The separation of high school will make people nostalgic, and it will also make each other's feelings deeper, so don't think too much if it's just nothing to do.

Because I don't love it anymore. Maybe. I didn't love it at all.

The heart is the hardest thing to fathom.

The premise is that the outside world is stable.

Because the cost of betrayal is not big enough.

When you change your mind, men will ask the same question!

People don't feel for you, at least they don't think of you as someone to pay attention to.

It's not hard to understand, you can imagine it from the other person's point of view. The interpersonal aspect doesn't mean that you put in the effort to be productive.

If she is your crush, advise you to give up early.

Why bother, the happiness in the future is for two people, and you are not alone, why do you have to be the one who takes the initiative

Hey, bro!

I feel the same way, the authorities are fan, so let's give up

There are many women, how good she is, she can't give up the whole forest for a tree.

Love doesn't have to be too sticky! A long time together must be divided.

Love is a matter of two people.

A person, that's not love giving up, right?

Find some good friends to chat with you and relax.

Find something to do, play a computer game, watch TV.

Either way..!

These are short-lived, though.

You try to tell him what's on your mind, you tell him, because you just love him too much. But without your company, your mind is always cranky!

When the man listens, he may go and improve the matter for the better.

Such a solution would be better...

Leave nothing else.

Just know that he loves you.

There are many girls talking to him, which means that he is excellent.

It's good to want to open a little.

Why are you so sure that she likes you depressed and since she likes you, why don't you say yes

She hesitated. Maybe I still have another reporter in my heart. I wonder if you want to be the other one

It takes time. ^-

She's shy, I can't see it, you're a man, if it were me, I would have been depressed to death, so don't be stupid and ask her for the answer You use a gentle way, such as telling her, "I'll wait for you forever!" If she's embarrassed, she's hopeless, if she's smiling or she's busy changing the subject or saying, "Die!"

Get lost! "It proves that she acquiesced! ~

Hehe, that's hard to say. It depends on what kind of character this girl is. If it's amorous, then the boy who likes it or not will say that he doesn't know, the key is to see if she has a good relationship with other boys.

Maybe she doesn't express her feelings much in words! What she cares more about is that loving someone doesn't have to be on her lips every day, but should be expressed more by action.

Maybe she thinks it's not the time to fall in love, and wants to wait until the right time to talk about it.

Intensify your onslaught and know until you succeed.

It's actually very easy to understand.

It's up to you to realize.

If you realize, you won't lose a lot of money.

Yes, there are too many influencing factors, policies, artificial, etc.