How to make a young couple live in harmony How to get along with a husband and wife

Love is an emotional program written with happiness and beauty**, and like many computer programs, it has been running for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be many errors such as incompatibility and crashes. Therefore, in order to maintain the longevity and beauty of love, it is essential to load six patches for love.

Patch One: Sweet Words.

Living with your lover every day, some greetings are often overlooked. Whether it's calling your lover ** or meeting you on the road, adding a sentence of "dear" before your lover's title makes the other party's heart sweeter?

Patch 2: Apologies.

When there is a conflict between the two parties, have the courage to find fault with yourself and say "sorry" to your lover, so that the other party can feel your sincere love.

Patch Three: Kisses.

If you think kissing your loved one is a simple thing to do, you are very wrong. If you can print a kiss on your lover's face at the right time, you can really be regarded as a master who knows how to capture your lover's heart.

Patch 4: Notes.

It is essential to leave a note for your lover so that they do not worry about you and that they feel that you genuinely respect and care about him/her. Heart-for-heart, the other party is bound to love you more.

Patch Five: Soothing.

When your lover is restless, soothe him or her with loving words, and you can also stretch out your hand and gently stroke the other person's hair, which can make people feel more down-to-earth and warm.

Patch 6: Evasion.

You love to smoke and drink, but you suffer from repeated failures. When you are addicted to cigarettes and alcohol, try to avoid "committing crimes" under your lover's nose, because it is really not worth it to destroy the relationship between husband and wife with such a trivial matter.

Just put your mind to it, but don't worry about it.

It's normal, people are quite selfish, maybe you don't do it well and think you're interesting enough, maybe you do a good job and people are still not satisfied, the parents in your heart are still your biological parents, the children in people's hearts are still people's biological children, you think you are their parents, and they feel that the return is not enough, and people think that they treat you as their own child, and they also think that the return is too little, so you are all wronged, people are not selfish, who is selfish? You've done the basics on it, so much to do? Anyway, people are like this, they can't do it themselves, and they always feel that others can't do it well.

Husbands and wives can promote harmony by doing the following five things: trust, mutual encouragement, patience, not finding faults, and cherishing.

1. Trust

For the relationship between husband and wife, there must be no lack of trust, and at every turn, you will doubt what the other party is doing outside, which will make the family restless, so the cornerstone of trust must not collapse.

2. Encourage each other

In life and work, we may not be so smooth, and problems at work sometimes make us very short-tempered, so we should encourage each other and let them feel the warmth and love of the family.

3. Patience

Everyone is not perfect, so remember to be 50% of yourself in married life, and 50% of the other half is just a complete person, so that husband and wife are one, and tolerate each other's shortcomings.

4. Don't find faults

Don't always find fault with the other party, so that the other party will lose confidence in life, and in the long run, the other party will feel that he is such a bad person, so don't magnify the other party's small problems.

5. Cherish

Know how to cherish each other, in order to live a lifetime of harmony and beauty, marriage, there will always be some problems, laughing but when encountering problems, you must first consider each other, cherish each other.

1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.

1. Get along honestly Love is a kind of force that makes people work hard, and the husband and wife are first of all a kind of harmony between the thoughts and feelings of both parties, and a kind of mutual compensation in psychological activities, so that both parties can produce a warm and coordinated healthy psychology. Therefore, it is more pleasing for husbands and wives to be honest with each other, to respect and love each other, and to take care of each other than to give gifts.

2. Communicate frequently Husbands and wives should often sit down to exchange opinions, communicate ideas, and pour out the joys and hardships in their hearts. Especially in times of adversity, what you need most is the comfort of your loved ones. A word of sympathy and an encouraging look will reduce the psychological pressure of the other party, enhance the confidence and strength to overcome difficulties, and truly see the truth in the midst of adversity.

3. Respect each other's personality traits A couple, even if they are childhood sweethearts, still have their own personality traits. Some husbands are active and have been wandering outside for many years, and they can't stay at home. And the wife is quiet and has a narrow social surface, and hopes that her husband will be at home with her all day long.

Every time the husband returns, the wife is unhappy, and sometimes she is a little petty, and if the husband can't stand it, there may be a quarrel. An empathetic wife or husband should respect the personality of the other person, do not impose her will on the other person, and reserve a certain amount of freedom for the other person to allow the other person to have their own social circle. In this way, marriage is not a kind of confinement, but not only to give full play to their individual characteristics, but also to be a warm home for mutual attachment.

It's about being able to communicate with each other, you have to be able to understand each other.