My husband has no intention of deviating, should I forgive me?

Updated on society 2024-05-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What the? Deviance and unintentional? /

    Big joke.

    My stupidity. I hate men like this the most.

    It should not be forgiven.

    Give him a chance, give himself a chance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What does it mean to be unintentional? Deviance is deviance, men are like this, when something happens, they always look for objective reasons, if a person can't even manage himself, how can he be responsible for a family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Deviance is deviance, there is nothing intentional or unintentional, it depends on you, if you still love him and can forgive him, just be together Life is like this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I will forgive because I love my husband and as long as he pays attention to me, I will tolerate everything

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love and sex should be looked at separately, and there may not be love if there is sex!

    If you still love him, give him a chance, and it is actually a kind of fate for two people to become husband and wife (how many people are there in the world, do you know?). It's not easy for you to meet, get to know each other, and love each other)!

    If you don't have the idea of love, then you have to think about it.

    Now there is not much psychological and life burden in divorce without children, and if you want to divorce when you have children: 1Poor child! 2.Suffer yourself!

    Think about it yourself, do you still love him?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't mean to show that I want to forgive him in my heart! Don't be judged by such a trivial matter! Look at how good he is to you in ordinary life? Is he usually distracted? You can forgive, but you must think of a good way to forgive, not to make this matter lightly!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It should be forgiven. Who can be innocent? If you do it, you will change it, and it will be good.

    Give him another chance ...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Unintentional deviance should be forgiven. No more faults.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I also think he should be forgiven! Because it's unintentional, who hasn't made a mistake yet!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Absolutely unforgivable, there are two if there is one, don't listen to what he says, don't take it as an example.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If he's doing well, he should!

    Who can be infallible! If you don't forgive, it's not all gone!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Remember, deviance is not unintentional. Not to mention that you don't have children, don't trust men.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    yes, what do you say if you deviate intentionally or not?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to forgive, chop him up and forgive him again.。。。 Dogs can't change their eating shi. /

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My husband was having an affair with someone else behind my back, which made me particularly disappointed, and he didn't care about the family, didn't give me money to spend, and didn't fulfill his husband's responsibilities, but I still didn't choose to give up, for the sake of the family and children, I would choose to forgive, and husband and wife need to work together to get along.

    1. Give men enough space and full respect.

    Everyone is an individual, needs to have their own space, and everyone wants to be respected. Getting along with husband and wife in marriage is no exception.

    After marriage, no matter how bad the husband is doing, not doing well enough, the salary is very low, the work is dirty, the business is also sluggish, and he does not have much ability and ability, please don't blindly blame him, but what you should do is to respect his ideas, respect his choices, and respect his work. Be more understanding and encouraging, don't push him too hard, give him enough space to gradually get better. Since you choose to live with him, you should trust in his abilities with all your heart.

    Second, we must respect ourselves and be economically independent.

    A woman doesn't need you to be rich or capable, but she can't be without money and self-motivated. Having a small income of your own will not only improve your family status, but also your quality of life.

    In the face of endless housework and endless vegetable markets, don't do the whole process, you are not a housewife in the family, let alone a free nanny. The home is run by two people together, and they have to learn to share it together, and what the husband should do is done by him, and housework is no exception. A wise woman raises a brilliant and accomplished husband, not a son to spoil.

    3. You can be coquettish, but don't lose your temper at will.

    It is said that a coquettish woman is the best. In marriage, women are more hypocritical, sometimes they can't control themselves from constantly being coquettish in front of men, all kinds of unreasonable trouble, and they want a result in everything, so as to prove how much their husbands love themselves. But that's a stupid thing to do.

    It's counterproductive.

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