Forget, when can you be? When will I forget you?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I used to be similar to you, and after that transfer, I never forgot the girl I silently liked. 1 year. 2 years.

    3 years. After 4 years, I finally saw her again. I like her a lot, but I want to forget about her even more.

    In the past 4 years, I spent every day in my thoughts about her, but I just haven't seen her again. The time I asked her out, I was very excited, and I asked myself again and again, is it a dream? Will I really be able to see her again?

    While thinking, my body trembled involuntarily.

    What happened after that, it seems, has no narrative value. Because the most important thing is: after that time, I was finally able to forget about her.

    Not because of anything else, just because she found out that in 4 years, too many things have changed, and she has changed too much. I finally realized that I had been living in my memory, and I would never see her in my heart again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I have just experienced this mood of yours recently, in fact, you dare not love, find a person who is really good to you to love, forget him, when you think of him, you have to remind yourself to forget, only you adjust yourself is the most important.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm sure I'll forget.

    It's a matter of time.

    Don't do anything deliberately.

    Just live a normal life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I really don't like it, don't forget it, time will dilute everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It was like this at first.

    Don't be alone.

    Play more with friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's natural. Don't be deliberate.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When did you start to ignore yourself and think only of others?

    It seems that there are many people like me in this world, and it seems that I am the only one in the world.

    I remember that I also worked hard and seriously, and all I thought about was how to spend the best time with her.

    Maybe that's when I ignore my own feelings like this, and focus only on others, even if I get bruised all over my body, as long as I see her smiling, I feel that it's okay.

    It was as if I could always catch up with all the most unfortunate things, all the things that should have been good, without knowing why, quietly detached myself from the route I was supposed to take, as if she had never appeared, and disappeared into my life.

    But I remember everything about her clearly, maybe this pants is what you call loss.

    You've just lost this person, and you remember every minute and every second you've been with her.

    I feel distressed when you sit in the teahouse by the window and look out of the pure change window, just looking quietly into the distance, even if I don't know what I'm distressed about.

    I only know that I will never forget this picture, it turns out that liking someone to the extreme is all the painful **.

    You think about a lot of things that don't happen but are going to happen, and you have to think about how to spend your time every day, but you also have to think about how to deal with it, and when you think about how to face it, it's not what you think.

    Since when did I start to hesitate like this? Probably in the days after I lost you, I would remember many, many moments from when I was with you, and then I would unconsciously remember everything.

    Stories that no one wants to hear will rot in silence in the bottom of their hearts, turning into layers of ashes.

    I don't think about when you'll be back now, and I'll always wonder when I'm going to forget about you completely. end

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you still love her, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love her anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget her.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, she may have hurt you, and there may be some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    To forget about a person.

    That takes time.

    Slowly dilute feelings.

    Or. Find someone worthy of your love again.

    will forget the previous thia.

    Time and distance can dilute some of the things you want to forget. Change the rhythm and way of life in the past, add new elements, you can go to another city to work, travel, chat with friends, go shopping, buy your favorite clothes, eat your favorite food, make your life more fulfilling, and then make some new friends, new friends of the opposite sex, find a person worthy of your love again, and start a new relationship.

    So. You'll be able to forget about each other.

    Using a new relationship to forget the pain of a past love is the best solution. That's true, but it's not so easy to fall in love with another person again. Before you fall in love with someone else, all you need to do is minimize the pain that love brings you.

    For example, look down on the other party, let the other party no longer become the most important thing in your heart, don't let the other party be left and right, one day, you can be indifferent, maybe it's okay.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you don't care, you can forget it in a second, and when you still care, you can't forget it for the rest of your life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't deliberately forget, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. You have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

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