My girlfriend is gone, and I have lost hope in life

I can understand your pain, falling out of love is painful. At the same time, falling out of love also makes people mature, and to be honest, the two of you are indeed too young. You don't have autonomy in the things of life, all you think about now is the feeling of love between the two of you, and it's hard to think about the family and the future, so you have no ability to resist the resistance of the family.

One day, when you grow up and can look at the problem rationally, these problems do not exist, it is obvious that her family is still taking her child, and she herself is still treating herself as a child, otherwise, no one will pick her up, even if she doesn't leave, you are still so young, do you want to get married? Or just keep it going? You are not yet old enough to talk about marriage, you should work hard, and love can be put aside first.

Tragedy, I really don't know how to comfort you. Thoughts are not on the same line, in fact, there is no such thing as a genius in this world. Often the hard work of love has not been able to be together in the end, I have also been young, and I used to love a girl very much, and I love so much that I especially believe that love will not change, and as time goes by, I can't hurt if I want to.

Slow it pain, it takes time, comfort is not effective.

Let's have my first love. If she still loves you, I'll wait for you. It's a good thing to stick to it, it shows that you are a little boy who really loves. Try to grasp your love and do things to move her. It is useless to be sad in vain, it must be proved by reality.

Friend. Please don't be discouraged.

Maybe it's a good thing for both sides that the fans are separated.

I want to open up a little bit about everything.

Love. It's inherently difficult to understand and nerve-wracking.

Since we can't be together again, let's let it go.

Make yourself happy and have a better life than before.

Pick yourself up again and keep searching.

Can't you go to Guizhou?

You can wait for her while working in Guizhou.

If you're not willing to sacrifice something for her, it only proves that you don't love her enough.

It will pass, it is really small.

The loss of heart-rending pain is indescribably uncomfortable, brother, first of all, we will tell you to cheer up and hold on! There's nothing wrong with watching over your love!!

Now, the wait that my brother is worried about is just his own helplessness, and he can't exchange it for the expected ending. First of all, this age is not the biggest problem that hinders the love between the two, why did she come to the place where you met each other, we don't know, but since you left your hometown, independent girls, love each other sincerely, no matter how young you are, I will wait for you to get the certificate at 20!!

She went back to Guizhou, you were forced to leave, the biggest problem is her attitude, if your insistence has no object, then brother, you can suffer for a while, but not for a lifetime.

There is a saying that if the door is not right, the household is not right, and it must be unhappy. Corresponding to the two sides who love each other, that is, the gap between each other is too big, and they are destined to not be able to come together, but the premise is that they don't fight or fight, just silently wait for the result. Imagine that Zixia was waiting for Wukong's arrival until she became married to the Bull Demon King.

The landlord is a man, so he went to Guizhou to find a result.

No matter the result, as long as you go up to your own attitude and pursuit, nothing is really insurmountable, age is not a problem, I am afraid of extinguishing the true feelings!!

First of all, calm yourself down, you're a man, right? From now on, every question you consider, you have to be a little more mature, think more from her point of view, from the perspective of her parents, and don't be naïve to think that your love for her is the greatest. Her parents also took her back out of love.

What can you do now?

If you really have the ability to love her, take care of her, and not make her suffer, will her parents still be at ease? Being too small is one thing, and what promise can you give her on the other? Your future isn't bright yet, is it?

So since you don't have this ability now, why talk about how much you love her and miss her? Fear and heartbreak will not help you in any way, you are still so young, think about it, if you really love her, study hard, or work hard, and become a responsible and able man. When you have this ability, you can talk about how to grasp your love.

Don't think about it so much, you think it's understandable for her, but you always have to take care of yourself, right? Have a little confidence in life, don't be so depressed every day, think of missing her as a very happy thing, instead of thinking of sadness when you think of her, she's only 17 yes, give her some time, believe in her, believe that she really loves you, if that's the case, in the end you may still be together, her family may really think she's still young, stick to it, don't be so sentimental, she also wants you to live well, doesn't it?

It's understandable that you're too young, boy. Although his family may seem cruel to you in doing this, after all, you are too young to complain about the girl's family. If you really belong to a love that neither of you can leave each other, you have to go through the test of about 5 years, including girls.

If we change each other in the future, it is impulsive love, immature love.

The easiest way, I feel that if it is really impossible to deal with him, find a replacement, although this is cruel, but it is definitely the most effective way.

Don't worry too much、Time can forget everything、Let's go over time、No matter how determined you are、The most important thing at the moment is not to think about her! Understand?

There is no grass at the end of the world, not to mention that she is still very young. Start your new life early, your future is as exciting as her.

Find an opportunity to have an in-depth conversation with her as soon as possible, help her slowly open her heart knot, see you and see the hope of life... Many facts, if some unavoidable environmental factors have been caused, you can only adapt, grow up with your girlfriend, and spend it strongly together... Everything will be fine... Come on.

I wiped it, you know everything, you ask, what do we do? Are you really that reliable that your partner would want to kill himself? Parents die is parents die, what do you eat, do it yourself, if you really think of it as your object, you know what to do, if you are a memory of your student days, don't care about this mess, you can't give a strong arm.

If you are still a student, please stand in the position of your classmates and enlighten her, you can't give him a home now, a shoulder to rely on

It's been five years since your girlfriend left you, but your feelings of missing you haven't changed at all. is still in nostalgia, and this emotion is normal to show that you are a very affectionate and responsible husband. I can't help but admire!

But death cannot be resurrected! You're still young. You should find the other half of your life, otherwise your girlfriend will not be happy in the spirit of the sky, and now that there is a girl chasing you, and she is chasing you relentlessly.

If you like her. Just accept it! Of course, don't like it, that's another matter!

Wishing you happiness!

It's normal to miss your ex-girlfriend, and it also shows that you are a loving and righteous person, but you have been like this and can't get rid of it, and your ex-girlfriend won't be happy if she knows it underground, she must want you to live a better life. People cannot be resurrected after death, and those who are alive must always look forward and continue to live. If you don't like the girl now, then tell her clearly, but when you meet the right one in the future, you should also boldly accept another relationship.

Then marry her, your girlfriend won't survive anyway.

Everything has a cause and effect.

Be right for the situation. You have to understand what your girlfriend is doing that makes her lose confidence in life.

Think about the person who was born incomplete, you can be strong and go on, what is the amount of what you ship, I left my mother when I was one year old, and my dearest father left me at 17, and I didn't even see the last side, because I didn't listen to my father to see his last side. I don't want to live without my parents anymore, especially now that I'm even more sad in terms of feelings. I've wanted to die countless times.

Don't say anything, hug her tightly, and tell her, and even something.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to figure out.

What do white people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

When a person is confused, I always feel that everything is not so smooth, in contrast, I feel full of despair about life, my parents have too much hope for themselves, and I can't do anything, I don't want to forge ahead, I can't always work hard, so that I can only sigh at a critical moment, I like a girl, but I can't be together, whether she likes me or not, at least give a word, I pay for her every day, and I always get a word when chatting on um or oh to the end, is it interesting? Boring! I only tell you that I pay for you, you should be respected accordingly, or that sentence, people who pretend to be asleep will never wake up, people who don't want to pay attention to you will never pay attention to you, don't be sentimental, live for yourself, life is not smooth sailing, say these just want to tell every friend, not only you have setbacks, we all have troubles, to relax, to listen to the good, I hope everyone can get the corresponding return and a beauty, to realize their own life value, live for themselves, work hard for their families, Fight for the future.

I believe you will have a different tomorrow!

People are most afraid of losing faith. Life is bumpy, and yours may be even more bumpy. If you are still interested in life, if you are still interested in the wonderful world, you should have faith in life.

If your interest and goal is to get a girlfriend and you lose faith in life because of it, that's sad! There are a lot of things in life, do people only live to get a girlfriend? If you give up this idea and make great progress in your studies, in your work, and in other areas, won't your life be very good?

What's more, the friendship between men and women is about fate, and before fate arrives, no matter how many girlfriends you have, you may not be successful. Maybe when you succeed in your career, your true fate will also come with it, which you don't expect. But on the road of life, you can't always be entangled by your girlfriend, and you can't start a business with confidence, and if you go on like this, it's even more sad.

Lost confidence in life, ate and slept all day, played on the phone, and thought about obsessive-compulsive anxiety disorder.

Of course it's for yourself, you live for yourself, not for others. Falling out of love is not a big deal, it is an experience in life, when you experience more, then you will get used to it, and then you will see me more openly.