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Students are lazy in learning, which may show that they are not interested in learning, or they are not interested in learning, and they do not have a spirit of hardship in learning, and they lack the energy to study.
One is the lack of the right purpose of learning. Some children always mistakenly think that learning is for their parents or to cope with errands. Children with this kind of thinking will have difficulty concentrating in class and will be able to cope with homework when doing homework.
Especially when you encounter a difficult problem, you don't think of a way to find a solution.
The first is to keep encouraging your child. One of the most important reasons why children lose confidence and lack interest in learning is that they are often criticized and blamed by teachers or parents (or even both). Practice has proved that children want to be affirmed by parents and teachers.
For example, you can always say to your child: "Your comprehension ability is not bad, and we believe that as long as you make appropriate adjustments in your learning methods and study habits, you will make greater progress in learning." ”
The second is to praise the child in a timely manner. When a child makes progress, both parents and teachers should praise the child in a timely manner. In particular, it is important to note that the progress made by a child should not be compared with other children, but should be compared with the child's present with the child's past, that is, it should be compared vertically, not horizontally.
In real life, many parents and teachers like to compare their children horizontally. "You're in the top 10 in your class! "Look at you, you're dragging the class back again.
These words can greatly hurt children's self-esteem and are taboo words in family education and school education.
The third is to help children often. As I said earlier, the main reason why children are lazy in learning is that they have difficulty in learning. In this case, parents should always help their children find out the existing problems and their causes, and analyze the difficulties encountered in learning and their solutions.
And according to the specific causes of learning problems, help children solve problems and overcome difficulties together. For example, if it is because the child has not developed good study habits, then help the child develop a more detailed study plan and schedule to cultivate better study habits. If the child does not understand a certain part of the content, then it is advisable to let the child focus on the review and ask the teacher to give key guidance if necessary.
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Learning software can help you solve learning problems, so that you can understand a variety of problem-solving ideas, it is not feasible to rely on teachers alone, learning software can reduce the burden of teachers and parents, and you can also allow yourself to explore learning.
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It depends on what kind of attitude you use to learn.
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When we want to be lazy and lazy in the process of learning, we can use the following quotes to encourage ourselves:
1. Be good at diligence and ridiculous; Actions are made in thought, and destroyed in follow. Liquid Sakura.
2. The so-called genius is just using other people's coffee to make trouble at work.
3. Laziness is like rust, which consumes the body more than hard work; Often-used keys, always shiny.
4. Time is a constant, but it is also a variable. There are infinite number of diligent people, and there are infinite number of lazy people.
5. Teenagers are easy to learn and difficult to learn, and an inch of time is not light.
6. Persuade the monarch not to cherish the golden clothes, and persuade the monarch to cherish the youth. There are flowers that can be folded straight and must be folded, and there are no flowers and empty branches.
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There is no solution to this equation. In fact, if you don't like to read, you don't have to force it, just read a triple A, don't repeat it. After the college entrance examination, think about what you like to do, it doesn't matter what you like to do, the key is to be able to persevere, once you decide, you can't waver, it is generally believed that a person must invest at least 10,000 hours to achieve something in a field.
Also, I found that you have a big problem with getting along with people, I used to be similar to you, and I was often misunderstood, but now it's a little better, it is recommended to buy a book by Carnegie, maybe it can be improved, if not, go to see a psychiatrist and talk to him openly, believe brother, this money is worth spending. Today's parents always ignore their children's mental health.
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Cut! Anyone can say it, but how many can really control themselves, to be honest, I'm bothered by this problem right now, and now that others are in class, I'm looking for the same "help" here"Whatever! In fact, you have already found a good goal by yourself, but you just can't practice it, it's not that you don't want to practice, but there is no one to lead you to learn, that is, no one is looking for you to learn!
So the main problem is that you find a circle of friends --- learn. Then you have to be ruthless and persevere. Don't wait until what ifs, I say if, just like in the movie, wait until the person you love the most dies before you change from a gentleman to a person with ideals and hard work.
By that time it will be too late! The people next to you are playing, you look at who it is, people have money in the family! Don't slap your swollen face and become fat, no money, that is, if you don't have some powerful relatives at home, don't play anymore.
Are you studying, afraid that they will laugh at you? No way, that's just the surface, but they admire you very much in their hearts. You play with them, just a regular friend, and if you study hard, make them feel that you are great!
I don't know if you have noticed, from childhood to adulthood, there must be people around you who are good at learning, how do you feel about them? To be respected is to be respected!! Ay!
After playing so much, I still don't bother to study and have a headache. Know yourself what to do, know yourself!
You should think about your life, what kind of work you want to do, what you need to learn about this kind of work, such a life, and then calculate how you use your time to do it. If you feel like you're running out of time, you're going to learn. If you have a lot of time and you don't need to learn anything, then you don't need to learn.
It's good to think about your goals in life. Be responsible for your dreams.
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Don't bother, although I'm a sophomore in high school, I know that if I get annoyed, there will be a lot of problems in the future.
You have to find the motivation to study, for example, you can set a goal for yourself, how many points you get in each course, you can give yourself a reward if you pass the test, go out to play ball with your family when you have nothing to do, talk, adjust your state, you can also stand on the balcony in the morning and take a deep breath, raise more green plants at home, you will be very comfortable, you can also listen to more **, some songs will give people motivation, you can also go chasing stars, listen to idol songs, I'm like this anyway, As soon as I hear the song of the person I like, I will feel energetic in the middle of the night...
My sister is a bit like you, but he doesn't study well, so he is very tired of studying, but I think learning is my own, if we always compare ourselves with others, we will be very tired, and we will worry that others will surpass us and will be unhappy. I hope you're not, set a goal for yourself, it's best to plan what you want to do in the future, you have to walk the road of life by yourself, and study happily Come on.
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