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As long as you have loved each other, why cling to this life!
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As long as two people love each other, they must be able to be together, it is really not necessarily.
In love, there are really many couples, they are indeed very happy or happy with each other, but after all, they just miss each other in their hearts, and they have become a cinnabar mole in each other's hearts, and they have not really come together.
Love each other but can't be together, generally the following five reasons.
Both were too passive to fight for together.
Some people, the two of them obviously love each other, but no one is willing to pick it out, and no one is willing to take the initiative more. They have been in love like that, until there is a day of envy and destruction, and one person really doesn't want to wait any longer, so he chooses to turn around and leave, just like that, a fate that should have been achieved, and there will be no follow-up like that.
The parents interfered in the marriage and forcibly broke up each other.
No matter what era it is, marriage is never a matter of two people, but of two families. In some relationships, both parties want to spend this life together, but the parents will disagree with the relationship because of family factors or something, and force the two to separate, and as a result, they are really separated.
Because of the distance, I finally chose to give up.
Love has nothing to do with height, age, distance, two hearts that are far apart can still fall in love with each other. But at the same time, love and life are two different things, when two people in a different place always love each other across the screen, and no one is willing to compromise and go to the place where the other party is, then after a long time, the relationship is often gone.
The misunderstanding was not resolved in time, and they broke up after getting angry.
When two people are together, it is inevitable that all kinds of contradictions and misunderstandings will occur, when the misunderstanding happens, if one brother is unwilling to ask the reason, and the other is unwilling to say the reason, then they will often start to be angry, and as a result, neither of them will bow their heads, and the result is inexplicable, the two people are really no more, no later.
It was too painful to be together and decided to let each other go.
It is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, some people are attracted to each other and love each other again, but as long as they get along, there are all kinds of problems, all kinds of pain, all kinds of troubles. When they are together, when they are sad, there are too many more than when they are happy, and in the end they don't want to live so painfully, so no matter how much they love each other, they still choose to let each other go.
Are you with the person you like now, or have you also lost the person you love very much?
Seriously, a lot of feelings are really not that they can't be together, but that they really didn't grasp it well and chose to give up too early. Then, after that person left, I always thought that if I had worked harder at that time, the result would have been different.
It's just that there are no ifs in this world, and there is no restart, so when you meet love, you must not give up easily, but if you really can't be together, then after all, you have worked hard, and you don't always have to feel regretful.
I can feel your pain, because I have encountered it myself, but this is a reality, we must accept it, maybe you will often think of each other when you are not together, maybe you will feel each other like this and that after being together for a long time, so as long as it is love from the heart, no matter how far away, the heart will always be connected. >>>More
There are many people who love each other, but there are too few people who can stay together, they have become confidants, but they can't be lovers, they have become lovers, but they can't be husband and wife, they are deeply attached to each other, and for various reasons, they have to let go and have to separate. Although they are not together, they are still indispensable to remember, not friends, more attentive than friends, not partners, but always remember that this kind of relationship is better than love similar to family affection, I can't tell what the relationship is, I don't need to ask what the reason is, so I have no regrets and am willing. In this life, there is no chance to get along day and night, and you can't justifiably be a companion day and night, you want to continue to contact but are afraid of causing trouble, you want to fade out of sight and can't help but miss, you want to escape, you can't escape, you want to let go, you are reluctant, even if you can't hold hands, as long as the other party is safe, even if you can only chat, it is better than not seeing each other for a lifetime. >>>More
Society is complex, and at the same time life is complex. It's not easy to fall in love, but it's even more difficult to be together, to cherish it, but not people who love each other can be together, there are many factors to consider, such as family, living conditions, etc., no matter what kind of marriage in society is based on the economy (only on behalf of my personal opinion), love can not become marriage, and marriage does not necessarily have love. Those who have lovers and eventually become dependents also exist, but the vast majority of them still appear in love**. >>>More
If the two love for a long time, how can they be in the morning and twilight?! >>>More
Ideological work still has to be done, but if it is too much of an obstacle, then put it aside first, as long as the two of you have a firm belief to be together, then get the certificate first, and the matter will be done, and slowly the family will turn a blind eye, but it is only temporary, if you want her family to be completely reassured, you have to ask you to work hard after marriage, and strive to achieve something as soon as possible, so that you can sit back and relax, and her family will treat each other differently!