What should I do, if I don t have the confidence to get married, how will our children live in the f

Cities with high average incomes generally have high pressures and the cost of living.

Such as house prices, rent, transportation expenses, living expenses, meals, entertainment...

Many people are just glamorous on the surface, and if you look deeper, you will find that the reality is very different from what you see.

In addition, the income from your friends is only an isolated phenomenon, which is inseparable from personal ability, stress resistance, opportunities and strengths.

If you're better than them, consider going to those cities to try your hand at developing. After all, the opportunity will still be greater than Jingzhou.

It is advisable to consider your personal characteristics, career plans, vision for the future...

Not every city is suitable for everyone, and economic income is only one criterion, not all.

1。Opportunity is always for those who are prepared, and people get so much salary because of hard work and opportunity!

2。People must have a way before they reach the mountain, accumulate their own experience, think more about how to make money, but worry about uselessness.

3。Man can only rely on action forever.

You're worrying about this.

Let it be.

Others have the ability to take a lot of money.

It's not just about thinking.

You don't have any money right now.

You can save money.

When you save enough money to open a small shop or something, you can open your own shop or something.

No one is directly rich.

It all starts from the basics.

People are more popular than dead people, and you can't compare so much. Yes, money is really important these days, but it's useless to worry, it's better to spend your mind thinking about how to make more money. If you don't have money, don't have children so quickly, don't get married so soon if you don't have money, put your mind on your career, hard-working people will always develop, not to mention that you have a boyfriend, two people work hard together, it's not that you are worried in the future, it's not that you're jealous, it's that others envy you.

Come on. I'm also struggling now, I firmly believe that hard-working people will not be bitter to the end, as for children, when you think you are mature, have capital, and can give him a happy life, think about it.

Then work hard, the living standard in Hubei is 3200, and it is enough for two people to live, think about having a child.

See if the person you want to marry is worth the bet you make for his life, marriage is very long, and others can't help you make any decisions, because bystanders don't have your love story, and they don't have the memories of the two of you. If your love can withstand the wind and rain, what can temporary wealth and poverty be worth? Remember, the important thing is that the person who will accompany you through the second half of your life must be the person you love, and of course, he must love you ...

The gap between the rich and the poor is a social problem, you are still young, there are still many opportunities, now that you are aware of it, you can work hard to make some changes, and the two of you can help each other together, believing that life will soon be changed.

Isn't it okay to only live happily and happily, in Wuhan you have 3200 enough, be content and happy, don't have the mentality of comparison

Entrepreneurship! Success or failure is yours again, just a hint, after getting married, the two of them work together.

This is indeed very realistic, but the standard of living is different in every place and every place, sometimes it is necessary to look at the problem from a different angle, and earning more money can indeed change the quality of life, but also consider the actual situation, if you want to change the status quo, you have to work hard to change all this.

The child definitely wants to stay. If you don't contact your ex-boyfriend and ignore him for a long time, he will naturally give up. The key is yourself, if you want to make a decision, you have to be resolute and make up your mind.

It seems that your husband is quite good, don't miss it. My husband has a good relationship with my mother-in-law, and I am very happy in my married life. After giving birth to a child, you will naturally become responsible and motherly.

Children inspire every woman's sense of responsibility and maternal love. When you have children, you have to take care of them, life will be very fulfilling, you will not have time to think about the things before, you will rediscover the beauty of life.

To this child! It is a sin to have a miscarriage and kill a child.

Your husband is good to you, and since you have chosen to marry him, you must be responsible for your husband, your family, and your marriage.

You are now playing behind your husband's back and your ex-boyfriend, and you are already sorry for him, he must be very sad to know, he spoils you so much, in exchange for you like this, are you very at ease? ?

Your husband is 31 years old, not young, men very much hope to have a complete family, in order to rest assured to do things outside, you should give birth to this baby, this is the crystallization of your love, how can you bear to kill a child!

Your ex-boyfriend knows that you are married, and he shouldn't bother you at all, if he wants you to be happy, he should silently bless you, think about it, he is destroying your family, what's the difference with the mistress, as you shouldn't do anything that damages the family.

Don't be playful, you should be responsible for life!

Sister Maybe I have something to say, but I really want to be good for you, I advise you to keep this child, while you are young, the baby will be very healthy, beautiful and smart.

Your ex-boyfriend is an irresponsible person, and even if you get divorced, it won't be very good for you. Because, what he is doing now is very selfish, and he doesn't think about your situation at all, do you think it's worth it to abandon your current happy life and entrust your life to someone like that? If you can live with your current husband wholeheartedly, you will definitely find your own true love.

You can't be too selfish, you can't have both! Now that you are married, you should put yourself in the right position, your ex-boyfriend has nothing to do with it, and your inseparability in this way will have an impact on your family! Ask yourself what you really want, don't hurt the child when the child is born!

Do what a mother should do! Remember that you have already graduated from college.

You have to figure out who you really like in your heart? If it's your ex-boyfriend, then you don't want this child, otherwise you won't give him happiness.

Listen to me, want this child, really After having this child, everything will be fine, and you will find that you don't have to worry about how to let go of that relationship, because before you know it, you no longer have the same feelings for him as before, instead of the bland happiness of your family of three

Believe me, it's really different when a woman becomes a mother.

I have read your article and I sympathize with you.

Sympathize with you for not being able to walk out in love. But I look down on you more that a woman is the biggest spiritual pillar behind a man, and if he knows everything, he may give up on himself. You'll regret it by that time.

Your ex-boyfriend is also too unconscious to break up with you in the first place. Have you ever thought about it? Now that you have a husband, he's coming back to you.

It's probably for your body, for his own selfish desires. You're so silly.

Don't contact him anymore, be an ordinary wife, support your husband, and the family will be happier.

I hope you can get out of this man's shadow.

Don't put it for now, because if you don't have confidence in both parties, it will hurt the child in the end.

The child is innocent, and when he gets married, he must accept his heart. Sometimes life is a responsibility.

I can't date my ex-boyfriend anymore, and when I give birth to a child, I'll break it off for you.

Do you want to eat at this house and live at that house? Can you be more dedicated! Your husband knows you're going to be heartbroken like this!

If you love your child and wish him a good future, think carefully.

This is an issue that no one else can meddle in. Of course, persuasion and comfort are also useful, but the fundamental reason why the problem can be solved in the end is that the psychological understanding of the unfortunate child in the family can be changed.

Most of these children are either very willful or obedient, but they have one thing in common is that they seem to be strong. Attention, I'm talking about looks, because in fact, their hearts will be more or less affected by the family, in fact, they are very fragile, and they want more care. They always learn to love themselves.

Some children are born very sunny and optimistic, they don't think too much, they are willing to give, and such children are easy to be happy, because they want to make life simple. Another kind of child, the mind is heavier, and the lover who needs to have him can give him enough tolerance and security, (but don't let him be overly dependent, it is not good for anyone) he will not always need that kind of care, and it will be good to take him out of the shadows

Let's analyze it for you: you don't want children now, mainly because you don't have confidence in this marriage, and you don't have confidence in marriage because of your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict, this process is right, the problem lies in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict, this is the focus of the problem, there is this problem is not just whether to have children, but the future of your marriage, so you should immediately talk about your thoughts and your boss openly and honestly, talk about it seriously, let the husband be the neutralizer between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that there will be a turnaround, So your husband is a key, talk to your husband well!

If the children of single-parent families are not filial to their parents, do you think that is good?

A man was a child before he got married, and he is no longer a child after he gets married because he has the teaching and guidance of his wife, and after you have a good relationship with your parents, you will get along in harmony!

Because he is a single parent, can the old man not want to hold his grandson early? Sometimes the child happens to be the best in the family"Lubricants"

Doesn't life after marriage require concessions and accommodations from both parties?

Your whole life is ruined. Kiss! You don't have faith in this marriage, why don't you have this child.

Then take safety measures, get a lot of jobs, and put your heart on your career, so that you can use your career as an excuse.

If you don't get married, you don't give it. If the relationship is particularly good, you can give some small gifts.

You don't need to buy something to eat or play.

Generally speaking, if you are not married, you can't give other children New Year's money or something.

Yes, agree with the above.

Persuade! Or give the other person some time.

Congratulations, you won, it's the kid who lost!

If you are married, there must be love between you, why can't love live together? Didn't you know him when you were in love? Why is it possible then, but not now?

Husband and wife live together, not according to his way of life, not according to your way of life, it is you who work together to find the most suitable way of life for both of you, and both of you have to accommodate each other, so that you will be happy and happy.

Since you can't live with him, why did you marry him and have children in the first place?

Impulse is the devil ...

There is nothing wrong or right in choosing your own path. Don't blame yourself, sometimes everyone has their own difficulties. I believe that as a mother, it is very helpless to make such a choice!

Although divorced, you are still the child's real mother, maternal love is always great, work hard to make money in the future, and try to compensate for the responsibilities of motherhood on the road of children's growth!

Personally, I think that as a parent must be responsible for the child, it is he who brought him into this world, he can not abandon him, no matter what the reason can not be a reason, there is no life can not go on, but he does not want to accept that kind of life, no matter how difficult the predicament, hard work and persistence will eventually pay off, the 15-month-old child does not have a mother means that he you are equal to not exist in his world, if the child grows up and knows that he is abandoned by his mother, it will have a great psychological shadow on the child, It is unfair to consider the child only from your own interests, whether the child's father can take the child well, what will happen to the child's life in the future, the mother must always care about it, you leave your child, you are unhappy, you feel guilty, and at the same time bring tragedy to your child, consider the problem in many aspects, it is not only your current road can go on.

Be honest with each other before you are married and be sure to say it! Otherwise, you will live in a state of uneasiness all the time.

If he really loves you, accept everything about you.

It's better to tell him about this, because it would be terrible if he was discovered. Their relatives still use this as a handle and despise it. Anyway, I don't think it matters, this year is not the feudal era.

It's not your fault, you don't have too much inferiority, if your husband really loves you, he won't mind these things, or say it!

When you talk about a boyfriend in the future, you must tell your boyfriend about your experience, and if he can accept your past, continue to have a deep relationship. You can hide it for the time being, but you can't hold the fire in the paper, and when he knows that he has been deceived, what do you know about the result? You must be honest, as long as you are honest with others, they will value your personality and accept you and your past.

Self-deception or deception, that is a waste of the feelings of both parties!

It's better to admit it, sooner or later, you will know.

Be a real person and do things seriously. You can't hold the fire in the paper, look at your calligraphy and painting, you are a kind person, be honest, others will accept you.

Let's talk about it at the right time.

First of all, the birth permit is handled at the woman's place of residence by default.

Secondly, applying for a birth permit in ** does not affect the household entry at all.

You only need to bring your household registration book (male or female) birth certificate and birth permit to the Public Security Bureau, and you can complete it immediately.