How to deal with a relationship that seems inappropriate?

The most taboo thing in a relationship is indecision, and when a relationship doesn't seem to be a good fit, you should say it's broken up. If you don't make a decision and you think in your heart that your relationship is not suitable for many things, the relationship will eventually lose both.

Some lovers are not suitable for us, but their own feelings for each other are very firm, they think that whether we are suitable or not, I like each other alone, no matter who opposes us in the future, I have to be her, so such lovers usually will be together. <>

There seem to be many people in our lives who are not in the right household, but one of the parties in this relationship does not care about these so-called external conditions, and he thinks that the most important thing is the person he likes. My sister and my brother-in-law are like this, my sister's family conditions are average, but the man is very rich. My sister's family didn't want them to be together, because they were worried that the man would treat her badly in the future, and they were afraid that her sister would be bullied in the man's family, but my sister ignored the opposition of the family, and they still got married, and the man and the woman were still very happy together after marriage, and they didn't show up.

Happiness between them is due to the fact that both are firm about their future. Others themselves think that they are incompatible with each other, so they will leave room for themselves in their relationship. When another boyfriend is better than her current boyfriend, she will abandon her boyfriend and choose another person.

Whether two people are compatible or not depends on whether the love between the two parties is still there, and if one person is not in love, he will think that they are not suitable for each other. Slowly, the two of them dispersed. Two people's belief in this relationship is an important factor that supports the longevity of this relationship.

If there is no conviction, how can it be appropriate?

Since it is not suitable, you should decisively choose to break up, and there is no point in delaying or continuing.

The ultimate destination of every relationship is marriage, when choosing a boyfriend and girlfriend, we must uphold the attitude of taking feelings seriously, love is a very sacred thing, so we can not tolerate the slightest compromise, since we find that it is not suitable, we should give up.

Recently, a roommate broke up with her boyfriend, and she was immersed in the grief of a broken love all day, so I listened to her and her boyfriend's story in order to help her get out smoothly and devote herself to her studies.

At the beginning of the relationship, her boyfriend was warm and caring for her, and he was always tolerant of his roommate's occasional willfulness and temper, but after a long time, he gradually felt that his roommate was unreasonable, and finally the conflict broke out, and they chose to break up.

If the roommate's little temper is completely unreasonable, his boyfriend chooses to break up, I think this is understandable, but most of the time the roommate is angry for a reason, not simply unreasonable, but his boyfriend still can't accept it, everything is considered from his own point of view, and he can always find a lot of reasons to prove that he is right, and the roommate is wrong, and also asks the roommate to change her little temper.

In this case, I would think that they are inappropriate, because the roommate's boyfriend is an absolutely rational person, he always has a strong sense of purpose in doing things, and has a little machismo, such a guy should be suitable for a girl who is a little bit more obedient to the bird, and can obey him, but my roommate is not such a person, she is a very independent girl, she has her own opinions about things, no matter what, the roommate cannot be the kind of girl that her boyfriend likes.

Therefore, I also enlightened my roommates that it is completely unnecessary to waste time in a relationship that is not suitable for both parties, and of course you have to find a suitable person when you fall in love, in this case, if you meet an inappropriate person, you should let go decisively, which is also a relief.

In fact, there is no such thing as whether the relationship is inappropriate or not, only whether you are willing to change yourself for the sake of this relationship to make yourself a better person and more suitable for the other party. No two people are born to be very suitable, even if two people have similar personalities, there will be times when there are differences of opinion, and there will be times when there will be disagreements, this disagreement does not mean that the two of you are not suitable, but you are not suitable for each other now, and there are many things that need to be improved for each other. If you really like this person, you must not break up because it doesn't seem suitable, this is a very impulsive decision, and it is irreversible, maybe you are young and frivolous now, and you don't know how difficult it is to meet someone you like and like yourself.

First of all, you must correct your mentality, and you can't think that the two of you will definitely not be able to go on from the beginning. If a relationship starts to have this kind of thought, then the relationship is about to last too. The sense of security in love is mutual, and if you both don't trust the relationship, then what's the love.

Since you have chosen to be with him, you must have the determination and courage to go on with her, regardless of what others think and think, the relationship between the two of you is a matter between the two of you.

The second is that you both have to make some changes for each other, it doesn't matter if two people don't seem to fit, but we are willing to change for the sake of love and for each other. Of course, the two of you can think about each other and change your habits of dissatisfaction with each other or your mindfulness. I believe that both sides will definitely pay attention to this issue and then slowly change it.

Don't blindly follow your own temperament, think more about everything from the other party's point of view, and understand each other to be more of a person. If you have been running in for a while, you will find that there is nothing wrong with you, and as long as you are willing to be together, nothing can hinder you.

If this relationship is really inappropriate, I think it should be ended, so as not to waste everyone's youth. If it just doesn't seem to be suitable, but if it's actually suitable, I think you should manage the relationship well and don't think too much. After all, it is not an easy task to meet the right person, and it costs to let go easily.

Because life is short, the beautiful youth is even more precious, and instead of holding an inappropriate relationship, forcing yourself to fall in love, forcing yourself to accept this relationship, why bother? If you are unhappy when you fall in love, the other party may not be happy. Because you will definitely not have such a deep investment in this inappropriate relationship, you will even show it openly and secretly and involuntarily, then your other half will definitely be aware of it.

If he doesn't notice it, either he loves you too much and doesn't know it deeply, or his emotional intelligence is not high enough, the former will not hurt him in the slightest if you take the initiative to end the relationship, but it will allow him to also look for a spring, after all, the forest is so big, he doesn't need to hang himself on a tree. If he is the latter, then in your heart, if you think it is really possible to go on, then don't doubt the relationship, don't think so much. That's what I'm going to talk about next.

If you just feel that this relationship that doesn't seem to be suitable is actually appropriate, or this seems to be just something that you suddenly feel for a while, then I don't think you should think about it so much, because in fact, you still think about this relationship in your heart, but you don't notice it. If you don't know your true attitude towards the relationship yet, you can try to test yourself. If it is found that the relationship is suitable, you should give more thought to manage the relationship, care more about the other person, give more trust, and be less suspicious.

After all, what a blessing it is to meet the right person in your life! Don't give up because of a delusion. Recognize your heart before you act.

Feelings are such a thing as difficult to figure out, whether it is an outsider or an insider, they can't see it thoroughly.

As the title says: What do you think about a relationship that doesn't fit? Then this is very interesting, what kind of relationship can be said to be appropriate?

I believe that no one person can give a convincing answer to everyone. People are born different, and the biggest difference is in the thoughts in the head. Nowadays, technology is so advanced that plastic surgery can be made into any look you want, but only the brain cannot change it.

Therefore, whether a relationship is suitable or not depends on how the parties think.

In my opinion, two people have feelings, eat and play together will feel very comfortable, even if outsiders, they are not suitable for age or family background, so what, as long as two people do not feel embarrassed in getting along but very comfortable, it is suitable, and do not care too much about other people's eyes.

In my opinion, if you are suitable, you are suitable for yourself, so a relationship does not need outsiders to look at it, as long as you are comfortable with each other and feel worthy of each other, it is enough.

Time is the best medicine for sadness, it may be uncomfortable at the beginning but everything will always be fine, learn to divert your attention, if you have time, you can travel, because you can see different scenery and different people during the journey, out of their current circle will not only broaden their horizons, together with the idea and pattern will become different, I believe that the time will no longer be limited to the current state.

It's hard to have a standard answer to emotional matters.

After a period of contact, I found that it was not suitable, but after all, I have been together for a while, and I can't let go.

It's normal, and it's okay if you just mess it up. If you pursue the ideal happiness, then you should give up decisively and do not delay each other's time.

The way to let go of this relationship, you can try to devote yourself to work, make yourself very tired, have no time or energy to think about it, and slowly you forget about this relationship.

If you don't let go of the inappropriate feelings, you will regret it for the rest of your life, and you must let it go.

How to judge whether a relationship is suitable, feelings are a beautiful and unforgettable experience that every adult man and woman must experience, and it is also the most beautiful process in life. But if you want to judge whether a relationship is suitable for you, you need the following points!

1.Feelings are men and women who love each other, the blending of hearts and hearts, the collision of love and love, the most important fit is that deep in each other's hearts they really like each other, and the other party really likes themselves, they are willing to pay for each other, they are willing to change themselves, they can accept each other's shortcomings, and can tolerate, understand, and trust. Regardless of the disaster of poverty and wealth, they are willing to spend time with each other.

Never give up, never regret life and death.

2.The three views are suitable, the personalities are complementary, the other party can motivate themselves to grow, and the two parties are together, feeling comfortable, happy, and happy from the bottom of their hearts. Giving this life to the other party has a strong sense of security, and it feels very worthwhile.

3.The other party's family, the other party's character, character, are all reliable, no bad habits, kind, honest and loyal, love you, care, love, love women, love children, love, filial piety, responsibility, and a grateful heart.

4.The other person can tolerate your bad temper, you can tolerate his little personality, trust each other in life, be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings, be able to tolerate the other person's bad temper when they are in a bad mood, the other person is tired, can understand, can comfort each other, can respect each other, and appreciate each other more. And can motivate each other to progress, and be able to grow with each other.

5.Be responsible, responsible, loyal to each other's feelings, and be able to adhere to the moral bottom line, abide by the rules of marriage, not be distracted, have the ability to be self-sustaining, and be able to protect each other for the rest of their lives. Be loyal to each other's feelings and never betray.

The two sides are very emotionally harmonious together, the three views are suitable, the personalities are complementary, they can communicate on the common frequency, without any discomfort, the body and mind are very comfortable, happy, and even the soul feels very comfortable and happy, which is the highest level of affection!

You can feel happy in getting along, and this relationship is for you.

Love is never difficult, you can feel joy and happiness in the time you spend together, and your love is suitable for you. On the contrary, when you always feel uncomfortable and wronged in love, then this relationship may not be the love you want.

Love makes people happy, and an unhappy love life is not true love. In a true love, two people may not go to the end, but their lives before they really break up will be full of happiness.

My first love and I are such a love, and we have had a lot of joy and happiness to remember in the past few years together. The two of us have experienced a lot together, and those things are only happy, and I have never felt wronged.

It's just that after this relationship broke up, I didn't forget him for many years. Although he will no longer have much impact on my life, I will never forget that emotion for the rest of my life.

It's not suitable for me, it's just your subjective feeling, and if you feel happy, it's suitable. In fact, whether you feel suitable or not has little to do with whether this relationship can go to the end. It's just a subjective feeling, and maybe it's an illusion from beginning to end.

But we care about this feeling very much, and we especially hope that this relationship can come to an end. So happiness has become the best criterion for judging whether the relationship is suitable or inappropriate, you can feel happy in getting along, this is the love that suits you, you can't feel pleasure in getting along, this relationship may not be suitable for you.

This method is simple and easy, and the accuracy rate is relatively high, but it is not very friendly to slow burners. But there is no perfect way to live in life, and everyone needs to evaluate a relationship in their own way.

Love is like a shoe on your feet, fit or not, comfortable or uncomfortable, only you know best. Others can only see what shoes look like, but they can never appreciate what it feels like to wear them.

Your love is your decision, and no one can give you too precise an answer.