Is it better to find a ready made rich and handsome person or find an average person who is self mot

I feel that you should choose someone who is self-motivated and has potential, because before he succeeds, he will know what is hard-won, what should be cherished, and what he needs most, so that he will love you well when he succeeds. However, in today's society, there are more choices for being rich and handsome, because a woman's good times are only a few years, which cannot be wasted, and many people are unwilling to wait for the person who should wait, they only see the present, but not the future, so there is a higher divorce rate.

That's up to you. If it is a ready-made rich and handsome, I think most girls will choose him without hesitation, because it is now a material society, ** all need money, and he can immediately give you the security of life. However, there are also disadvantages, this kind of rich and handsome has superior conditions, and may be attentive, and may not necessarily guarantee that he only loves you or loves you all the time; And the potential stocks you mentioned, there are a lot of unknown factors, now the potential stocks may not be potential stocks in a few years, and the potential stocks may not necessarily be able to succeed in the future, you want to get the material like Gao Fu Shuai may have to wait for a long time.

However, if he loves you very much, and you choose him, he should cherish you very much, because you can sacrifice material things to be with a poor man who has no money. Both have their own benefits, and it's up to you.

I'm guessing you'll want to hear the answer from the poor and self-motivated people in your family. But the reality is that many people choose what they see with their eyes. It's like the food in the market. The two dishes are put together, one is beautifully packaged, and the other is just on the shelf.

It is a plant grown by a farmer. They are the same**. People will choose the beautiful packaging. Because they look at it, it makes people feel more upscale and safe.

Under the same conditions as having to choose**. People tend to be more receptive to being packed with flashy.

The former, I think there will be many people like me, although they may not necessarily say it, after staying for a long time, you will find that in this world, you are nothing without money, you can say that I worship money, I have no objection.

Gao Fu Shuai because you don't know, if the poor person will become bad when he gets rich in the future.

It depends on the feeling, as well as the character and morality.

If the latter is a handsome guy, decide the latter.

If you're lucky, you can find a wife who lives a good life and is content with the status quo.

Average-looking, don't want to work. Take the kids and do some housework.

You should always have some advantages, honesty, duty, and this is also a strength.

Find a vicious dominatrix who says you're useless all day long.

Find a normal wife,

It's the same as ta, but feelings don't depend on luck, they depend on fate.

It's good, I like the unmotivated.

As long as the heart is good to you, you don't have to look too good, too good-looking is insecure, too ugly doesn't feel it, as long as you like it.

The dragon is matched with the dragon, the phoenix is matched with the phoenix, and the object is found according to their actual situation, otherwise it will not be happy.

Just find someone who loves you, if you don't love you, having money is also a tragedy.

Don't look for it. You can't live without money, and the ugly looks at it every day.

This is to ask yourself, who is your true love, only you know.

The one who is good to you is the one who is sincere.

It depends on what you focus on, which one you prefer, and which one is more sincere to you.

It depends on the situation, feelings can't be said, it's good to go with the flow.

Personally, I think it mainly depends on which man is self-motivated.

It's best to find a man who likes you and spoils you.

Find someone who loves you, is kind to you, tolerates you, understands you, and you love him.

Hehe, the former and the latter are all men!.

It's up to each person to choose.

There is a story that when he was in high school, a poor boy was optimistic about the daughter of a wealthy family in his class, but obviously the daughter would not take a fancy to the poor boy. The poor boy chased his daughter for nine years, and no matter how many failed feelings the daughter experienced, finally the daughter was moved by the poor boy and got married. After a few more years, his classmates saw him driving a luxury car with a junior...

Depending on whether or not a person is willing to squeeze out their leisure time and devote themselves to the cause they are engaged in, a person who can control his desires and inertia has a lot of potential.

It's the New Year, the family is like this, the blessing of you will not say you, do not bless you, watch jokes, stand and talk without backache love to say this, teach you two methods, these two pictures, just deal with them according to what is said above, and remember to live your own life, don't make yourself sad, let the people who love you sad, and care about other people.

The Chinese New Year is approaching, and the family is in a hurry. I guess I want you not to be so demanding and find someone to marry as soon as possible. Family, it's just that they are afraid that their children won't be able to find a partner.

Why care too much about other people's opinions, life is your life, how tiring it is to live in the eyes of others forever, and you can't live in the ideal state of others. Don't embarrass yourself, in decades of life, happiness is the most important thing.

Who are "they"? Is "they" so heavy about what they say? It's good to be yourself, look for it when you feel right, don't care about "their" opinion, who knows if you can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour?

Parents shouldn't say such things, if it's a girlfriend, they shouldn't say such things, and ordinary friends should be the wind in their ears.

Now people should be realistic, but it's almost enough, the most important thing is to be suitable for yourself is the most important thing.

They are jealous of you, be yourself, and should not care about other people's opinions.

In fact, Gao Fu Shuai also means that he is tall in his eyes, rich in his heart, and handsome in personality.

bai, that depends on what kind of identity you have after birth

What identity zhi person dao

will say what identity will be back.

So finally conclude with a reply.

Self-motivation is the most important thing, rich and handsome, no matter how rich your family is, you will be defeated if you are not self-motivated.

Everyone's pursuit is different, some people value appearance and money, whether you admit it or not, such people are not in the minority. Some people value character, such as the owner of the building.

I can only say that in the current society of CAO and Dan, Gao Fushuai may not be able to experience the happiness of self-motivated people who succeed through hard work in their lives, but the advantages that Gao Fushuai has since birth are not only self-motivated can make up for it casually.

In today's society, do you adapt to society, or does society adapt to you? This question is the most realistic.

It makes sense that you can't just look at your appearance, the key is to know that you are enterprising, otherwise you will be eliminated sooner or later.

Rich is really only when you are in it, you will understand.

In favor, potential stocks are better.

Ability is a person's core competitiveness.

Then you blacklist all those who agree.

Yes, if you are not self-motivated, then what you get is only superficial things, flashy.

Rich and handsome is a moment, and self-motivation is a lifetime.

Agree, the temperament of a self-motivated person will be much higher.

Of course, it's the former, and in this pompous society, it's time to find some positive people or things.

If you can endure cruel domestic violence, a rich and handsome guy will be very suitable for you, but don't think about equal love.

Let's be realistic, only people who love you will be good to you and will really take care of you, so I choose the rich one.

Rich and handsome, do you think you will be with you for a long time? A person's life is not long, or try to be happy and happy every day, or find someone who loves you and loves you every day, be practical, grasp the big one, what do you say? Right?

Of course, it's to find self-motivated people who love you.

I would choose the latter, don't call me vain, because this society is too realistic.

Finding a partner is not about how much money he has, but how much he is willing to spend for you.

It's a bit of both, but it's very few.

Everyone is an adult, be realistic, whoever is good to you will follow.

Sister is hesitant, in fact, it is quite difficult for you, the key is how this man hurts you or not, it is worth your trust for life, in other words, it is useless to be rich if it is not good for you, right, sister.

It depends on what type of girl is generally born into a wealthy family, and she doesn't care too much about whether the boy she likes is rich or not, as long as it's about the same. Because she has never bothered about money since she was a child, it is difficult to buy true happiness with more money And for those girls with poor family conditions, rich boys are generally.

This depends on whether he is a potential stock, but even if he is self-motivated, the society is cruel, and he wants to change the fate of the poor, not if he has ideas and ambitions, it is very difficult, I am at the age you said with a self-motivated poor boy, and now he is still struggling for survival, I really feel very painful, now the child is more than two years old, and I worry about money every day, I have no worries about food and clothing, but now I have the idea of suicide in addition to divorce, because it is too difficult, if you want to experience, go to a poor family to experience it, See if you can adapt to the choice, I've been for four years, or I can't adapt to his family's life, life is a trivial matter, it's a big deal, the food is not good, the dress is not good, the most important thing is the concept, I can't communicate at all, I can still communicate with him, slowly he also said me with the concept of poverty, at first I used hundreds of cosmetics, bought one or two hundred clothes, and now he wants me to buy a hundred things, and as soon as I spend money, I get angry every day for money, in short, no matter who you follow, in fact, life revolves around a word money, If time could go back, I would never waste my life for feelings, because only money can solve most problems.

Absolutely, as long as you are all down-to-earth, your life will be very happy.

28 years old is a good age. In fact, the one you are asking has nothing to do with age, because it involves marriage, that is, marriage. Just imagine, at the age of 24, can I still marry a poor boy who is self-motivated?

Can I still marry a poor boy who is self-motivated at the age of 30? If you get married, you are married, unless you say that it is okay to marry and divorce when I am young, then this problem does not exist.

If you're 28, then I guess the man should be a little older than this, so how can you be self-motivated and have no highlights at all at this age? I think it may be that the wealth has not been accumulated yet. However, there are also those who are only superficially self-motivated, and it is the same for many years.

For young people now, the importance of family background is important. Because everything is too fast. If you are increasingly worried or uneasy, I advise you to explain it.

However, many times fate is not what we choose, but follow fate, if there is really providence, maybe there will be a rich and handsome in front of you, when the time comes, I don't know if you will still have a sense of unease, because after all, it is rich and handsome.

Don't, find a Li Ka-shing and marry!

Hehe, of course, I wish you all happiness.