Looking for a boyfriend with a good family background? Or are you willing to live a hard life? 5

Is there still a hard time in this society? As long as you have something to eat, your life will be happy, and besides, are you sure that your boyfriend will make you live a hard life? Is there so little faith in him?

I'm basically in the same situation as you now, my boyfriend's family conditions are very poor, his father's leg is not good, his mother doesn't work, and there is an older brother at home who wants to divorce, and my boyfriend assembles the computer by himself, the store is very small, but the two of us are very happy, although there is no money, and the family has no background, but we encourage each other, life is very sweet, my family conditions are very good, my mother is a retired teacher, and my father is still in school and is also a teacher. My sister is married, our family relationship is very extensive, at first I had similar ideas with you, I wanted to find someone with a background in the family, so that I would not lack anything, and my life was very superior, but I didn't want to, I just thought about it, because I believe that my boyfriend will not be willing to let me suffer, and he will cherish our relationship very much.

Marriage is nothing more than the spiritual or material needs of two people, I believe that material can be created, and spirit is not easy to find in your life!

I don't talk much, but I hope what I say will help you and I wish you happiness!

If only I found a boyfriend with a good family background, but only if you don't hate him! Because feelings can be cultivated slowly, wouldn't it be missed if others have good abilities and good backgrounds. Believe me, under a difficult condition, two people who love each other will be slowly smoothed out by time and hardships in life, and in the end only pain will remain...

There are still many poor people in this world, and the most important thing is to look at yourself, do you think you will be happy to live a hard life with him? If not, then ... Hehe, you know.

But it's really not easy to live a hard life, you must be more tolerant of each other, let him feel that you love him, although he is willing to live a hard life, but I also hope that he will be motivated...

Find someone who is really good to you,,, but economic stability, love or family can be stable, but the relationship is unstable, then love or family is in the air.

Most marriages with good backgrounds and no material foundation can not be happy.

Everyone's experience is different, so the idea is different. So it's up to you how you choose. Wishing you happiness.

Is anyone willing to live a hard life???

Look at your question, who doesn't want to live a good life, but not everyone has this life.

It's up to you

People don't live this life entirely for money! Think about it yourself.

I hope you find a good home and I wish you happiness.

Only if you have money will you not live a hard life, and no matter how rich others are, they will be someone else's.

Find someone who is genuinely good to you.

A hard life, but with a certain economy.

The conditions are good, but I'd rather not be happy!

The days are hard, and the people around me can live with the taste!

The child wants to forgive her, she needs love!

Maybe your mother and your father don't have a relationship, or your father is sorry for your mother, parents can't say too much about you, and you don't hold a grudge against them!

Maybe it's because your dad doesn't have money, or maybe it's because you're not happy. Most girls want a rich and good man, and abandoning the family is nothing more than being unhappy here.

It's just that you haven't come across a better one! Time will tell.

I am not afraid of hard days, but I am afraid of not being motivated, and I will live a hard life for a lifetime! If you want to be ambitious and motivated, you will get better and better!

It's not that it's demanding, it's just that it's too much to disagree.

It's just that fate hasn't arrived yet.

Hehe, but some people still don't cherish it.

It still depends on people, if people are good, they will be rich if they don't have money, and if they are not good, they may lose if they have money.

If you have talent, of course you will marry a rich man, and you will go to a high place.

If you want to find the right one, don't look for someone who is particularly rich

Guo Degang is rich....Will you marry him?

Of course, a good man is important, although the family is secondary, but the family members must be good.

It is difficult for people's hearts to be satisfied, marry a good man, if the family conditions are not good, they will complain in the future, the family conditions of marriage are very good, and then the man is not good, and they will complain that they are blind and find such a man when they quarrel every day, and the problem will always stare at the things that are not good for us, and the most satisfying thing is that they are all good, but they think beautifully! If you have to choose one, you must marry a good man, if you are a good man, you will not live a hard life.

A good man is important, and if you marry in the past, you will be a nanny. It's just a good family, maybe it used to be a free babysitter.

If the man is good, the family will be good, and if the family is good, the man will be bad, and the family will be bad.

A good man can bring a happy family, and it is more of a spiritual enjoyment. A good family brings material satisfaction, which usually brings temporary happiness, and after a long time, you will feel spiritual emptiness, which can easily lead to a decrease in the satisfaction of your marriage and break down. The best thing is to have both.

You have to make the final decision on how to choose!

It doesn't matter if the family background is good or not, as long as it's not too bad, it's okay, the important thing is that he is good to you....

In the long run, it should be a good man, preferably both. However, the choice is also mutual, and you have to do what you can.

A man is the one who lives with you for the rest of his life, and there are variables in the family.

Good men are important, there is no money to earn together.

Of course, it's important to marry a good man.

If you can, it's best to have both.

If you ask this kind of thing, it means that you care about the latter.

I think it's more important to marry a good man.

Because of your family environment, you have a character that is greedy for material comforts!

Actually, I don't blame you, and I don't have a good or bad character!

But whether rich or poor, the right to love is equal, right?

Okay, let's get down to business:

You blindly emphasize the house and money, have you ever considered: what is love?

Love must meet 3 conditions: 1 is as long as the other party is doing well, even if it is not with himself 2 is willing to give the other party a marriage 3 is willing to give everything, even life!

I don't know how you define love, maybe you'll open your mouth and come: there's no money to talk about a hairy love!

Then I want to say: who has no regular job and income these days?

Are sanitation workers still in love?

Your family is not in bad condition, right? At least it's better than my family! Let's be honest!

But I found that having money doesn't bring happiness! You're still struggling with material life!

At this time, the question arises again, how do you plan for your future life?

What do you think of your current relationship?

Marriage for the sake of getting married?

Or is it for love?

If you love each other, just be together, don't be burdened by material things, and if you are obsessed with something, you will be trapped in something!

Today you are entangled in income, and when he is 1w a month, you will still be too low!

Man's desires are endless!

If you don't love, then break up, on your terms, it's not difficult to find someone who really loves you!

Don't change your personality, at least read more books to broaden your horizons and mind!

Money can't solve everything, at least what happened to you for now can explain it!

Addendum: It's just the pursuit of happiness, but the pursuit of happiness than others!

Hehe, terminally ill!

People go to higher places, everyone wants to find better, but you have to understand that the better may not belong to you. There are many rich and powerful men, but they are not necessarily suitable for you. All you can do is live a down-to-earth life with your boyfriend.

Just like Apple, with 4 you want to change 5, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old. But what's right for you is the best.

In fact, it depends on what you think, I'll take myself as a column to explain, my current boyfriend doesn't have a car or a house to do engineering management, and the family conditions are not good, but these can complement me, our family is pretty good, but he is very good to me, very caring and very affectionate, I am reluctant to give me flowers, I think what I want to find is not necessarily good conditions, but he must be technically motivated, love me well, these are necessary, I don't care much about the rest, Because my boyfriend gave me a kind of if I lost him, he would never find someone who loved me so much and was good to me, and it was up to me.

To tell you the truth, you are not Bai Fumei, that is, an ordinary person, what kind of dreams can you have.

If you don't want to do so much, you can live a very happy life with your conditions, my daughter-in-law's conditions are similar to yours, we don't have a house yet, the salary is about the same as yours, isn't it also very fulfilling, there are dreams and two people working together, it's been so long, don't you think it's fake to talk about these now.

Where do you get the confidence to feel that your boyfriend is climbing you, yes, as long as you are willing to pull down your face and find someone rich, of course I don't deny that you may find it. But the age is uncertain, but we don't live with money, right, not to mention that you are not bitter now, right? Even if you take out a loan, you won't be overstretched.

Woman, learn to be content.

In fact, it's enough to live life, and ordinary is true.

I think it's quite suitable, and the man's conditions are pretty good, why do they all cherish it when they don't know how to get it? Now many people can't afford to buy a house, and now that the man has a house, as long as the two of you work hard in the future, no matter how good your life will be, it won't be bitter. I think it's better to cherish the present, don't fantasize about those rich and handsome, how good the conditions are, the people you see, people don't necessarily like you, even if you do, together, people's money will definitely be given to you?

Are you confident that you can control him? Family conditions are very different, and talking at home has no weight.

I've experienced this thing with you, but I'm a man, it's a bit similar, her family is more difficult, my family is relatively wealthy, but the reason we broke up was not because of financial problems, because I was too young at the time, and I was suddenly afraid of being tied up. Now, of course, I regret it until my intestines are blue. Your question, to say that it is actually very simple, the key is that you love him to a certain extent, if you love him deeply, although you go on like this, although it is hard, but you will slowly get better in the future.

If the love is very ordinary, then it will be so bitter that you will always have to separate, because you are from different backgrounds after all. If you just feel that there is no way back and you don't love him much, then the end will be even worse in the future. Calm down and think carefully about the most critical question, the question of how much you love him is really crucial.

If you can't figure it out, there are other ways.

If you don't love him, leave him and say so much, what are you doing? Love and marriage are two different things? Those are the words of some people who don't know how to love. You don't understand love either. I feel sorry for your boyfriend.

The road to happiness is not paved with crystals.

Decades later, when you think back to the old days, maybe then you will know that going through those is also a kind of happiness.

Then I get it

Let's break up, find your ideal marriage...

But God bless you and don't regret it later...

Sister, I'm very similar to your experience My boyfriend's family is very poor and he is the only one left Now I don't have a penny and I don't have a stable job I have lived with him for almost a year I haven't had a good life He is just a good person and knows how to live He said he wants to get married But I don't want to live a hard life anymore We are far away I am afraid that my parents will not agree He asked me to tell my parents I don't have the courage I don't know what to do now.

You're a pushy woman.

Why don't you want to think that many girls who are better than you are looking for a boyfriend who has money, a house and a car, but in the end they are still abandoned?Balance pointMan in the worldThere is a true loveNot bad ...

Then I can only ask you: do you love her? Are you ready to accept him and his family?

You only went to his house for a few days, and you don't know the specific situation of his house, don't jump to conclusions so arbitrarily, observe and understand first. If you feel that you can't accept his family, then you should let it go quickly, so as not to hurt both parties for a long time!

Although this sentence is a bit old-fashioned, only the marriage of the right person is relatively happy.

If the gap between the two of you is too big, whether it is ideology or some daily behavior, even if you are in love, conflicts will continue to arise, and even lead to the breakdown of marriage.

Life is not easy, and there are many restrictions, then living is more tiring, if you think you can still tolerate his behavior, then it's okay, if you are a little uncomfortable before marriage, then it will be more difficult for you to adapt to life after marriage. Marriage is the grave of love, and that's probably what it means

Your boyfriend and my dad seem to be ......I have nothing to do with you, and you didn't give a score for the answer, so I didn't come for it at all, and you may not listen to what I said, but I just want to sincerely advise you: You can't have such a man.

If he wants to live the kind of life with a towel for 20 years, and he also wants you to wear a skirt for 20 years, hurry up, such a man can't see you living well, he thinks that you are spending his money to eat his blood, he is distressed, not only does he feel sorry for you to spend money, but when you have children, he will also feel sorry for your children to spend money, and the family has to live a hard life with him, so he decides to be comfortable. And your parents, you want your object to honor them, unless God opens his eyes to Guanyin and goes down to earth, you take a penny more from home, and he will quarrel with you.

I grew up watching my parents fight and make trouble, our family moved to a new house, just to decorate my parents almost divorced, last year they just divorced, both are fifty years old, and finally divorced, you are not married, but think about it.

I'll say one more thing, it's absolutely impossible for such a man to have any development, he thinks it's good to get that salary for the rest of his life, you want to fight with him, it's impossible, he's lazy, he doesn't want to tire himself, he will drag you when he sees you running forward, you can't be better than him.

In fact, I said so much, you may think "how can it be as serious as you say", time will tell.