I swear again, and I use foul language, how do you tell me to change it?

It's good to pay more attention to it, you must know that trouble comes from the mouth, what to say is to go through it in your heart first and then say it, if you don't pay attention, blurt it out directly, it is easy to hurt people, and it also brings a bad impact on yourself, which is very taboo when you are looking for a job and falling in love! If the other party is too bad, then scold silently in your heart, this is called belly slander, it is a normal drop, just be careful not to say it, I hope you will correct it as soon as possible!

Ha.. Actually, I'm the same as you.

I remember talking to my parents a lot. (For you cannot use foul language in front of them.) Otherwise, it will be cut down. ）

And then. Then tell a few of my better friends about the idea that I want to get rid of this problem. Let them help supervise (I don't have too much self-control and perseverance. If there is no supervision, it will be ...

Of course, there is also the more restrained self that everyone upstairs said. When making remarks or chatting. Think twice before you speak...

I just woke up. There are some places where words don't make sense. The statement doesn't make sense. Thank you for your understanding. I hope the landlord will get rid of this problem as soon as possible. ^

Try not to get excited, people who are excited and don't talk through the brain, blurt out a lot of instincts, like a person who has practiced martial arts for a few years, you shoot him, he suddenly punches you, you calm down, talk slowly, it's okay day by day I'm a person who has come over, and there are a lot of dirty words in elementary school.

Now that you know what is wrong with you, what else can't you change?!Pay more attention when you speak.

Punish yourself with things to keep your memory long, like asking for something to eat, giving a friend 10 bucks, and so on.

Just change the environment and try to restrain this problem.

Ask your friends to communicate with you the way you speak, and you'll feel how others feel.

Learn to cherish it, and accumulate your own virtue for a bright future.

Walking on the street, you can hear some people swearing at any time, some people take swearing as a habit, open their mouths to hang swear words, it seems that one day they don't swear words will feel very uncomfortable, in fact, this is a bad habit, not conducive to the formation of a good social atmosphere, is not conducive to personal development, so how to get rid of the bad habit of swearing?

Method: Read step by step.

1. Engage in self-criticism. As an adult, you should have the ability to control your language and behavior, but you swear from time to time, at this time, you should be harsh self-criticism, criticize yourself more, and let yourself be assertive and reduce the number of swearing.

2Whenever you say a dirty word, screw yourself hard. If, after self-criticism, you still can't correct your bad habit of swearing, then be yourself, when you swear, twist yourself a little, and use the pain to help you get rid of your bad habits.

3. When encountering something, think first and then speak. Many times, we speak without going through the brain, casually, lightly speaking, sometimes always hang the swear words on the lips, at this time, we have to get rid of this bad problem, no matter what big or small things we encounter, no matter who we are talking to, first think about it through the brain before opening our mouths, and hold back the swear words.

4. Replace swear words with civilized or neutral words. The bad habit of swearing is not something that can be corrected in a day or two, and we can replace it with other civilized or neutral words, such as nasty ghosts, really speechless, these more neutral words.

5. Let the people around you supervise you. You can ask your friends or relatives to help you correct this bad problem, you can let them supervise your language, when you swear, your friends or relatives will criticize you, you have to be patient and accept.

6. Engage in autosuggestion often. Psychological suggestion is also a very effective method, when you want to speak, keep on time yourself, don't swear, don't swear, every day you hint, over time, you will get rid of this bad problem.

Develop the habit of speaking to the mouth and don't rush to say it, first think about whether there is a problem with what you say, although swearing has become a habit, but the habit has always been unconsciously formed, and if you consciously correct it, you will change it unconsciously, the circle is also very important, you should contact more people who don't say dirty words, and you will slowly change the bad habit of swearing.

Talking dirty is hated by everyone.

If you don't change your tune, you can't get into the hall of elegance.

So think about it before you speak.

Especially when you're upset.

Be sure to go through your brain before you speak.

Don't let the swear words slip out.

It's good to get used to it slowly.

Being able to realize this problem means that you are still good, swearing is a small habit that you accidentally develop, it is not easy to change at the beginning, speak slowly when speaking, consciously change your own easy to swear words into civilized language, and over time you will develop a good habit.

Hope it helps.

It doesn't matter if it's a bad friend, you still have to pay attention to it in front of other people, and always remind yourself in your heart. In fact, to put it bluntly, you actually feel very happy when you are swearing.

Find a girlfriend who doesn't like to listen to dirty words, and promise to get rid of this problem, but I've been slapped before, pitiful, but it's quite effective.

There are two conditions for uh to change Changhua, one is your own restraint, and the other is the surrounding environment, do you have to confirm that there are many people who swear around you? Especially if you get along day and night, if there is, I'm afraid it will be difficult to change, because people who don't swear are actually quite sensitive to swearing, and they care about what others say every day, and over time they follow along.

Now let's talk about your own restraint, keep a high degree of sensitivity to swearing, once you want to say something, change the word when you come to your mouth, for example, you have to punish yourself with your own method that day, for example, you can bite your tongue, and reward yourself if you don't say it for a day, in fact, there is another way, swear words usually have a mantra, for example, some people swear words are often greeting others, and the mantra is some mess to say, and the swear words that hang yourself on the lips, change the mantra, For example, it is okay to change it to this first and get used to it slowly.

To tell you the truth, I think I was also a person who "exported dirty" back then.

But now it has changed.

There are two conditions for changing swearing, one is your own restraint, and the other is the surrounding environment, you have to confirm that there are many people around you who swear, especially those who get along with you day and night, if there is, I'm afraid it will be difficult to change. Because people who don't swear are actually quite sensitive to swearing, they care about what others say every day, and they follow along with it over time.

Now let's talk about my own restraint.

Maintain a high degree of sensitivity to swearing, once you want to say it, change the word when it comes to your mouth, and if you say it, you have to punish yourself in your own way that day, such as biting your tongue. Reward yourself if you don't say anything for a day.

Secondly, there is also the method that swear words usually have a catchphrase.

For example, someone's swear words are often greeting other people's mothers, and some people's swear mantras are: caoxx changes the swear words mantra on his lips, such as changing it to this: meow's meow ......Although it is a bit homophonic with greeting other people's mothers, the dirty smell is gone.

Or when you want to scold MADE for being mentally retarded, you can change the conversation to: Mom! Retarded: Mom! Retarded scolding: you made!Change: Fuck you!

You can also replace those swear words with mom, mom, etc.

Over time, when you get rid of the dirty smell, your dirty words will change.

To put it bluntly, you just need to change to a non-swearing-free environment, and everything will be fine.

Please use civilized language, if the other party does not follow the reluctance, there is no need to leave a face to scold back.

Summary. 2. Pay attention to step by step. If you have a habit of swearing, and it is very serious, then you can let yourself change it slowly, give yourself a little time, and don't be too strict with yourself, otherwise if you can't do it, you may be abandoned halfway.

Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, how can we correct Bi stupid swearing: 1. Face the bad problem from the heart. First of all, if we want to get rid of a bad problem, we must face it from the heart, realize the seriousness of the problem, and really change it from the heart.

2. Pay attention to step by step. If you have the habit of swearing, and it is very serious, then you can excite yourself to change it slowly, and give yourself a little bit of Qi Ming, and you can't be too strict with yourself, otherwise if you can't do it, you may be abandoned halfway.

3. Give yourself appropriate punishment. Anyone who does a thing and wants to do it well, should establish a reward and punishment mechanism, that is, if you don't do it well, give yourself a certain punishment, and consider that your own interests in the Ming Hall have been lost, you may be extra careful not to make mistakes.

4. Let others supervise us. Our colleagues and friends around us can supervise us, and if we find out that we are swearing, we can get a certain reward, so that everyone is also motivated, and they will be more strict with themselves, so that they can change themselves as soon as possible.

5. Don't make friends with low quality. Sometimes some of our bad habits are learned from other friends, so we try to stay away from those friends with low quality, and don't let some of their bad behaviors and habits pollute us, or even let ourselves go astray.

6. Read more books to improve self-cultivation. Personal cultivation needs to be honed daily, there is no harm in reading more, only by reading more, can the spine return to be wise and hungry, only by understanding more truth, can you believe in the branches, and only when the quality is improved, can you change your speech and behavior.

7. Learn from excellent friends. I argue that there will be some very good friends around them, we can get closer to them, from them, we can learn a lot of advantages, the so-called close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black, learn more from them, and I will be better and better.

Language represents a person's image, the exit is not inferior, resulting in harm to others, but also damage their own image, really lose too much, to get rid of this bad habit in time, if you recognize this serious consequence, plus your own perseverance, you will be able to get rid of this bad habit, you must believe that you can do it, you will be able to do it!

Foul language is an uncivilized behavior, and it directly affects the interaction between people. This kind of uncivilized behavior happens to us in no more than the following three situations:

1. Learn to speak foul language. There is no concept of right and wrong, others scold, and we also scold, which is an ordinary psychology. It is mainly affected by the parents' usual indiscretion about their words and deeds and the general environment of society.

2. Forced to swear. This usually happens between partners: there is a conflict, a-for-tat, a bullied, and a ...... to vent their frustration by scoldingAt this time, if we can think rationally and learn to resolve disputes between friends with a humble attitude, we can change our bad words and deeds.

3. Get used to scolding. "Freezing three feet, not a day's cold. Although there are few "dirty" exports, the impact is not good.

For such people, we should use temporary indifference, ignoring him, unhappy face, stern tone, etc., which will help the child to distinguish between right and wrong, inhibit and reduce his bad behavior, so as to establish a good code of behavior. Once a bad behavior becomes a habit, there is a certain process to overcome it.

Take your time, you can't change it if you want to, there is always a process. To make corrections, we must have the courage to correct our mistakes.

First of all, you must have a deep analysis of your own character, when will you scold and so on.

The second is to put yourself in someone else's shoes and think about it – how do they feel when you curse again? Finally, talk to them calmly, hoping that they can help you correct this bad habit and let them supervise you; Let them remind you when you break out.

Remind yourself before each conversation, always by reminding you from moment to time, or by finding someone you can trust. And usually with some serious people, if they don't talk about it, you will forget about it. When you are with someone you like, or someone who is important to you, you will generally pay more attention to your image in front of them, so that you can restrain your own faults.

I think you already know it in your own heart.

Some possible psychological problems.

That is the fear that it will be difficult to accept reality emotionally.

A lot of swear words can make people feel low-quality.

It is easy to be looked down upon.

It is advisable to develop self-punishment after swearing.

People who love to swear are related to their surroundings. What kind of environment, what kind of person, after entering the public place, it will annoy the character if you swear again. Therefore, people who love to swear must get rid of this bad habit, bad problem.

So that the people around you will accept you. You must get rid of this bad habit, and the people around you will look at you differently.