Others say good things, you say bad things in order to attract attention

Hello, the situation you are talking about is that you like to go against people.

The most important thing is that I can't communicate, and I am afraid that I will be oppressed by the powerful and my self-esteem will not be satisfied. Through communication skills, this personality changes, and our low self-esteem, like arrogance, hinders the development of social skills, stemming from hierarchical society and the cult of power.

Good communication skills are to express observations, feelings, and values without evaluation through observation and experience of one's own feelings, and to make specific and clear requests to the other party, and at the same time, through observation, to experience the feelings and needs of the other party, and to confirm with the other party in a timely manner, and jointly seek to meet the needs of both parties at the same time, and no one loses.

This way of communication requires a firm belief that human nature has a need for good, that the power of love is better than hatred, and that it is necessary to revise one's beliefs, especially to change the bad guy to love one's own enemy, and meet the needs of both parties through communication skills. It is recommended to participate in the "Nonviolent Communication" training course, and stick to the training, the wisdom of the highest return on investment. It will greatly improve our social skills, circle of friends, overcome the defects of inferiority and arrogance, re-understand ourselves, and fall in love with ourselves and others!

Hope it helps.

Actually, you don't need to do this to attract attention If you don't speak in the right way and in the right situation, it may have a negative effect on you What kind of people do you think everyone likes? Not to be cheerful, kind, and likable and not to be offensive

Even smart people don't use this method, first, to destroy the atmosphere, second, to make others think that you can't be a person, and third, it may cause fire.

1.Bao Tachibana is calm and reasonable. Don't let emotions control your actions and words, and avoid overreacting.

2.Communicate with the other person and express your feelings. If the other person is saying bad things about you, you can communicate with them, express your feelings and needs, and try to solve the problem.

3.Don't focus too much on the impact of bad words. Some people may be overly concerned about what others say about themselves, but this can affect their mood and confidence. Therefore, don't focus too much on the impact of Yuanso's bad words, but focus more on your own growth and progress.

4.Learn how to deal with negative emotions. Dealing with negative emotions can help you better cope with the effects of bad words and avoid overreacting. You can deal with negative emotions through meditation, exercise, relaxation, etc.

In short, in the face of the situation where others say bad things about you, you should stay calm and reasonable, understand the content and ** of the bad words, communicate with the other party and express your feelings, don't pay too much attention to the impact of bad words, and also learn how to deal with negative emotions.