What will you break up for, and why will you break up because of some small things?

In love life, "the last straw that crushed the camel" I don't think this is an excuse, Gao Congwang but there has already been a crack, no one will say that a relationship is suddenly terminated for no reason, but slowly disappointed in this relationship, and then explodes at a certain point, leading to the termination of the relationship.

1 There are many examples of this around me.

One of my roommates had his own girlfriend when he was a sophomore, and at that time he went out to eat with the people in the dormitory or something, and he would take his girlfriend with him, and at that time he felt that they were very compatible, and it was the feeling that he would go to the end, but suddenly one day he said that he broke up, and we were also very sudden, but he said that he was too disappointed in this relationship, and then he said some of his views on this girl, and we also understood the reason. <>

2 Love is not suddenly terminated.

Everyone will encounter various problems when they fall in love, such as small conflicts between two people, quarrels over small things, but some things will affect a lot, that is, everyone's bottom line, if you keep violating the bottom line, the other person's patience is also limited, so slowly Zheng Shen's disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, and he will propose to break up because of a seemingly small thing. There's a reason for that. <>

3 When you fall in love, you must understand each other.

Everyone's relationship is not smooth sailing, they all encounter some small problems, and they have to solve problems when they encounter problems, and many times they have to accumulate through these small problems and this relationship is buried, so no matter what the contradiction is, it is necessary to actively solve it, and sometimes it is the best way to solve the problem by slowly understanding each other, and the contradictions between you will also be well solved. <>

Falling in love is the process of two people getting to know each other, and slowly two people will become more and more tacit.

In the minutiae of noisy life, love is often tested. Those seemingly insignificant things can sometimes be the last straw that breaks the camel's back. Why do you break up because of some small things?

This may be because, behind these small events, there is a collision of the personalities of the two, the rise and fall of living habits, and the difference in expectations for the future.

When love is gradually diluted in the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt, those little things that were once ignored begin to appear. For example, you like to wake up early, but I like to stay up late; I enjoy quiet afternoons, but you look forward to lively parties. These seemingly insignificant little things can be worn like drops of water, gradually eroding the solidity of feelings.

In addition, social ** is also a driver of breakup. It brings out the best in us, but it also raises our expectations of our partner. When we look at love with a magnifying glass, those tiny flaws become unacceptable flaws.

So, quarrels again and again, cold wars again and again, finally let love come to an end.

However, it's worth pondering, are these little things really the only reason for the breakup? Or is there a deeper problem that we need to dig into? For example, do we understand each other's needs enough, respect each other's differences enough, and be willing to make an effort for each other to adjust and adapt?

In the face of a breakup, we should learn to reflect. It is not a single incident that leads to the end of love, but the little things that accumulate over time gradually wear down each other's patience and trust. Therefore, we need to learn from these little things, learn how to seek common ground while reserving differences in love, and how to better maintain and manage our feelings.

Life is like a long drama, in which there are not only laughter and tears, but also friction and tolerance. The breakup in love may just be a bend because we haven't learned how to deal with these little things. Only when we learn to see the truth in the subtleties can we truly understand that love is actually between the bits and pieces of our lives.

The real relationship is not something that will not be there in a day or two, but it will be slowly given up after a long time of getting along, and if it is really separated, it proves that the sentence or that thing is too serious. Because a sentence really separates the hurtfulness of language and makes a powerful characterization, so try to avoid speaking ill of others in life, especially to your other half, and never say hurtful words.

Expose each other's shortcomings in public. People are afraid of slapping their faces and are more afraid of exposing their shortcomings, exposing people's shortcomings is equivalent to publishing other people's privacy to the public, so that people can't raise their heads in front of everyone in the future, hurting the weakest place in the other party's heart, think about it, can the other party forgive you? For example, attacking other people's physical defects, ridiculing others' appearances, etc., almost no one can tolerate these verbal injuries.

Because one thing is truly separated.

The situation is complicated, but as long as it is analyzed according to the consequences of the incident, there are still traces. Do things very well, there is no room for manoeuvre. We all know that we must think twice before doing anything, think carefully about something in advance, do the right thing in the event and have no aftermath after the fact, if we do not follow these principles, then the consequences are very serious, and in the end there is no chance to make up for it.

Doing things is against common sense, so that the other party can't accept it. For example, if you have too close contact with a colleague of the opposite sex, without considering the feelings of the other half, and go your own way under the opposition of the other party, this will cause the other party to be jealous and suspicious, and the main reason for the breakup is a long time.

This real emotion is that it can't be mixed with other feelings, how do you know she doesn't want to know if you don't ask it. You have explained again and again afterwards, but your girlfriend will also have a pimple in her heart, don't say that women are too stingy and stingy, because they care too much. If you still care about them, then please always trust them, whether they are doing right or not, your trust is the greatest comfort to them.

So the most important thing for two people to be together is to know how to get along, sometimes it works better than true love.

Because contradictions actually accumulate, we can tolerate two contradictions at one time, or tolerate three contradictions, and four contradictions will erupt. So the breakup is never caused by one thing, but by so many accumulated contradictions, which can only be regarded as the fuse.

One thing will not lead to a breakup, just like the last straw that crushes the camel, although it seems that the relationship is all small things, but such small things are piled up too much, and it will make two people tired and breathless.

All kinds of things and contradictions, if not resolved in time, will always lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

Everyone chooses to be with each other because they are sexually separated by some of the other person's advantages, so it is not a certain thing because of the many small details in life that are pieced together will make you decide that you want to separate from him in the end.

Because two people fall in love together, they will definitely not break up because of one thing. Most of them are because boys don't take the initiative to care about their girlfriends, or they don't give their girlfriends a sense of security. Only when a girl has accumulated too much disappointment and sadness will she choose to break up.

It is true that a breakup in a relationship is never caused by one thing, and anyone can accept one simple thing, so some things are some contradictions that accumulate over time, and finally lead to a breakup.

There is no need to break up with a small matter, because everyone can explain it, and it can be understood, if there are many such things that have happened all the time, it means that there is no way to solve this contradiction between two people, and they will want to separate.

As the saying goes, if a slap doesn't make a sound, there must be a reason for the breakup, and there must be no single reason, because the relationship between him is originally a matter of two people.

It may be said that a small thing will not break up, but a lot of small things are superimposed, superimposed, superimposed. It's become a big thing, so both parties can't bear it. So it's going to break up.

Breakups are generally chosen through long-term disappointment or a lot of things coming together, which is also because there is no way to mediate many conflicts.

Because most people take their feelings more seriously, one thing is not enough to break up two people who love each other, so it is never because of one thing to break up in a relationship.

In fact, the breakup really didn't start because of one thing, because they may encounter multiple times in their daily life, and many things add up to make them really sad, so they are really breaking up.

Because one thing can only be a fuse, all breakups are foreshadowed, and the two parties have been discrepancies on certain issues.

Breakups in a relationship are never caused by one thing, and generally occur when many contradictory things come together and cannot be resolved.

Because a breakup has always accumulated a lot of disappointment before choosing to leave, it is never one thing, but because of too many things.

Many people break up because of the accumulation of details in the long-term relationship, and they will only propose to break up when they can't bear it anymore.

Generally, it is easy to break up when there is a conflict, that is to say, if two people have a conflict in real life, and this contradiction cannot be resolved, they will break up.

The most important thing may be that people get along for a while, and then they feel that their personalities are not particularly compatible.