My girlfriend s parents gave her a blind date, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-04
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's better to let things go with the flow.

    If two people like each other, in fact, the real pursuit doesn't require a lot of energy, and it's going to be together naturally. That's true love.

    It is difficult to hold hands without fate, and it is the same to be a husband and wife.

    She loves you, how can she always love you, if she doesn't love it, she won't marry you, in fact, how can any parents in the world have children? ?

    Don't think too much about it, just put it to the test.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It can only be said that your girlfriend's parents don't like you and don't want their daughter to be with you.

    Then let it go.

    Letting go is also a kind of love, and letting go is also a kind of happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The twisted melon is not sweet I am saying, why don't you be liked by other people's parents, you can take care of yourself first before you can hold others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You rush straight to her house, kneeling and shouting, Mom and Dad.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you are willing to love Him with all your heart, whoever it is, it will not help ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I think it's okay to go on a blind date, it's just to meet. As long as you have a good relationship, you should also visit her parents at her house.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you break up, you will commit it as soon as you are forced to do it, and you will be cuckolded and angry in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What's yours is yours, don't be too pushy in everything! True love is tested! Do you feel that she still loves you, you should believe your feelings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should break up with him, he's ready to go on a blind date, why should you tell you this kind of thing, it's very disrespectful to you, and he has no plans to marry you want, so don't consume each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you need to ask the other party the reason for the blind date, if it is forced by the family to go on a blind date, you can choose to let the other party go on a blind date, if it is out of subjective ideas, I think there is no need for this relationship to continue.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should say no right away, then take your girlfriend home, confess your relationship to your family, and get ready to get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Boyfriend's mother arranges a blind date for your boyfriend in private, so who are you and who are you your boyfriend? Didn't he tell his parents about your existence? Or do their families not approve of you being together?

    If it's the former, then I suggest you break up. He doesn't think of you as a girlfriend at all, and even if you are together in the future, you will live a very tired life. If it is the latter, if you truly love each other, prove it to them.

    Every parent wants their children to have a happy married life, as long as you live well enough, they will naturally agree, and will bless you and even help you have a better life.

    If you feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you so much or doesn't have an opinion in the process of dating you, then you can let it go! A person who has no opinions will not be able to protect you, and the man's attitude is very important. At the same time, it also shows that he is not interested in you, otherwise, the family will not let you know about forcing him to go on a blind date, and he will have a way to convince the family to let them know that you are a person, and the relationship is very good, and he is the person he likes.

    In this way, the family will not force him to go on a blind date.

    It also depends on what your boyfriend thinks inside. If he really loves you enough, he will definitely try to protect you from getting hurt. If he knows that you are unhappy, he still goes on a blind date, follows his parents' wishes, and does not tell his parents that you exist.

    That can only mean that he doesn't want to marry you, and only has the attitude of playing with you, so such a man, it is also your luck to leave early.

    Therefore, no matter what kind of things you encounter in life, don't just be there and be sad, but find a way to solve things, which is really not within your ability, so just put it aside, time will dilute everything, and the sun will still rise tomorrow.

    So, it's important to remember that life has given you a punch, and you either take advantage of the situation and get some sleep, or fight your way up and overcome the difficulties. Either way, it will pass.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should go and talk to your boyfriend about something, and if he goes on a blind date, then break up, he definitely doesn't want you anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The girl should communicate with her boyfriend, because the two are now together, his mother should not arrange a blind date for him, you can ask his mother if she has any opinions about herself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girls should learn to understand and ask their boyfriends to give themselves a reasonable explanation, otherwise they will break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For the boyfriend, the mother privately arranges a blind date. If the girl knows, she can actually talk to her boyfriend directly. Communicate and ask your boyfriend what he thinks.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Girls should meet their boyfriend's family as soon as possible to let them know that your boyfriend has a partner to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. Or the girl directly explains to her boyfriend that this is not right.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The girl should have a conversation with the other person's mother and tell the other person's mother that she exists, so that this does not happen.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think girls need to panic at this time, calm down. Because if your boyfriend really likes you, even if he is arranged to go on a blind date, he will not have anything to do with others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can have a good talk with your boyfriend and tell your boyfriend that this practice has hurt you and that if your boyfriend really loves you, he will definitely have a way.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    At this time, you have to choose to accept the breakup, because the other party is not particularly firm in this relationship, and there is no particularly clear direction for the future of the two people.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Everything has a reason, your girlfriend's parents must also have their reasons, nothing more than those few, the first may be because of your family background, this point is still easier to solve, you can tell your girlfriend, I don't have money now does not mean that I have no money in the future, the most important thing for a man is not to see if he has money, is to see if he is self-motivated, now those rich second generations who soak in nightclubs and bars every day, drive a good car every day, eat Western food, a meal is tens of thousands, such a man is rich, this kind of flower, A mountain of gold is not enough for him to spend, money can be earned, you can give me a few years, I will prove it to you, or you can directly say these words to your girlfriend's parents may be better, the second if your parents mind your family background, similar to your parents divorce or something, some people may feel that their parents divorce what's wrong, in fact, many parents don't want their children to grow up in a single-parent family. They feel that the other party will be influenced by their parents, or that single-parent families can't be loved by a complete family since childhood, in fact, this is not too much of a problem, after all, it is their daughter who is married to you, and it is your girlfriend who knows you best, if it were not for his parents, it would not have led to this. Children from single-parent families are more independent, and some things are handled more decisively, and there will definitely not be a situation where Ma Bao Nan is.

    Now the society advocates free love, parents should not interfere too much in their children's love, if her parents are because of the hardware conditions I said, you can go and talk to her parents, if her parents are really like on TV, they don't respect you at all, or keep their dignity, after all, you are also raised by your parents, there is no need to compromise for this matter, not to mention that your girlfriend has no opinion at all, her parents said to break up!!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's up to your girlfriend to decide what she wants.

    If she loves you very much, then she may not listen to her mother, and she will fight and be with you.

    If she doesn't have any opinions, or listens to her family very much, then she is likely to go on a blind date again.

    Now the most important thing is that you have to show your strengths, such as being rich, considerate, able to bring a sense of security and a comfortable life to your girlfriend, etc., otherwise you will have nothing and will definitely not be able to keep people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The key is that you can attract your girlfriend, and if your girlfriend can marry you with all her heart. Even her mother's words can't change her.

    External factors work through internal factors, and if your girlfriend can truly love you, even her parents can't influence her choices.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My girlfriend's mother dislikes me and wants her to break up with me, and says that she will give her a better blind date, what should I do?

    Answer: Your love has been decided, and you should be assertive and don't be misled.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your girlfriend's mother dislikes you, asks her girlfriend to break up with you, and says that she will give him a blind date, a better one, I think if you really love your girlfriend, then you should work hard to make your girlfriend's mother accept you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You don't have to be angry about this, but also treat your girlfriend well, as long as your girlfriend is willing, it is useless for her mother to dislike it. As long as you and your girlfriend have feelings, sooner or later the two of you will be together. Parents lose to their children after all.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you and your girlfriend both like each other, are willing to get along well together, and have true love, then you should not listen to his mother. You have to count the speed, and when you are good, you will definitely make the girl's mother look at it differently in the future.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should rise to the occasion and work hard to improve yourself so that your girlfriend's mom recognizes you, otherwise you will only have to break up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your friend's mom hates you. Let you have to break up with you. I also want to give him a blind date. Find a better one. It depends on whether you are attractive or not, and whether you can attract your girlfriend. If your girlfriend is his mom who loves you. He won't listen.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think the best case for this kind of thing is to make it clear to your girlfriend what to do, if he insists on breaking up, I think it's going to break up, there's nothing to say, since other people's mothers don't like you, why should you be too persistent.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If your girlfriend's mother dislikes you, she must dislike you. Economic conditions are not good. So he wanted to find a better one for his daughter. It depends on whether you have such a good relationship with your girlfriend?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't be discouraged, as long as your girlfriend loves you, no matter how much her mother tosses, she can't shake her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think you have to talk to your girlfriend about this, that is, if you just work very hard, then you will cheer and give him a better one, and tomorrow you will definitely need to give your girlfriend to you to stand one.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then you show your good side and try to let them see your goodness.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Quit when the going gets tough. You're not excellent in the eyes of your girlfriend's mother.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then you definitely need to show your benefits, your charm you think can give your girlfriend a sense of security, and make your mother-in-law happy, so the main thing is to look at your girlfriend.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Because my mom dislikes you, the key is how your girlfriend treats you. Sometimes, a man needs to be thick-skinned in order to get a good wife. If your face is too bad, you may not be able to find a match.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Your girlfriend's mom dislikes you.

    It depends on your girlfriend's thoughts and choices.

    She has to be with you.

    Her mother couldn't control her.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think this question is redundant, and it is also very contradictory, first of all, I can understand it this way, you don't need to ask whether you should be angry or not, but just follow your own heart, in fact, being angry is quite involuntary, people's emotions are often spontaneous, for example, you are already angry unconsciously, what is the point of you asking whether you should be angry at this time? You can't ask someone if I should be angry, and then you get angry again, and then you must be angry, and then you ask others if they should be angry, just to find more supporters for your own anger.

    Judging from this matter, you have a reason to be angry, but there is no need to ask whether it should be or not, because emotions themselves are subjective, any boy in a relationship if such a thing happens will definitely have an emotional vision to look at, but this problem is not unsolvable, I think the relationship between two people during the relationship is the basis of everything, if your girlfriend's heart is always here with you, then you don't have to worry about anything else, if the other party's parents introduce her to the object, She's tempted, and that's not necessarily a bad thing, because it helps you eliminate a duplicitous woman, which is a fortunate thing.

    From another point of view, Saion's parents introduced her to a partner, which is also inadvertently helping you test your girlfriend's loyalty to your girlfriend to you, if your girlfriend gives up on you because of this, the result is obvious, you are not suitable at all, and it also helps you eliminate a scumbag, isn't this killing two birds with one stone?

    When you can analyze a thing with reason, subjective emotions will take a back seat, let reason occupy the high ground, and it will allow you to make the right decision.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Whether you should be angry or not, I think it depends on whether your girlfriend tells you in time to decide, if your girlfriend tells you in time, it's nothing, after all, people are honest with each other, and it was a blind date introduced by her parents, and she didn't find it herself. But it's more intriguing that you use the word "discovery", whether she didn't have time to tell you, or just wanted to hide it from you. If I want to hide it from you, brother, you have to pay attention.

    But there is another possibility, She hides it from you, maybe she thinks it's nothing, and going on a blind date is purely to deal with her parents, and she doesn't need to let you know, in fact, it's nothing.

    As a girl, I've been in this kind of situation. At that time, I was at home with my boyfriend during the holidays, and my mother said that she would take me to meet the son of a friend's relative, and I felt that it was not right. They thought that my boyfriend's family was from another place, or that it was better to be closer to the local area, and they didn't want me to marry far away, so I rejected them at the timeAnd I told my boyfriend about it that day.

    This is that even if I told my boyfriend, my boyfriend was not angry, he knew that the woman's parents always wanted their daughter to marry closer and take care of herself, and promised that he would definitely win the hearts of my parents, but he did not react much to the blind date.

    If your girlfriend tells you later, you can also ask her why her parents arranged a blind date for her, so as to lay a good foundation for the right medicine in the future. If your girlfriend hasn't told you, then you have to see if she has any abnormalities recently, and you can turn the page if there is no abnormality, men should always be generous.

    Couples love each other is about trust, if she didn't do anything wrong, if you are angry with her just because her parents introduced a blind date, you really shouldn't, mutual trust can be a happy love.

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