There s a girl who likes me but she s a year older than me, and I don t like her, what should I do?

1. Be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds. If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding among the other party, and in the end, it often brings more harm than refusing love.

2. Do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him.

3 Choose the right way. You should take into account your normal relationship and the personality characteristics of the other party, and choose to treat it coldly, or interview, or letter, but it is recommended that you do not use the method of asking someone to tell you, because it seems that you are not respectful enough to the other party, and it may also cause unnecessary trouble.

4 Choose the right timing. Generally speaking, don't reject the other party as soon as they confess their love, because it is difficult for the other party to accept it at this time; But don't delay too long and cause misunderstanding on the other side. Of course, the specific timing depends on the specific situation.

If someone likes you, it means that you are attractive, and you can't catch up with a headache for this, if you don't like her, you can be an ordinary friend, if she confesses, just euphemistically, isn't it good for us to be ordinary friends, if you don't confess, you don't have to worry about it, it's a happy thing to be liked.

If you don't like her, just pick on her directly, don't reluctantly accept her for fear of hurting her self-esteem or something, you must know that it is very hard to fall in love with someone you don't like, rather than suffering for a long time in the future, it is better to cut through the mess now, tell her that the emotional matter is barely coming, I can only wish her to find a person she likes and the other party likes her at the same time.

Refuse directly, so as not to make him miserable, and long pain is better than short pain. Encourage her to say that a better one can be found

If you don't want to accept it, don't procrastinate, dragging it around is not good for anyone. Be decisive, like a man.

If you don't want to accept it, don't delay, if you drag it around, both of you are delayed, you can talk about it euphemistically and explain what you mean to her!

If you don't like it, tell people clearly, don't delay others,

If you don't like it, you don't like it, what to do.

Directly state your attitude and say that the two of you are not suitable, which is good for both parties.

Brother, give someone a chance, try it, my wife is older than me, it's good. And people say that female juniors hold gold bricks, older than you, and often can give you more care in life, which is good.

Of course, if you really don't like it, then don't drag it with others, explain it to others, so as not to hurt people's hearts in the end, it's not wrong for her to like you, if you hurt innocent her, then how can we bear to be a man? What do you say?

If you don't like it, don't continue. Otherwise, if you hurt someone, she will be very painful.

Chicken ribs are also tasteless, and it is a pity to go.

Your question hurts.

Please, be decisive, don't delay people!!