What do you do when you are faced with such a family

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If you set up a family on your own, a family in your heart, how would you deal with it?

People are different, and people with a broad mind will tolerate everything. Remember the good of your parents and forget about all the unpleasant. If you want to regret and can't break it, you will remember everything, and you will not be able to prepare for the impact of your original family on yourself for the rest of your life, if it's good, it's good, and if it's bad, it's bad, and it hurts yourself seriously.

Some people do have unsatisfactory life experiences in their original families, so they have carved a brand on their hearts, so that they are haunted, or even make a declaration full of negative energy for themselves, restrain their thoughts, and tie their hands and feet, so that they have lost many and good opportunities to have a happy life.

Life is like this, especially men, especially men who have become families, you are 26 years old, you have a family, and you have your own lovely baby, which means that you need to bear, and there are many things that need to rely on experience to learn and grow, first talk about your wife's brother asking you to take money to do business, in this kind of issue, you need to let them know your pressure and actual situation, and at the same time I think your wife should also understand. At the very beginning, I will encounter this kind of pressure, but I personally think that people who can face it strongly have one thing in common, that is, there is a concern or expectation in their hearts, I think your concern should be your wife and children, which is a motivation for a man to be inspired when he encounters difficulties.

Don't simply think about returning to the kind of easy days you used to have, it doesn't mean that your future will no longer be easy, you have to learn to adapt to the reality of life, when you are stressed, find a way to express yourself, look at the child, what do you want to do for your child? What do you want to give him? Men are meant to be responsible and responsible.

I believe that you will be able to get through it, change your mindset a little bit, look at everything optimistically, you feel that it is nothing, it can pass easily under your control, and the more negative you feel that there is a burden, then the more you feel that every day of life is so heavy and very unnecessary. Your motivation is your lovely children and this home.

Maybe there are a lot of things to do during this time, so you may also be more annoying, and if you have difficulties, explain to them (wife and brother) that you must not give up now, the child was born not long ago, and the wife has just given birth and needs to recover soon. They all need you very much, and now they have a home no matter how hard they are.

When your wife recovers, explain to her your difficulties, as long as it is a sensible wife, he will understand you. Will she be transferred to class soon after she has worked, oh, I don't know if the child is taken care of, if there are parents, they can help take care of it. Otherwise, you can only be taken care of by your wife.

In short, it is necessary to work hard, and big men cannot escape responsibility casually.

The pressure on men is indeed greater, and my husband has been supporting me since I was laid off, and I can understand his hardships for many years.

I think you can choose to rest at home for a while and then go to work, after all, your body is more important than anything else!

I still admire you very much, I don't have as much courage as you.

That's how you build your home.

Admire. That's how I came over, and the kids were all right when they got older.

After all, you can relax when you go on a trip.

If I had such a family, I would find a way to change it. Such a family is too homely.

I will find a way to make myself good, because I am still young, I will have more time to work hard, but I will complete my upgrade as soon as possible, only when I am good, I can become the voice of the family. Then I will be able to get the family to follow my instructions. Now that I can be excellent, my father will no longer be strong in front of me, and my mother will take my words as the right guide.

I will feel a sense of accomplishment and this will be my mission.

Hehe listened to this story, and I was deeply touched, to be honest, it was really uncomfortable to be with such parents.

According to what you said, it feels impossible to change this situation through your parents, so you can only work yourself, study hard and work hard to get into college, so that your parents are very proud. A home centered around you will become united, and if your parents are long-winded about you, you should hear it and nod your head a few times. If your parents quarrel, you can help your mother, and talk more about your father's faults.

If possible, the family will talk more about their hearts.

In this way, you may become difficult to get along with in the future, so for your sake in the future, add more close friends and learn more chat skills.

Remember, don't mess with your parents, no matter how wrong it is, it's your parents, right?

A home should look like home.

Look at your home.

It's complete, but it's not warm.

The first thing you feel is that a family like yours is not very good.

Then you have to work hard to change reality.

Let them be impressed, too.

Let them blame themselves too, and see how they have come through all these years.

I believe that you will change this family and make it a happy family!

Don't think like that, since you know them this way, don't blame them, treat them as shortcomings.

If she doesn't care about you, how did you grow so big? I'm a new mother, Bao has just been a few months, I believe that everything about being a mother is for the child, even if it is to give her own life, your mother will be like this is because you grow up and your relationship is weak, try to arouse her maternal love, or she is sinking in herself, losing confidence in the future, and has the meaning of getting by.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Children, parents are not perfect, and the trouble is flesh and blood. One thing is true, you are what they brought into this world, and without their hard care and nurturing, you would not be where you are today.

It must be known that the most valuable thing in the world is family affection and filial piety. Parents are our roots, and if we are not respectful and obedient to our parents, the roots will not be good and bad, and the branches and leaves will not flourish.

Being disrespectful to your parents is to cut off your own roots and self-deprivation, and the realization of your dreams in life will be very bumpy, and you can observe your own life trajectory in the future.

I hope you can live happily. If you want to be happy, you must start with yourself, and you must repent to your parents from the bottom of your heart, especially if you usually contradict and disrespect your parents in your words and deeds, you must sincerely repent to your parents. To express gratitude to your parents, find more than 20 benefits of your father and mother, so that your life circumstances will slowly change for the better.

If the relationship between parents and friends is not good, life will not be happy.

I can relate to your feelings.

It has always been said that "there is no parent who does not love their children".

I don't think that's right.

The vast majority of parents love their children unconditionally and completely. But some people give birth to children and raise children just to meet some of their own needs and achieve a certain goal of their own.

Unfortunately, your parents are such people.

They are very patriarchal. You and your sister are just "accidental products" on their path to pursuing a boy, and of course, because they gave you life, they can use you as a cash cow by the way.

Maybe you also want to thank them for not forcing you to do things that sell your dignity or break the law in order to earn money......Tears ran ......

Hug it, we're all so lonely and lonely people. As a girl, I crave warmth and care, but my parents' love is like starlight, everyone says that the stars are constantly shining, but we can't have a little warmth when we look at it. Everyone says that parents love their children, but we can't feel it when we live.

Hate can hate for a lifetime if it can change something.

But hate won't change anything, it will only make you lose the direction of the future.

No one loves you, so love yourself.

No one can ruin your future, because your path is your own.

Maybe I didn't go to much school, but I could have found time to read more.

Maybe you were constantly at the mercy of fate when you were young, but when you grow up, your fate can be decided by yourself.

Don't rush to find warmth and love in other people. Because maybe behind the sugar-coated is poison, and behind the gentleness is harm.

Cherish yourself, love yourself, keep your eyes open, work hard for your future, be independent early, you can get rid of your family, get rid of people and things you hate. Enrich yourself, and you can find someone who really loves you, loves you, cares for you, and accompanies you.

Future happiness can be fought for by yourself After the year, if you are not happy, blame yourself, not your parents.

They don't love you, and you should love yourself even more. After the age of 16, when you have the ability to be independent, your happiness is something you can strive for. Don't let your lack of understanding of your parents hold you back.

Maybe your parents' attitude has made you have a low starting point, but there are also many people with a low starting point who have a better life than others through self-effort.

When you have the ability, you can look at problems outside of the present mentality, and you can talk to your parents on an equal footing. Maybe then everything will be solved, you will understand everything, even if you don't understand, you can calmly ask them why, and you will not be afraid that they will show you a look.

Running away and remembering to send money home was the first thing that came to my mind.

Your parents are unqualified, patriarchal, and when they are old, they will have to count on your sisters, and they can't accept their fate.