Why can t I find a boyfriend? 5

First of all, I think you have to get your mentality right, I think you want to get married too much. It's best to understand the other party's situation and think that it's OK to take the initiative.,Can't girls pursue what they love.。

What should I do if I can't find my boyfriend?

Only 26 years old, the landlord is still young, very young, remember, to capture a man's heart, first you have to be able to dress up! Do you know that sentence: There are no ugly women in this world, only lazy women!

So, first of all, pay attention to your appearance! And if this step is done well, 60% of the problems have been solved!

Are 26-year-olds in a hurry?

I'll see you 2 today.

Isn't it too good? I don't know, let's be clear.

I don't know about other boys.,I prefer to be cheerful.,Mother-in-law and mother hate the most.,But there are also her benefits (I still don't like it).Blind date is just a formality, I don't care about anything, what's yours is yours, there's nothing to do, what not to do, whatever! You can do whatever you want!

Why go on a blind date, can't you find it yourself! If you don't mind, I'll be your boyfriend (just kidding)!!

I don't know! First of all, it is possible that you don't want to look for it or you are demanding, and secondly, even if you say that you want to find it but deep down you are still very repulsed, and secondly, have you really talked about it? Is there a relationship?

So why didn't you get a good grasp of it? Are you not expressing yourself? It must be!

Because, men like women who are emotional!

I'll tell you a way for someone to come on a blind date and you refuse it.,There will be more and more people like that.,It's just the method I see in the book.,You can try but you can also don't try it.,Don't try it if you think it's okay.,Try it if you think it's ordinary.,It may backfire.。

Isn't that an exaggeration? Scaring people?

I think I can find the reason for it myself.

First of all, you should objectively evaluate yourself and see what your conditions are in all aspects. "Everyone has a love for beauty", everyone likes the "Prince Charming" in their hearts, but they don't know what their situation is and they go to the high ground to blindly pursue and compare, and it may never be difficult to find a suitable one.

Secondly, don't be too anxious, think that you are older, worry that you have fewer and fewer opportunities to imitate and find one casually and get married, but after marriage, you find that you have wronged yourself, and you may get divorced in a short time, and those who do not divorce may also live unhappily for a lifetime, and always regret your original choice.

The most important thing is to let yourself go, believe in fate, easily participate in more parties, meet more people, and you will have more opportunities. In addition, the purpose should not be too strong, for the boyfriend introduced, start to interact like an ordinary friend, and if you have a feeling, you will develop deeply and become a lover, and then get married, which is a natural process.

And Shensheng is from the beginning of knowing the two people is to get married, when looking at people in this way, they may have a higher vision, often look at people with a critical eye, and they don't give themselves a chance to understand this person at all, so they may really lose a person who suits them.

Finally, in the first interaction with someone, if you can reach "80 points", then you must seize the opportunity, after in-depth exchanges you may find a lot of his shining points, may increase to "100 points"; It is also possible to find a lot of shortcomings in him and drop to "60", but give yourself time to learn to find the advantages and increase it to "80".

What's more, "100 percent" is not necessarily reliable, because no one is perfect, and in the future, you may find many shortcomings in him and make your opinion decline step by step, and the good feeling is getting worse and worse, and you will be disappointed and give up in the end. Therefore, if we want to carry out love to the end, we must learn to discover the advantages of the other party and magnify it; For those shortcomings, go and narrow it; Be less picky and more tolerant, then it will be easier to succeed in love.