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The main thing for everyone is to remember not to fill the emptiness of the mind with rough emotions such as shouting, irritability, **. In the depths of the human psyche, in the subconscious, there is an instinctive animal fear, ferocity and cruelty. The more a person lacks culture, intelligence and beauty, the more often these instincts will manifest themselves and make people feel rude and rude.
When a person is unable to prove himself right, he either says bluntly that there is nothing more to prove (as is generally the case for emotional, well-behaved people), or he shouts and fills the intellectual impoverishment with "instinctive resistance". We must cherish our own nervous system and emotions, both of our own and those of others, and remember that for human beings, we need delicate emotions as much as we need air. And the delicacy of thought and the richness of intelligence are the source of elegant emotions.
Emotions can ennoble thoughts, but true human emotions cannot exist apart from thoughts. Emotions come from thoughts, thoughts nourish emotions, and emotions reside in thoughts. The abundance of thought makes man an independent force in man's spiritual world, and it makes man's behavior noble.
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There are different stages of affection, and at first you may like it, and this liking contains fantasies and self-projections for the other person; But after 5 to 12 months, you will find the shortcomings of the other person that you didn't expect, and then feel that you may not love the other person. But I suggest that you find a piece of paper at this time, write the place where you love him on the left side, and the place where you don't love him on the right, and then compare it, if the advantages of the left side are not enough to make up for the shortcomings of the right side, then you really do not love him enough.
In other words, no one is perfect, everyone has various shortcomings, and you yourself is no exception. Love is just that his shortcomings are not too big in your opinion, or what attracts you is far greater than his shortcomings. This is a point in time where you can recognize him, recognize your love, and recognize yourself.
Think rationally before making the next step.
Love is endurance, and one day you will find that this true truth.
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If the feeling for you is love, then it is acceptable, if it is just talking and chatting and being accompanied when you are lonely, that feeling is not unreliable, think seriously.
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It feels indescribable, it's normal.
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Explain your position, and ideas, and break up if it's not suitable.
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What is this, if you want me to say it, you will divide it.
What can't be said well, you have to say it like this.
Even if you think you're at fault, sit down and talk about it, as for the threatening tone.
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I can't tell, but the meaning of this sentence changes.
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There is a lack of communication between you, a lack of communication, and the better way is to find a common hobby between you and do something meaningful together.
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There is no common language, you are not on the same level, think about it.
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This kind of thinking is so contradictory, the most important thing for two people to be together is communication, talk to him, maybe you can also enhance your relationship.
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He was afraid that he would have no topic for you in the future, so he saved the best for later.
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He's probably ready to use you as a spare tire.
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I don't know, I'm not your boyfriend.
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If you don't have an opinion, you calm down and think about it, and decide to say it directly, and the Buddha is always wandering....
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Calm down first, think about what you want, what your current relationship is compatible with, calmly say what your problems are, is there any possibility of development, and organize the language.
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Don't break the thread, hurt each other in the future.
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It's the same situation right now, but the point is that I don't love him.
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You are like a piece of gold, whether the market price rises or not, I will carry it, because at least I can exchange it for yuan.
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When he says this, it means that he has slowly stopped loving you.
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For this kind of boyfriend can be separated.
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Only after losing can you know how to cherish it, just grasp it and treat him better. It's all too much, so take your time.
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You should communicate with him more.
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Make it clear, either together or separated! No one can afford to delay.
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There is a hairy use. You love him. If I don't love you, let's talk about it here.
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Let go when it's time to let go, and the twisted melon is not sweet.
My boyfriend is a Scorpio man. At the beginning, he will take the initiative, but then sometimes he likes me to take the initiative to speak and so on when chatting, usually he takes the initiative to hit me**, sometimes I also take the initiative to hit him**, anyway, I think if you like each other, you can also take the initiative, empathy, if you have been active, you can't stand it if your lover doesn't take the initiative, but I also think there is a degree, anyway, I don't like to take the initiative very much, it feels like I'm sticking to him, and the girl's words will be reserved, Anyway, my boyfriend doesn't like it if he's too reserved, but he can't stand being open, so he occasionally takes the initiative to go down.
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