After five years of love, my boyfriend said that I would be the main housekeeper in the future

My boyfriend is in a similar situation to yours, he is from the city. If I don't like to do things, I will bear more if I love him, and it doesn't matter if I feel psychological.

For washing dishes, he had never touched it at home before. I heard him say that his mother told him to wash that he wouldn't be able to wash it, but now it's much better, and he is willing to help me wash the dishes, of course, I asked for it, and he did it, what about you, you have to take him to do things slowly. Otherwise, it won't work forever...

If he doesn't do anything. Big deal, I won't work... If you have the ability. Otherwise, don't tell you such a reason.

In the future, you will definitely have to live and die, unless you are more expensive than him.

Isn't it just to do some housework, just make a fuss about breaking up, a woman like you is not welcome to **! If your boyfriend sees this post from you, he might break up with you right away!

Divide him, threaten him, make him do it.

You'll be busy in the future. Take me, for example. My husband is also a person who doesn't do a lot of housework.

I'm working right now. When I come back, I have to cook again. I have to clean the room again.

Also do laundry. Anyway, it's an endless job to get home in a word. Annoying.

I also have to take care of small children. Now it is not about equality between men and women. Why do we women have to do housework?

It's not fair.

One by one, the men said it easily!!

Has anyone ever wondered how sad and helpless LZ is when he says these things?

I'm currently in a similar situation to LZ. I know the mood very well. I tried all the ways to keep it.

It hasn't worked out yet. But let's talk about how this state can be. A long and calm talk.

When it comes to him, he has no place to be ashamed of himself. And you can't leave that woman alone. If you really love him, take a way when necessary.

She's miserable is her problem. There's no reason for you to bear it. If that doesn't work, there's really no other way.

If so, you can let me know.

What an irresponsible man!! Divide it!! A person who likes the new and hates the old is not worthy of your love!!

Personally, I think you're dead.

It's not self-respecting, or it's a waste of food and oxygen.

This man is really unreliable. It would have been nice to see through him earlier. Judging from the few things you said, he is a person who has no opinions, and he has to listen to his family in major matters. Even if he marries, he will probably be angry.

Breaking up with him, such a person is not worth it, and he should not be happy.

Divide it, there's no point, if he really loves you, he won't give in to his family, you say?

Ask him what he thinks! He may be in love with you, may be offering to break up with you and be with that girl for some reason. Didn't he say that your family looked down on him?

He also had a problem with his thoughts. You'd better make it clear! Otherwise, you'll be sad and won't figure out what's going on until the end.

Divide it, there is a kind of love called letting go.

Break up with him, divide and reconcile so many times, the rift between your feelings is difficult to heal, even if you are together, you can't forget the experience of him dumping you twice.

Don't be stupid, the melons that are forcibly picked are sweet. Better a finger off than always aching. If he really wants to get married, then you go, it's good for you and for him.

Let's go! You'll find even better! He doesn't want you anymore, and it's no fun to stay there!

People don't want to be with you anymore, is it interesting to force it?

It is recommended that you never do this, this is sympathy, not feelings, if you don't like him, please say it directly, so that you are not only deceiving him, but also deceiving yourself, because your family does not agree, and the love that does not get the blessing of your relatives will be bumpy all the way.

And the most important thing is that you now feel that you are not suitable and ask him to change, and you know that love is the performance of its true colors, not the change of accommodation, love cannot be forced, unless you reconcile again is that you sincerely accept him.

Talk to him and let him think about it.

Bless you!

Let him pass the past.

He will be a wonderful memory for you.

It shows that he really loves you and that you are all he has. You've been integrated into his life for five years, and it's hard for him to come out. You say you're not happy with him, you just don't want to be together.

He said no, you give me a suitable reason and I'll leave, indicating that he thinks you are perfunctory to him, you didn't tell him the real reason at all, he just thinks that it was his failure to meet your requirements that caused you to break up. In fact, maybe you have been numb to love for a long time, or maybe you are used to his dedication and take his contribution for granted. In fact, people have feelings, he really loves you, you must know how precious a man's tears are.

That's why he mustered up the courage to come to you.

I think you have to figure out why you don't want to be with him, because you don't love him, or because you're not satisfied with him, if you love him and he's willing to change, be with him, it's rare to have a man like him who dies for you these days.

If you don't love him, don't be with him, although cruel but for his good, he will find someone who cherishes him and loves him in the future, and if you sympathize, he is reluctant to be with him, it will hurt you.

In fact, he said to give him a suitable reason and he left, indicating that he wanted to know if you still love him, and if you said that you don't love him anymore, I believe he will not come to you again.

In fact, people are like this, when they have it, they don't know how to cherish it, and they will regret it when they lose it, because during this time your contradictions are very annoying and you can't figure out how you feel, if you don't contact for a short time, calm down, maybe you will figure it out. Maybe if he does leave in a few months, and when you calm down, you will think of him and regret your decision.

People have to be responsible for themselves, you can't be reluctant now, it will be your greatest pain in the future, sometimes, giving up is the best ending!

Believe me, it is useless to forgive him, since he dares to betray you, he must not have thought of asking for your forgiveness, or he has no intention of asking you for forgiveness, and you can't use forgiveness and tolerance to get him back. No one will be willing to let go of the person they love, unless they are no longer in love, let alone in your situation, you should think about your future with him. Take 10,000 steps back and say, he is not the only one in the world who deserves your love.

I'm afraid that tolerance will not bring back the prodigal son.

Just pack up your things and leave, ignore him, that's how I am. Our bai experience is the same, I am also a Libra, zhi has also been in love for five years, and it is the first time that I have paid anything. Falling in love with him, devoting himself wholeheartedly, and being in a long-distance relationship, refusing all opportunities for contact with all male friends, as a result, he still doesn't cherish me, empathize and don't fall in love.

Now that we've broken up for more than a month, I've figured it out. So don't feel that you can't live without him, and no one in this world can live without him. Believe in yourself.

You should go to him and make it clear, because he is responsible for you, so you have to let him give you an explanation, and you think about it, if you forgive him, will he come back with you? You think things through, he is very irresponsible, no matter what, your attitude towards him, no matter what, it is useless for you to give up, even if you are willing, will he choose you? So don't be too stupid.

Forgivable. But I'm going to tell you. Your boyfriend must have cheated on you. It's just that you don't know. So don't worry too much about some things. Men and women are not the same in this society.

Wow, that's fine!? I'm also a man, like your boyfriend, what else do you think about? It's all like this now, but what about in the future? Roar now, later

Don't be him, he won't change because of you.

It's going to change five years, and we know each other well enough.

He can do that.

It's not worth it, you're paying for him.

I think forget it, if a man is willing to put down his dignity to admit his mistakes to a woman, he should come or he cares about you very much, and men will be impulsive, so why should you care too much. Besides, if you go out to socialize with the boss, if it seems too wooden, it may not be a good thing. I don't think he did anything excessive, forget it, the most important thing for two people to be together is tolerance!

If it were me, I don't think I would forgive him.,Even if it's a few touches.,It's reasonable to touch a few times now.,How can I get it in the future.。。

Such people are not worthy of forgiveness.

When he tells you this, it shows that he has you in his heart and doesn't want to lose you. If he is too restrained when he goes out with his colleague boss, he will not be able to hold his head up among his colleagues in the future. You forgive him first, and maybe he will be grateful to you and will treat you better than before.

Besides, this is nothing.

It's been five years, are you willing to break up? Maybe he really has no way to socialize! He can tell you and show that he cares about you! Forgive him!

If you think their parents are very good, or if you two have a future, wouldn't it be a good thing to go? Let their parents have a good impression of you, and you can also take this opportunity to get along with their parents and see who they are! Again:

Regardless of this, just by the fact that you help them do their laundry, you can tell that you are helping others! A good thing, definitely a good thing!

You haven't married him yet, you don't go to do the laundry.

He is a son, why doesn't he feel sorry for his mother?

Will his filial piety be pressed upon you?

Besides, you haven't married him yet, so you washed the clothes of his family, shouldn't you serve them more after marrying him? Do not wash.

It's up to you, if you're a foregone conclusion, why can't you go, but I feel like you haven't put your attitude right, your boyfriend doesn't want you to go, it's just asking for your opinion, hey, the future mother-in-law should help, what else does your mother care.

Knowing that his mother's hand hurts, you should buy some medicine, buy something, and go to see it, having a good relationship with the old woman is only good for you, not harmful, you can help with housework on the day you go, don't go to help often. What is your boyfriend doing at home, watching TV and surfing the Internet after eating?? He should do the job now.

If you wash it, you will be a member of their family, this is the rule.

You're doing the right thing! If his hand is really broken, why did he do it as a son? If he is willing to help wash a little, you can help him wash a little, but if his mother is ready, please stop doing the housework, or do it a little bit.

It's crushed underneath now, what will happen in the future? Is he your girlfriend or a babysitter? That's how housework should be done in the future, what's going on now?

His mother's hands hurt, he feels sorry for his mother, why don't he wash it, why do you have to wash it, it's not that you don't have it, women are not born to wash clothes, your boyfriend really feels sorry for his mother, just let him buy a washing machine and give it to her mother, and the washing machine will wash it in the future.

I think you should help wash it! This will increase the impression of you, and you will get along better in the future!

We must do a good job in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-

Of course not, even if you will get married in the future, but you don't want to be a servant for him when he marries you back.

I think you should go, maybe even his mother will test you

It doesn't matter if you want to marry him.

Yes, you have to let your boyfriend know how good you are first, otherwise you won't be able to gain a foothold at home in the future.

Read your article, you have been misleading us into your thoughts, such as a monologue in parentheses! In fact, you subconsciously have your own thoughts. You like her and want to continue with her.

In fact, your things are very simple, it's just that you can't see clearly in it, the first love says that you miss you, and it's five years later, think about it with your logical thinking, why does this time have to be 5 years, why not 5 months or 5 minutes? You have lost her for 5 years, she has happened a lot in 5 years, and there have been many handsome guys around you, which you must also understand, but you have always been a benchmark for Tuan Mengqing to find a boyfriend. You're good to her, I'm sure I say, none of the boyfriends after that surpassed you.

So she's been contrasting and complaining all the time! What she said before that she didn't want to break up, you can take it as true, because thoughts are incomprehensible. But behavior can't be hidden, can you erase the time he left you for 5 years in order to hide her previous behavior?

If you are together, then the "stolen five years" will be the most tangled in your life. In other words, if you were together 5 years ago, then she wouldn't have a contrast, and she wouldn't feel that you were good to her. Not much to say, in a word:

Brother, you are with her, it's not worth it!! If you don't understand, you can ask!

Complete! Thank you!

You guys don't fit.

If you miss it, let it go.

Ask this question, just raise the chain cover to show that you still have her in your heart, see that you are making a scene, maybe you will find that she is no longer the same person as before, or you still love each other and want to continue to be together, either way, decided, just work hard. But you really have to look at the reality well, don't be ambiguous, don't get involved with three people, mislead others and yourself.