When you fall in love with a boy but know that there is no result with Ben, do you want to continue

Agree with the upstairs, people are not just living for themselves, we should pay attention to feelings, but also should take the responsibility on our shoulders. Think about your parents, they will worry about you.

No. Think more about your parents, and you will be much happier.

Late at night, there is one person and one Buddha in the temple, and the Buddha sits and stands.

Man: Holy Buddha, I'm a married person, and I'm fanatically in love with another woman right now, and I really don't know what to do.

Buddha: Can you be sure that the woman you are in love with now is the only last woman in your life?

Man: Yes. Buddha: You divorce and then marry her.

Man: But my current lover is gentle, kind, and virtuous, and I am not a little cruel or immoral in doing this.

Buddha: It is cruel and immoral to have no love in marriage, and now that you are in love with someone else, you don't love her anymore, and you are right to do so.

Man: But my lover loves me very much, really loves me.

Buddha: Then she is happy.

Person: I want to divorce her and marry her, she should be very miserable, how can she be happy?

Buddha: You are wrong, you are just a concrete of her true love in marriage, and when your concrete does not exist, her true love will continue to another concrete, because her true love in marriage has never been lost. So she is happy and you are miserable.

Person: She said that she only loves me in this life, and she will not fall in love with anyone else.

Buddha: Have you said that too?

PERSON: I....Buddha: Now you look at the three candles in the censer in front of you, and the one is the brightest.

Person: I really don't know, it's all the same.

Buddha: These three candles are like three women, one of which is the woman you love now, there are so many living beings, there are millions of women, you don't even know which of these three candles is the brightest, you can't find out the person you love now, why can you be sure that the woman you love now is the only last woman in your life?

PERSON: I....Buddha: Now you take a candle and put it in front of your eyes and look at the brightest one with your heart.

Man: Of course, it's the one in front of you that is the brightest.

Buddha: Now you put it back in its place and look at the one that is the brightest.

Man: I still can't really see the brightest one.

Buddha: Actually, the candle you just took is like the last woman you love now, the so-called love is born from the heart, when you feel that you love her, you can feel that it is the brightest when you look at it with your heart, when you put it back in its place, you can't find the brightest feeling, your so-called last and only love is just a mirror, and in the end it is empty.

Person: Oh, I see, you're not asking me to divorce my lover, you're enlightening me.

Buddha: If you see through it, you can go ahead of it.

Person: I really know who I love now, and she's my current lover.

Buddha: Amitabha, Amitabha.

There is no need to continue, this is not good.

Having love will not be fruitless, unless you do not believe in your feelings.

Pursue what you love, I believe that there will be rewards for paying!

If you're 100% sure you don't get results, then – give up!

If you're not sure, then – don't give up!

Give it up, it's even more sad to break up later.

I once witnessed a friend's love journey. At the beginning, they belonged to the talented and beautiful women, and the people around them were very optimistic about this couple, thinking that they would enter the palace of marriage. Suddenly, one day, my friend told me that she and her boyfriend were in a relationship that didn't work out.

The man's parents are extremely opposed to being with my friend, just because my friend's family is complicated, my friend's family is a single parent, and there are 4 younger brothers, and the man's parents are a bit powerful and look down on my friend's family. So I persuaded the man to break up with my friend five times, and at the beginning, the man would oppose his parents' practice and be with my friend wholeheartedly. Later, the man's parents forced the man to break up with the threat of life and death, and the man was a filial person who was caught in the middle of my friends, which was extremely difficult.

My friend also saw that he was struggling with it every day, and what was chilling was that the man's parents were constantly arranging all kinds of blind dates for the man. It is estimated that the man is tired, as long as his parents don't make trouble, he accepted the blind date. Later, my friend came to me and talked to me about her relationship.

She said: Since I already know that this is a fruitless love, knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, and preferring to go to the tiger mountains, why bother to fight the fire and kill myself, so in the end, my friend chose to break up to end this love. Maybe my friend's love story may feel more bloody in the eyes of others, and if it weren't for what really happened around me, I would feel like this and feel bloody.

Life is not easy, everyone always has all kinds of difficulties, in a clear and rational state, since you already know that you are facing a fruitless love, then there is no need to continue.

Dear, most people will not choose to continue to love. However, it is difficult to give up a loved one. If you really love him, chances are you won't care about the outcome. But there are more of these kinds of drama TV dramas, and in real life you have to face pressure from all sides, so the result is very important.

If you're just an ordinary person, don't waste time on fruitless relationships. Best wishes.

Knowing that knowing that loving a man has no results, will you choose to continue to love?

Generally, they do not choose to continue to love.

Because there is no fruitless love.

It can make people lose motivation.

There is no enthusiasm.

So very few people are able to keep in love.

Love is so helpless, knowing that there is no result, why do you want to let yourself be a moth to the fire.

Nowadays, we all feel that our time is precious, and we no longer want to waste our youth on things that have no results. But not everyone falls in love to live a lifetime. Some people fall in love because they don't want to be alone, some people want to experience the feeling of being loved, some people want to learn the skills of getting along from love, and some people are young and short, why not be chic and happy?

Let's fall in love, we won't die if we break up.

As long as the attitude is sincere, then the relationship makes sense. Just because the results may not be good, is there no need to try? Not necessarily.

It is the same with human life. Perhaps it is never about finding meaning, not about getting a result, but about experiencing life itself.

Since you know that loving him has no results, why do you have to pay unilaterally, and blindly like him, what good is it for yourself?

Hello, I think I might want to love the situation you asked.

Sincerely answer for you, I hope to adopt.

If it is destined to be fruitless, then let it go, go and find your own happiness, and you will definitely meet the person who treats you sincerely.

It's definitely not willing to let go at first, but after thinking it through, you should withdraw and leave.

I won't stick to it anymore, but some people will not be able to let go, and they will continue to love, but it is very hard.

No, it is said that long pain is better than short pain, and if you continue, except for a short period of paralysis of yourself, and when the reality is revealed, there is only endless pain and unwillingness. Loving someone is not like this, since no matter how hard you try, it won't work, why not find someone who loves you, you may not fall in love with him after a long time.

Yes, because if you don't love, you will regret it, this kind of relationship is really tangled, love is not, not love is not, it is very heart-wrenching.

When you are young, you will, but when you are older, you should get married, because you can't afford to delay.

It mainly depends on the personality of the person, right?

Sometimes people are very strange, knowing that love will not come to fruition, but they will choose to love all the time. Sometimes it's a lot of crazy men and women.

Knowing that loving a man who has no results, then you should cut through the mess quickly, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and try to choose to give up.

I know that I love someone, but I want to continue? Don't go all the way to the dark.

Knowing that loving a man who has no results will still show that you are in love? Definitely not.

If you know that there is no result, then you will definitely not love again.

Now that you know that there is no result, what do you continue to do? Isn't this self-inflicted with oneself?

Rationally speaking, let it go when you know that there is no result.

True love is to know how to cherish true love when you can love, and to know how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even a person is not lonely。。

Before everything comes, everything is never known, and no one can predict it. Even if it was a mistake at the beginning, you should stick to your original love and go on bravely. There is no right or wrong in relationships, as long as you are happy.

If you love him, then you have to go on It doesn't matter how it turns out, maybe you will be sad, but you won't regret it. Because missing out is worse than failing.

Waiting for a miracle, this second is not disappointed; There is hope in the next second, never give up easily, I believe that tomorrow will be better, there will be a miracle, if you love each other, don't wait for the loss to regret it,

It's worth continuing to love, at least you have a certain reward for what you give, and love from the heart Even if there is no result, you are still happy!

Now that you know the result, why bother to do some useless work and increase your troubles. Why don't you go and find the one that has a result?

Emotional matters really make people with cowardly personalities even more entangled and painful.

Only people who are truly strong in their hearts, who know what they want, can turn around gorgeously.

If it were me, I would, I would be the one who didn't cry when he saw the coffin

Dear landlord.

In fact, the most precious and important things in the world, that is, one's own family affection, one's own feelings and heart, one's own life and health, one's own happiness and joy, one's own life and career, one's own personality and dignity, it can also be said that the five types of people that should be cherished, namely parents, siblings, friends, lovers, and oneself, these are the most precious things in one's own life, and they are also the most cherished things, which cannot be lost.

Because only one's own family affection is eternal love, it is a love that cannot be let go, it is a love that blood is thicker than water, and only family affection is eternal love.

In the world, only one's own feelings are one's own things, nothing can be lowered, and only oneself is the most real.

In a person's life, life is precious, health is the capital, as long as you cherish yourself, cherish life, is the most precious.

As long as we face life with an optimistic attitude, happiness will be everywhere, happiness is a feeling, happiness is a wisp of floral fragrance, when the flower blooms in the depths of the soul, as long as the breeze blows gently, it can exude a leisurely, intoxicating fragrance.

Life and career is the ideal we pursue and the goal of struggle, one thing, if you figure it out, it is heaven, if you can't figure it out, it is hell, since you live, you must live well. If you know how to live, if you can enjoy yourself in a world where colors, sounds, lights, scents, and beautiful scenery are always available, life will become an endless journey of fun.

I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had

I've done just that

I know it's impossible

But it was still returned

Although the breakup was painful later

But I don't regret it at all

Because at least I have a lot of good memories

Yes, love doesn't have to be fruitful. It's not love to hug back.

I won't, it's too painful to stand it.

Hey, why is the relationship like this?

Love is not necessarily marriage, you really love someone you don't have to marry him, as long as he is happy. But it can be hard and painful, and if it's me, I'll forget it, and it's better for me!

As an investment, who will continue to love without return.

Of course it will be pulled, because everyone has times when they are soft-hearted.

It's not over yet, how do you know the outcome?

Don't be so sure, maybe there will be a turnaround, don't miss it and let yourself regret it

I used to think the same thing as you and split up with a woman I loved the most, but now I only have one feeling.

That's regret!

Don't care about the so-called results, believe in yourself and believe in him (her), and continue to love for nothing else! Just because you won't regret it in the future is the hardest thing, isn't it?

I think you know that you don't have anything to do together. But you're still with him. You must love him very much.

So since you love him, you have to be good to her while you are together now. Even if you break up, you won't be unwilling, because you once loved deeply. That's all!

Wishing you happiness!