What should I do if I want to confess to a girl? I m afraid she ll refuse

I had an idea.

In an open park, I used a two-stage water rocket I made myself to hang a banner of "i heart (graphics, can't be typed, forgive me) so-and-so", launched into the air, and let the whole world (at least nearby residents) see it, and then whether she wants to or not, (generally girls will be a little surprised and daze when they see such a strange flying object, so they generally won't refuse, and the chance of success will be great) gently raised her hand, "xx, I like your ......."”

I graduated from high school in my third year, and I plan to confess to my crush after the release of the list, and the water rocket has been ready, but my she has returned to her hometown for the summer vacation, which means that it is impossible to meet again in the future. The plan has completely failed, and if you want, I can mail it to you It is not only to make the best use of it, but also to be a blessing to the newlyweds.

Sometimes confession is not as effective as action, you can ask her out to watch movies, eat, go shopping, and sing K! In fact, from her expression, you can see your status in the heart, generally if she likes you, she will be shy, will love to laugh, and will look at you from time to time! , sometimes seize the opportunity to take the opportunity to take her hand.

Actions are more direct and practical than words.

Fear? If you like it, don't be afraid.

There is still a chance to confess bravely, and if you keep being afraid, you will have no chance at all.

If she rejects you, don't take it as a bad thing, you can find your own shortcomings in her rejection, and keep improving yourself, which is good for yourself.

I wish you the best of luck with her.

It's really hard to open your mouth It's a very embarrassing thing to be rejected and there is no face But Li Ao fell in love with her at first sight when he first met his current wife He was very entangled in whether to confess to her Very afraid of being rejected by her But on second thought, it is really not worth losing such a good girl for the sake of her own face If she is not as important as her own face, it means that he doesn't like her very much, but he really likes that girl very much, so he took the risk of rejection and confessed to that girl Even if he was really rejected that time He also spoke his mind He won't regret it, so you have to do it too!

If you confess that there is still a chance of 1 2, the chance of not confessing is 0, no matter what you do, it is impossible to be 100% successful, but if you don't do it, how do you know if you succeed or not, try to take the first step, I think it will help you no matter what you do in the future, don't be afraid of failure, come on.

You are a man, you have to dare to face everything, remember, if you say it, you will be 50% successful, if you don't say it, there is no hope, even if you don't succeed, she can't kill you, besides, you won't lose anything, at least you work hard!

Write a note and send it to the girl through her friend, hide in the dark and see how her expression is, if you smile it means she likes you, and if you have a bitter face, you don't like it.

What are you afraid of, manly man. You go to confess that there is %50 hope, if you don't go, sending it back is still equal to 0

I've had the same problem as you before, and I finally confessed to her that I succeeded

What I'm trying to say is that if you don't give it a try, you won't know what she thinks, maybe she likes you too, don't miss the opportunity.

The first case: give up。If the girl refuses outright, you must keep the dignity of humanity and stop pestering her and revolving around her like a pet.

Remember, the two of you are equal. The only thing you can do is turn around and walk away and tell yourself "say no, say no, it's no big deal, and don't be as depressed as if the whole line collapsed and you lost the battle." ”

The second case: keep chasing。If you really love her, you can continue to love her unconditionally after being rejected.

There is a 50% chance that one day she will be moved to accept you, and another 50% chance is that you will be listed as a spare tire permanently. And if you give up after being rejected, you don't have a chance at all.

Rejection of a confession is bound to be sad and frustrating. After all, before confessing, there will be a beautiful vision and imagination of the relationship between the two people in the future, and when the girl says "no", these beauties are broken. However, although he can't control whether the girl accepts the confession or not, he can control himself to come out of the trauma of Bi Lazhen's rejection of confession.

Tell yourself that the reason why it hurts is because you paid too much attention to this girl before, put all your love in her basket, and desperately hoped that she would also respond. You mistakenly think that she is the only one, but in fact, you are not coarse, you are just reluctant to pay.

There are billions of people in the world, and there must be many, many people who you love and she loves you, and the girl who rejects you in front of you is not one of those people. So stop the loss in time and go find the girl who loves each other.

You can also think of it this way: friends and lovers are different ways to get along. Even if you're with her, after a few weeks of intimacy, you may find that she's nowhere near as nice as you thought she would be, and the two of you aren't a good fit at all.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with being rejected in confession, just let the beauty of this unrequited love stay in your most beautiful imagination forever.

Emotionally, most people are not all smooth sailing. In the process of falling in love, you will encounter many failures and setbacks, and confession failure is one of the setbacks. When we encounter a failure to confess, we will be lost, we will be depressed, and we will be depressed.

So, what should we do in the face of confession failure?

Confess your failed friend to confide.

If you are in an unhappy mood after the confession fails, you or ask your buddies or girlfriends to go out for a spin, buy shopping, and see the scenery. Play around and relieve your inner depression. You can tell your bosom friend about your distress, so that your heart will be much more comfortable.

Confess the adjustment mentality of failure.

Confession failure can give people a sense of denial. At this time, you can have more contact with outsiders, and don't deny yourself because of the failure of confession to be rejected by the other party, thinking that you are worthless. Pay attention to your image and strengthen your temperament.

Maybe in the future life, work and study, you will meet a better and more suitable Shu Zheng that (he) her. On the contrary, there is a different life. Moreover, the experience of this failure is also a valuable experience for us to rotate.

We can reflect on what we have done badly in ** and correct it later.

Confession of failure and embarrassment of meeting.

After a failed confession, you may often meet at school or at work, and embarrassment is inevitable. And you can't not see each other every day, what should you do? At this time, you should be cheeky and find a time to ask her (him) out.

Talk to each other, talk about things that you tend to be embarrassed to meet, and untie each other's knots. In this way, it will be easier for you to meet. Speaking of which, there is no knot.

If you feel really embarrassed to speak, you can chat through QQ or **.

The temptation to confess failure.

If you have time to ask her out to play, if all this can continue normally, it means that you still have a chance and can continue to work hard. If you confess many times and are rejected by strong directness, then you may want to consider giving up.

Confession failed. If you continue to pursue it, it will not benefit each other, and it will even make the person you like disgusted with you, or even disgusted with you. You can distract from him when necessary.

Sometimes what is easy to get is not cherished, but what you can't get is more wanted. Therefore, if you give up, maybe he will realize your goodness in the journey of life, and he may change his mind. If you're willing to accept it.

First of all, you have to understand that it is normal for a boy to confess to a girl, and this kind of thing always has two outcomes, success and failure, if you are confused because of failure now, it is also easy to understand, because most people are like you, they will also be confused, but it is not difficult to let go for a long time, because men and women are different, your thoughts are not consistent with her thoughts, you are willing to be rejected, and now you are rejected, don't be discouraged, cheer up and welcome a new life.

Hello dear kiss, I'm happy to answer for you, it's not a shame for you to confess to the girl that you were rejected, so be brave to be yourself, you dare to look directly at your own heart, this is already great, so the rejection is not terrible, relax your mind, what you should do, people who like you will like you after all.