What should I do if my confession is rejected?

I've had boys rejected by me before, but it doesn't seem like a thing.

Love is a matter of two people; It is originally sweet and happy, but often we only know to love blindly, but we don't know how others feel about ourselves, and we don't take into account the feelings of others, then this kind of love is destined to be a cup of bitter wine, and there is no happiness at all! But feelings are cultivated slowly. If you like someone from the beginning, but she doesn't like you, you can try to develop a relationship with her slowly, and the end is that she may change her mindset and fall in love with you, or maybe she still doesn't call you!

If she still doesn't call you, you have to think about whether this dead end is going to go down! There is no grass in the world, why love a flower that does not belong to you? Take a step back and open the sky, and in a few years, you will find that she was just like this!

Then she really doesn't like you, she doesn't have to be together, it's okay to be friends.

There is no happiness in reluctance, why bother to love a flower!

You just wait patiently for two or three weeks and avoid her, because it will be awkward for you to meet during this time, and she has said so, and you are still pestering her, which will make her disgusted with you. So, you avoid it for a while, and wait for time to dilute it a bit. Start with a simple hello, then slowly try to chat with her for a few words, (remember not to be anxious), and then start from an ordinary friend, treat her sincerely, and time will prove to her that you are good and your sincerity!

Finally, good luck ...

Get on the bus first, pay the ticket later, and cook the rice with raw rice!

There is no so-called what to do, the man has to pick it up, and he has to put it down.

First of all, we don't recommend confession, the confession that doesn't touch the other party's heart is begging, lazy behavior, if you have confessed and failed, all your actions later appear purposeful, and girls will reject you, so first of all, you have to eliminate the other party's antipathy towards you.

Today let's talk about what to do if the confession is rejected? Yesterday when I was on the live broadcast, a brother said, I confessed to the girl I liked, but she refused, usually I chat with her very well, and she will come out when I ask a girl, I thought she liked me, so I confessed to her, but I didn't expect that she would be rejected.

1. Adjust your mentality and release your mood.

Because confessing that a person is in pain when they are rejected, it is very irresponsible for their own health. It is a fact that we have been rejected and cannot be changed, but we can change our attitude towards this matter and adjust our mood. Don't just pay attention to the person in front of you, there are many people who love you and are silently watching you behind your back.

Don't just stare at one person, but open your eyes and reach out to someone who is better than this one.

2. Don't contact the other party again.

If the other party rejects you after you express their hearts, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of bad words are resigned, then this kind of person can ignore her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and you will feel that everything you do for her is deserved, and it is difficult to find your goodness. It's impossible to be very good to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be pleasant.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person. To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

3. Open the knot in your heart and continue to be friends.

If it's a good friend who has been with you for a long time and the relationship has become awkward because of your confession, you shouldn't give up right away. You can continue to choose to be friends with the other person, but don't reveal that you still have intentions for the other person. It may be that the good old days are gone, but you can reconnect with each other as a normal friend, and she can't refuse your friendship.

If you are not friends with the other party, you can also take the opportunity of confession to let the other party know you and become her friend.

4. Understand your image in the other person's mind and analyze the reasons for failure.

You think you are excellent in the other person's mind, but the other person may not take you seriously at all. The first impression cannot be broken, but you can improve your image in the other person's heart and become the person that the other person likes. Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you or your age, wealth and other indicators have not been reached, solve the symptoms, do not deal with it blindly.

5. Turn grief and anger into motivation and enhance personal charm.

A confession failure does not mean that you are useless, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal cultivation temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more favored by the opposite sex. Confession failure must be that you are not enough of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself and learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you.

Therefore, after being rejected, you should not stay in this stage of loss, but should rise up, improve yourself, and wait for the right person to appear at the right time with the best attitude.