Am I a spare tire? Question about pursuing girls

If you are busy at work, etc., are excluded.

I feel like I might not be as good as a spare tire. Turning hot and cold to you means that her other feelings are also fluctuating. The final result will probably wait for the outcome of her relationship.

She should be a good girl, and waiting for people on the street for so long at least shows that patience is good.

You did something wrong, chasing girls shouldn't ask her what she means to you Little boys often ask this, absolutely no need Normal girls are willing to go out with you, which means that they have a good feeling, so you make more appointments, and slowly get intimate until there are some intimate moves, so that you don't need to ask her to accept you There are even some masters, and girls who go to bed can't help but ask him if we are boyfriend and girlfriend? So, don't ask this question, it doesn't work to accept it verbally, she only counts when she has you in her heart This title really doesn't matter

You care about her very much Whether you have a spare tire or not depends on yourself At first glance, you are a professional bubble mm master Hehe Is it feelings Dispensable Anyway, Chinese are going to face marriage In front of marriage Feelings are a ** So a momentary entanglement does not mean eternal entanglement You don't want to push all the responsibility on yourself You will never be wrong It's just that now you still don't understand It's good Take your time and don't rush You can also buy a train ticket I wish you happiness.

It depends on the specific situation and the specific performance of the girl. If she just doesn't give you a positive answer, she may be testing you, or she is still hesitating.

I'm a girl, from a woman's point of view, she either hasn't thought about it yet, or she treats you as a toy, anyway, it's idle and idle, it doesn't matter if it's not a spare tire, of course, it doesn't rule out some other reasons, busy with work and the like, but you can ask the friends you introduced to understand her personality and life.

It's not a spare tire, but I think she's not just single.

It's a spare tire that can turn over, right?

Of course, if you don't have a spare tire, unless you are a fool, even if it is a spare tire, it cannot be said to be a spare tire, and the consequences are very serious, so if a girl asks you this question, you must not be honest, even if it is a lie.

Definitely not, only fools. However, if you really like that girl, you should concentrate on being nice to her. See the good in her. Of course, girls need to be coaxed, but be careful not to cheat. No lie lasts.

When a girl asks him if he is a spare tire, it means that the boy's womanhood is quite good, and when encountering this situation, he must quickly cut through the mess and make his position clear, if the other party does not respond clearly to her, she must leave as soon as possible, otherwise she will be hurt in the end, and there is no need to deal with this kind of scumbag.

If you really like the girl, tell her that it is not a spare tire and that your feelings for her are serious. But if you don't like the girl, also be truthful and make it clear, don't waste each other's time, this is also a responsible attitude towards the other person.

You have to carefully consider whether you use the girl as a spare tire again, when the girl asks this question, it also shows that the girl is extremely insecure, she does not see sincerity and seriousness in you, if you are not her as a spare tire, please give her enough security.

You can firmly deny the other party's ideas, because if you don't like your honesty will hurt him, you can slowly reduce the interaction and extinguish the other party's hope, if you like it, give the other party a sense of security, strengthen your feelings for her, and dispel her concerns.

If you really like him, then you have to be honest with him, he is not a spare tire, if you don't like him very much, then I also suggest you tell him honestly, because this is not only to be sincere to yourself, but also to be responsible for the girl.

No one will want to be a spare tire, the emotional pay is equal, and they all want to have a response, love without a response is the most painful, so if you don't like this girl, you have to decisively refuse him, you must not use others as a spare tire, this is a very hurtful behavior.

I think as a boy, you have to be truthful, don't hurt the two girls, if he is a spare tire, you tell him, let him take the initiative to let go, if he is not, then please cherish her,

First, you can't simply reply to him as a spare tire, because he finds out that you are also in contact with other girls. You just post a paragraph I really like you, and then post all your friends again. Let him see that you are the only one and only you.

I think that in this case, the girl must have something to suspect you, and think that you have an affair with which girl, so you should also be honest and give him a reassurance, so that the relationship between the two of you will be better.

It's good to be true to the situation, you will ask like this, it is estimated that you are using her as a spare tire and it is not good to get back, right, since it has been detected by the girl, it is better not to continue this behavior, if not, just tell the truth.

The girl asked him if he was a spare tire, as it was, and if you really like him, then show the mentality, if it is really a spare tire, don't hurt others, he just wants a certainty.

The first situation is that you are fishing, she is the spare tire, you are ambiguous, or just give up the fish. The second situation is that you don't have fish, and you don't just tell the truth about your feelings for her.

Definitely not, only a fool will, but if you really like that girl, you should concentrate on being good to her and see her advantages, of course, girls need to be coaxed.

No, you have to comfort her well, if a girl says this, it must be insecure, and the boy should give the girl as much security as possible, so that the girl can experience your love and tolerance for him.

You tell the truth, if you really associate with her, use practical actions to eliminate her concerns and confusion, if you really treat her as a spare tire, you have to let her go as soon as possible, don't delay her youth.

If you ask this question, you must have a conflict. Or it's possible that the other person has noticed some of your behavior. So to take the way of talking directly is to question you face-to-face.

Do whatever you think in your heart, if so, tell the girl truthfully, don't waste your time, hurt other people's feelings, and don't selfishly treat others as spare tires.

Definitely not, but if you really like that girl, you should concentrate on being nice to her and see her advantages, of course, girls need to be coaxed.

If a girl asks you if he was played, what else is wrong with you? What kind of position he is in your heart, you can tell him directly, if you don't want to be with him as a person to date in the future, you can also sue him, just treat him as a friend.

Summary. Long-distance relationships are really not easy, and the teacher can understand your feelings. Because you waited for her and didn't see her for a day, she must be very disappointed and sad.

I asked the girl if she was using me as a spare tire, and she didn't use me.

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Is it a definite boyfriend and girlfriend relationship between you?

Confirmed. Do you want to ask your friends if they are using you as a spare tire? The question is too direct, and people are not good. Actually, you should feel it.

I don't know, but she still takes the initiative to message every day.

Are you in a long-distance relationship with your girlfriend?

Yes, I went to look for her the other day and waited for her for a day, and she didn't come.

Yes, I went to look for her the other day and waited for her for a day, and she didn't come.

Relationships with girlfriends can be channeled in a positive way. Don't you think that's too straightforward? If she replied yes, wouldn't you be sad?

If she's not. Do you think she lied to you? If she really replied to you like that, what would you do?

The answer to the question is too extreme.

Long-distance relationships are really not easy, and the teacher can understand your feelings. Because you waited for her and didn't see her for a day, she must be very disappointed and sad.

I don't know if I want to continue.

What is your normal relationship?

How long have you been together? What about the emotional foundation?

It's OK. Then there are no other big contradictions between you, do you?

No, it's a good relationship to manage. Many times there are problems in the relationship because I don't know how to manage. Feelings are to be managed with care.

Love has methods and skills.

Do you know what your girlfriend's biggest hobby is? Do you know what her needs are?

Only by mastering her needs can he make him die for you for the rest of his life.

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The more you give in a relationship, the more you will definitely cherish it, after all, this relationship is not easy to come by, but when you don't get your own corresponding return, this love becomes unequal, after all, love needs to give each other. In love, there is a word called a spare tire.

I believe everyone has heard that the so-called spare tire is actually if something unexpected happens, you can accept it directly, which is definitely unfair in the relationship, but it is very realistic.

One: Not all girls like to find a spare tire. Saying that girls like to find spare tires is to generalize, because there will be some boys or girls in the relationship to find a spare tire for themselves, that is, they have thought about their own back road, and now this is not good, then change the spare tire.

But not all girls like to find a spare tire, after all, there are still people who pay in their sincere feelings. <>

2. Enjoy the efforts of others. For some girls who like to find a spare tire, in fact, it is nothing more than enjoying the efforts of others themselves, and they don't need to lose anything. One person does not pay enough for himself, but more people pay for himself, and there is no sense of security in the relationship.

The typical performance is actually to be hot and cold to you, say a few good words to you when you use it, and hang it aside if you don't use it, but there are still people who are willing to make a spare tire, after all, they still have the capital to make a spare tire, maybe one day they can really be on the throne. <>

Three: Enjoy such vanity. We have to bear that in reality, there are many girls who are relatively scum, and their hearts are very vain, not only in their liking of luxury, but also in changing their boyfriends.

What is love, love is reciprocal giving, you hope that others can repay you with 100% sincerity, then you must also pay 100% sincerity, otherwise this kind of love will be out of balance.

In the relationship, not every girl likes to find a spare tire, and the average girl is more dedicated to her feelings. Girls who are looking for a spare tire in a relationship are a lack of confidence in their appearance and abilities. The other is the means adopted to achieve a certain benefit and end.

Not all girls like to find a spare tire. To say that girls like to find spare tires is to generalize, because there will be some people in the relationship to find spare tires for themselves, but not all girls like to find spare tires, and there are still people who are sincere in their feelings.

No, girls are also more emotional, their view of love will be more pure, when they find someone they like, they will be more single-minded, will not look for a spare tire, will fall in love well, and fall in love seriously, so, in the relationship, girls do not like to find a spare tire.

It is completely understandable that some girls are looking for a spare tire, after all, they are girls, not men. They are looking for a spare tire to find a place for spiritual sustenance or emotional catharsis when they need it. Relieve stress and soothe your mind.

If they achieve their goals, they will often put the spare tire aside, just like filming an emotional drama, they are acting.

Only girls with bad character like to find spare tires, ordinary girls don't like to be someone else's spare tire, and they don't like to find someone else to be a spare tire, and they don't want to be hurt and they won't let others experience it through what they do.

You don't want to envy girls who have a lot of spare tires, they don't get real love in the end.

No, girls prefer to find someone who truly loves them, no one will like to find a spare tire, girls pay more attention to feelings, will not be attentive, will be more single-minded.

No, most girls are very sincere and dedicated to their feelings, and they also require the other party to be such a person, so girls who like to find a spare tire are actually very few people.

No. Under normal circumstances, once a girl chooses it, she will cherish it. A girl like you said who likes to find a spare tire is definitely not a good girl. It's hard to find true love for girls who like half-heartedness.