What is the ending of the older leftover girl? What is the ending of the older leftover girl?

Personally, I think it's still necessary to get married, but you can't get married for the sake of getting married like completing a task, and you may regret it! All encounters, situations, and tribulations are training a person, testing a person, and helping everyone grow. Don't reject and resent suffering, sometimes he will make you see a person's nature clearly and avoid entrusting it to the wrong person!

When to do something, the water is in the course of achieving marriage, everything is destined by heaven! Other people's comments, irresponsible remarks, in fact, sometimes can be ignored, but often ask yourself: whether your decision is right, whether they should refer to some aspects of their own reference, the main thing is to refer to the advice of parents (parents are from the past, experience must be more abundant than you and us), and parents are people who give us life and bring us up with hard work, we can't help but consider their feelings - filial piety first:

In life, you can not talk about any favors to others, and you can ignore others, but you must not be sorry for your parents, and you must not let your parents down!

Some people live well when they are single, they earn a lot of money when they are young, they are also very healthy, and they have enough money to support themselves; Some people live freely when they are young, and when they are old, there is no one around them to talk to, and their health is not good, sometimes they have a cold and fever and they don't even have a person to serve tea and pour water (people are not married in middle age, so there is no husband and children, and their parents are not there), and when they lie on the sickbed alone, they regret their single-mindedness when they were young and ignore the advice of their parents. Young couples are old companions, so the matter of marriage, I personally think it is still necessary, after all, people live in this world, feelings are still very important, can accompany you through the wind and rain, let you enjoy your old age, and leave this world with a smile (do not rule out individual cases of being dragged down by feelings and being broken)! What do you think?

The first is to be unmarried for life, the second is to lower the requirements to marry a poor man with children, the third is to find a young handsome man who wants your money, and the fourth is to find true love.

Married at the end of the year at the age of 27. met the man on a blind date, completed the acquaintance, engagement, and marriage in three months. A daughter born at the end of the second year, and a second son born three years later.

Let you down, there is a big leftover girl here, and I have 29 no room to rent a car. No husband. There is a small deposit.

The down payment or something can be paid at any time. But I don't want to buy a house and I don't want to get married. Maybe it's missing the person you want to marry the most.

Maybe it's because the feelings are downplayed. Looking at the marriage around Fa Xiao, they are either not doing well or getting divorced. I suddenly felt that it was really good to live alone.

My family has an older brother and a nephew anyway. My parents didn't push me much. Let it be.

Marriage is to get married, but you can't just grab one. This is not responsible for yourself.

There is only one older leftover girl next to me, who is not married at the age of 34, a doctor, and is now the vice president of a design institute where we are. Her boyfriend ran from Beijing to our eighteenth-tier city for her, begging her to get married, but she just didn't want to get married.

When I was young, I lived freely, traveling, shopping, shopping, ......, die lonely in old age, of course, if you have enough money, plus a healthy body, you should be able to live this life carefree, rest the girl, come on!

There is no ending, leftover women are the needs and choices of the times, creating more value to prove their worth is the right way, marriage is not necessary for them, and it is even more unfair to those who marry them.

Let's talk about my cousin first, who is 34 years old this year and is still unmarried. Graduated from vocational high school, ordinary migrant workers. I never thought there was anything good about getting married early, I just thought that being the happiest was the most important thing.

There is a female teacher in the college, an associate professor, Fudan bachelor's degree, master's and doctorate, thirty-five or sixteen, not married.

Birth, old age, sickness and death, if a woman lives alone, it is clean and tidy, and all human beings, you can ask the older leftover man what is the end, the widow of the man in our village is dirty at home, and when he is old, he also takes the chicken woman back to the village, and others laugh at him behind his back.

Some leftover women are better off than you even if they don't get married for the rest of their lives!

I know a lot of older leftover women, because at my age, the women who grew up with me, if they haven't started a family, are basically classified as "leftover women" by society, although I myself am very disgusted by this name.

What is the ending? Until the day of death, it is not the end. Don't discriminate so much against older leftover women, people are no worse than women who are dead in marriage.

People are happy in this life, and marriage is hard for a while, because the pressure of responsibility is greater, but watching children grow up is not happiness, and having grandchildren is not a family. If you don't get married, it's cool for a while, there's no pressure, and if you don't get married, you have to add a sour word in front of it, watch other people's children and grandchildren, and show your children. It is inevitable that my heart will be sour.

But watching others live tired will always be a little cooler, and finally hovering between sour and cool, becoming sour.

I have a high school classmate (36 years old) who hasn't been married yet. Have a house in a first-tier city and work within the system. Gao Tong, ** white.

There are a few around me who are married to Ruyi Langjun, some are married to older high-quality men, and some are married to second-married high-quality men, and they are all doing well, at least they are married to love.

The older a woman gets, the less valuable she becomes. If a man has money, he can marry a sister-in-law. Wait until the leftover women are old. became an old woman that everyone hated, and when her brothers and sisters and parents died, she lived alone, and no one knew if she was sick. If it's dead and smelly, no one may know!

No matter what the reason is, as a woman, she has not experienced marriage and childbirth in the world, and in the end, it is not a perfect life.

You have to find someone to marry, otherwise the painful days will gradually come. No one can guarantee that you can earn a lot of money now and in the future, after all, if you retire at the age of 65 and are not married, you will have to take care of the elderly at the age of 95 at the age of 65. Whether you are healthy or not. And that's just the beginning.

I don't resist blind dates, and I'm willing to meet different people of the opposite sex. I love children and want to be a mother when I was 20 years old. Before I knew it, I was now an older girl.

Then most people find a second marriage with good conditions, what does it matter if they are older! Life is good, be good to yourself, why not! Younger and older men are more considerate, more cherishing, and more loving of their wives!

You can not get married, but you must fall in love, have a boyfriend, if you attach great importance to the quality of life, do not get married easily, especially to have children.

Seeing that she is about to run thirty, she is also a leftover woman, and the leftover woman who was delayed by her ex-boyfriend's scumbag, it doesn't matter what the ending is, anyway, after the scumbag incident, I didn't plan how good the ending would be, so if he doesn't let me feel better, I won't let him have a better time.

Marriage is also miserable. But not experiencing married life for a lifetime is really a trip to the world for nothing.

I don't think there are any women left, and there are at least 30 men in a village on my side, and there are too few women

The first way: marry someone who meets your own qualifications.

Why is it more and more difficult for women after the age of 30 to find the right person? Mostly because of the increasingly critical vision, coupled with the fact that there are fewer and fewer marriageable objects around them, the range of options is gradually narrowing, which is also the reason why many older leftover women are anxious.

In this case, some older leftover women will feel that they will never meet the right person again, so she will choose to settle, as long as that person meets her conditions, it doesn't matter whether she loves or not.

In fact, it is also rare to meet a person who meets your own conditions, and even worse, you don't like it, and the conditions are not comparable.

Although it is said that the possibility of meeting true love after the age of thirty is getting lower and lower, but don't choose to settle because of this, the marriage that will be made is more terrible, if the other party is not the person you want, then how can such a marriage be happy?

Therefore, don't feel that it is difficult to marry because you are older, and you have no confidence in yourself, even if you are an older leftover girl, you must be brave to pursue love and pursue your own happiness.

The final destination of those older leftover women is nothing more than three kinds.

The second: a person who is single.

Modern society is already the era of "big heroines", whether it is in film and television dramas, or in real life, there are more and more big heroines, they represent independent women, make their own money and spend themselves, they will no longer rely on others, and they will not become accessories of others.

At this time, there are more and more single people, and we often see some 30+ women who are still single, and some people will think they are pitiful, but in fact, most of them are very happy.

Think about it, at the age of thirty, I have a certain amount of savings, even if I want to resign willfully one day, I can support myself, if I don't get married, I don't have to consider the opinions of the other half, and I don't have the trouble of children for the time being, this moment is the best moment in life, why not cherish it?

It is precisely because there are more and more people who think like this, so there are more and more older leftover women, who tend to choose to be single alone, and feel that there is nothing wrong with living this way.

The final destination of those older leftover women is nothing more than three kinds.

The third way: be with the right person.

Whether it is an older leftover woman or a marriageable woman, the ultimate ideal is just to be with the right person, but the right person is too difficult to meet.

Some older leftover women have always insisted that they would rather lack than abuse, and if they don't meet someone they really like, then she won't easily choose to get married.

Just like Jinsha, many people will think that she is hypocritical, she is still picking and choosing there at the age of forty, feeling wrong for a while, and feeling that this person does not meet their own conditions for a while, but who said that at the age of forty, you can no longer pay attention to feelings, and you can no longer look forward to love?

She has always wanted to fall in love, but she will not find a suitable person to fall in love with, let alone get married in a daze, she has been single for so long, and it is nothing to be single for a few more years, the key is to wait for the right person to appear, this is Jinsha's view of marriage and love.

The final destination of those older leftover women is nothing more than three kinds.

Older leftover women.

The ending is generally not very good. Girls are very picky, when they pick and buy goods, they are even more strict when they choose objects, girls want to find a person who likes each other and has good conditions to start a family, but after coming out of their own failed love, they found that their youth is gone, and the object around them who can fall in love is gone, so the high-quality men with good conditions have already been pocketed by others, married and had children, so they began to suspect that they may not meet a good man in their lives.

It is said that men are ambitious, and women only care about supporting their families, but some women think that no one can be relied on, only by themselves, and a happy life is earned by themselves. When you become stronger, those excellent people will naturally gather to you, so it doesn't matter if you are older, fight for your career first.

Some girls are innocent when they don't meet the boy they like, they say they don't want to get married, love is dispensable, they look light, they feel that a person lives freely and freely, unrestrained, why find another person to increase troubles, and two people may not get along, and they may not get along with each other.

Therefore, it is better to be alone and not have so many worries, and as for the future, we will talk about it later. However, no matter how picky they are, no matter how good they are, all they think about is to wait for a person to appear, then people love themselves, that person is the ideal person in their minds, and they are willing to do anything for him.

In the end, many of the older leftover women had to find someone they didn't like, and they thought in their hearts that they were "getting married", and felt that the other party should be grateful to Dade and offer themselves like a queen. Who knows that after getting married, I found that the other party also felt that I was "willing" to marry myself, and I didn't like it, my feelings were not smooth, my relationship was not smooth, and I lived all day long in the dreams of many suitors when I was young, and I couldn't get love for a lifetime, which can be described as very miserable.

Being cheated out of money and sex.

It's easy to meet a guy who is also handsome and makes a lot of money, and he likes him, and he understands fun and romance, thinking that his years of perseverance have finally come to true love. Who knew that men who encountered "business difficulties" needed capital turnover; Or there are good investment projects that want you to "get rich" together, and the final outcome is that you are cheated of money and sex, your savings for many years are cheated out, and the rest of your life is spent cursing men, and you don't forget that there is no good thing for men in the world.

If a woman has not yet established a love partner after the age of 30, she will become more and more afraid of others mentioning marriage and love to her, and naturally show an isolation reaction in psychological defense. Avoid other people's talk about marriage and love, afraid that others will ask her age, whether she has an unintentional person, when she will get married, etc.; She hated the embarrassing questions about whether she had children or not, how old they were, and even avoided talking about her family members and the marriage status of her younger siblings. In short, when it comes to her own marriage and love, she may use other words to avoid others talking about this topic, or prevaricate in the past, making it inconvenient for people to ask again.

Special gossip. Around the older leftover women, there must be a few nagging close friends in the boudoir, all of whom are knife mouths, and every time they get together, they count every man around them with a word, and take pleasure in it. From the world's entertainment events to the emotional reality of the grassroots class, everything is discussed. But speaking of which, in the final analysis, the topic will still focus on men, anyway, the men around them are either impersonal or have no lover.

The personality is too arrogant.

Arrogant, either you have capital, or you are beautiful, or you are rich, or you are talented. If you don't have anything, and your personality is very arrogant, it will only make men stay away from you. You must know that your value is clear in your heart, and you can add points to yourself not because you are arrogant, but on the contrary, you have to subtract points.

The more you focus on being strong on the outside, the more fragile you are on the inside, and when you are strong on the inside, all this is no longer your hobby. Its own conditions are very superior, giving people a feeling of being high and low, and they will also be picked by the acquaintances around to talk and laugh at it, not because they are dazzling, but because ordinary men can't look down on them.

The heart is dark. In fact, everyone will have a broken love, as long as there is an emotional process of failure, there will be harm, in fact, growth is the process of being hurt, but you did not precipitate in the experience in time. If you are still living in the shadow of the emotional hurt of the past and are reluctant to let go of the past, then you need to turn to an emotional expert to help yourself and not let pessimism cloud your life. Such people no longer believe in love, no longer believe in men, have no confidence in life, have no confidence in themselves, and even close themselves off and are incapable of love.