I m not willing to have a baby 70, I m not willing to have a baby

I'm a psychology student. Your current psychological state is not mature at all, and your husband's thoughts are obviously very simple, marriage is a lifelong thing, but you are united because of the so-called money, whether you love each other or not, your union is very philistine, then this is a philistine marriage. A person's life is only so long, and you say that you are still young, if you are a person with ambition or ability, then I clearly suggest that you convince him and his family, if you can't be convinced, divorce is undoubtedly the best choice, if he is really good to you, he will not even give you the most basic respect, you don't even have the right to be respected, what else can not be abandoned?

Of course, if you don't have any ambition or ability to make money, then of course you can only keep compromising, because you have given him a feeling that he has to be, he is naturally unscrupulous, men are sometimes very self-righteous, you better cultivate yourself to be worthwhile, so that you have the right to speak.

To be honest, in terms of the reason why you got married, I don't think this man is really good. A person who likes to be cheap and does not know how to be satisfied, and living with him requires not only a great "sacrifice" spirit, but also a great deal of endurance. If you quarrel in the future, I believe it will be mostly because of financial problems.

In any case, I hope you don't wronged yourself. There is no regret medicine in the world, before you make a decision, you should think about whether you can bear the consequences, but also advise you to be decisive, indecision will only keep yourself in passivity forever.

After taking a look, LZ's age is indeed a bit young, and it is quite early to have a baby, you can put yourself in a weak position, saying that you are not ready or something. And to express it in a softer way, it is best for a girl to have a baby at the age of 26.

It's basically about taking it slowly. I don't think it's a big problem.

The most important thing is that lz must not get emotionally involved because of this matter, that is, do not quarrel about this matter, because the more noisy, the greater the pressure on both parties, and in the end it can only be unhappy.

I think it's still your own problem, marriage and children are indispensable. If you have feelings, it is a matter of time before you have a baby. It's all about you, you don't want to be there for the rest of your life, so why did you get married in the first place.

Your husband doesn't dare to divorce you, not only will he not have children, but he won't even get his wife's share. Afraid of what?!

Such a mercenary family, you use money to treat him, it is absolutely good!

What about the sky? It's really long.

The only one who can get through this is you who gives you advice.

What kind of life do you really want?

Decide between a rock and a hard place!

I believe that tomorrow is really beautiful, and the child is really annoying and cute.

When you have a child, you laugh and cry (because of the greatness of the Creator) and go crazy (because he is so naughty).

Go with the flow!

Because sometimes people have to confess their chosen fate!

You are the master of life, the master of the child's life.

Let's elope with my husband o(o

Or ask other people in the family who are fertile to give birth.

Or pretend to adopt one, and after getting the money, they will be adopted back.

If you pick up the upstairs, it's not easy after the divorce, especially for girls.

Money is very realistic, since you have already been realistic for your current husband, so you ask him if he can be romantic for you once?

Stick to your principles, and if he likes you, he will respect your opinion!

Tell your husband that you want money or me.

It's easy to get married, it's easier to divorce, it's not easy after divorce.

Is he doing that to you, if we can have a relationship.

Hello, there are many things that can really alleviate women's fertility anxiety, such as increasing subsidies for women's maternity policies, extending maternity leave, improving female employment discrimination, and increasing the employment rate. But if you meet someone you like, and make the woman willing to start a family with this person, then things will no longer be very anxious after that. For example, when I meet someone like Ying Yuan in "Agarwood Like Crumbs", I will not be anxious.

Not wanting to have children is often due to these reasons. For example, the stress of life, the factor of age, the relationship between certain diseases, etc.

Whether you love to have children or not depends on your own values, outlook on life, and outlook on marriage. But the information available on the Internet is also quietly and slowly changing our perceptions. There are many factors that will be taken into account, such as children's education, housing, financial pressure, etc.

It is indeed hard to have children and raise children, but there is also happiness and happiness in suffering. Those little children are still cute when they don't cry or make trouble. Watching children grow day by day, there will be a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment.

You don't pay much attention to the good news, but you worry about the bad news every day, and finally it becomes the current result: the Internet causes you to not like to have children.

However, after simple consideration, it is found that China has entered the Internet era, and it is true that the divorce rate is high, the marriage rate is low, the aging population is high, and the fertility rate is low. If you have a child, you will coax your child, and you will have no time to go online, but if you don't have a child, you can go online every day. A person can live for a lifetime if he doesn't have children, and for now, if he disconnects the Internet for a month, he may not be able to stand it.

I can live without children, how can I live without the Internet now? Guess it, if you are really disconnected, how many will you give birth to to accompany you to relieve your boredom?

1.Nowadays, there is a lot of social pressure, mortgage, car maintenance, and supporting parents, sophistication, family living expenses, these are all life pressures. At the same time, the pressure of work is also very high, so this double pressure has overwhelmed young people, not to mention the pressure of raising a child?

2.There is poetry and distance in my heart, and I yearn for freedom. After having a child, your energy should be all focused on the family and the child, your own free time will be very little, every day is around the child, there is not too much freedom, you can't have a trip to go, you can't be free to have afternoon tea on the weekend, go shopping, etc.

4.Raising a child does not prevent old age, if you don't like the child, or can't shoulder the responsibility of being a parent, then you are born to be irresponsible to him, and from the moment he is born, you have an inexhaustible heart, and you will age several years in an instant.

5.Having children is not something that must be done after getting married, and everyone has the right to choose to live their life the way they want it to be, rather than living for others. The notion that you are incomplete without having children is completely wrong.

All in all, some people like children, and some people don't want to have children, these are their own choices, and there is nothing wrong with choosing what kind of life to choose, follow your heart.