I m an introvert and I don t have any friends around me, so why don t introverts have friends?

Wow, you're such a good boy, aren't you good everywhere except for your introvert?! Be kind, righteous, and not vain, and believe that people who know you think you are a good person! Personally, I think that friends are more important than confidants, but in fact, you are just not good at words.

As long as you are sincere with everyone, I think they will become good friends with you over time. I'm also a very expressive person, but I have a few beautiful girlfriends who are very fun and have fun! I myself have no better appearance and body than others, and my friends joke that they are more beautiful because of me!

Of course, I don't get angry, because I don't think I'm a bad person, on the contrary, I think I'm a very honest and reliable person who doesn't lie to my friends. Sometimes it's reasonable to quarrel with others, but people are annoyed afterwards, why didn't they say that just now?? You don't have to ask yourself to make some changes, but you can try to have more contact with other people, more contact with the opposite sex.

After a long time, you will also have your own circle of friends. So I really wish you a good day.

Are you a man or a woman?

You have to learn to make more friends.

Introverts can also have friends, but it takes longer.

Those friends are all extroverts, huh? Find out more about yourself, don't talk about things as an introvert!

You can make yourself more extroverted, and then you can talk to your friends about this issue more, and I'm sure your friends will enlighten you. If you really can't, talk to your parents about it.

Introverts actually have their own mental world, and introverts are more sensitive, so you should pay more attention to protecting yourself. Try to open up.

Then you can try to change yourself, be more active whether you are outside or at work, and interact more with friends.

I don't have friends in my life to recognize my achievements, so I don't want to post on Moments, and there is no one to share my happiness or sorrows. The fundamental attribute of human beings is society, so most people like to gather together, eat, walk, struggle, and even go to the toilet, and want to call their partners together. Liang Shiqiu also said that only gods and beasts like to be lonely, and people want friends.

Therefore, making friends can be regarded as a part of human nature, but in daily life, there are often people who do not have many friends.

Friend. People are born different, some people are extroverted and enthusiastic, some people are introverted, and they will blush when they talk to others, which is actually normal. But being too introverted or even socially phobic will lead to a person who can't make any friends and always lives a lonely life.

However, after all, people want to make friends, and Komi Xiaozi has always had a wish, that is, to make enough friends for a hundred. This wish may be very simple for normal people, but it is difficult for Koko Furumi, who suffers from communication disorder.

Most people can't make friends because they are introverted and afraid to make friends. But not all extroverts can make a lot of friends, after all, human society is very complex. Some people are obviously very outgoing, and they are obviously very enthusiastic and like to make friends, but for some reason, they are targeted and isolated by others, resulting in not being able to make friends.

But whether you want to make friends, and what kind of people you want to be, is ultimately up to you. Be sure not to make friends for the sake of making friends, but to make friends for the sake of your heart. Because there are times when it can be better to have no friends than to have a group of friends.

There is a term called "social phobia", which is explained in layman's terms that it is a fear of communicating with others, and most of these people are introverted, difficult to adapt to the crowd, and often feel out of place with the group.

In the process of interpersonal communication, a warm and generous person is naturally more popular with others than a person with an introverted personality. However, this does not mean that an introvert is the same as failure.

What one can learn in a crowd is the same that one can learn when one is alone.

The key lies in people's inner perception of themselves.

An introvert may be sensitive and inferior, but do not dare to take the initiative to contact the outside world, for fear of being looked at differently and treated differently; It may also be because of his quiet nature, and he prefers to be alone than a noisy social circle.

In the former, the key to their lack of friends in life is that they have a low sense of self-identity and value, on the one hand, they hope to establish a relationship with others, and on the other hand, they are afraid to take the initiative to release the signal of making friends.

The latter, their introverted personality is an attitude towards the outside world, even if they have no close friends for a while, their inner world is very rich, and they prefer high-quality solitude to low-quality social interaction.

How big the world is, people also have a thousand strange personalities, we don't need to deny ourselves because of the different personalities from most people, life is in our own hands, why bother ourselves.

In "Introvert Advantage".

In the book it is written:

An introvert is less enthusiastic and more calm, and it is precisely because he cannot be perfect that he constitutes a unique self.

It is common not to have friends because you are timid and introverted, but because you don't have a common topic. Because we all know that words are not speculative more than three sentences.

The conversation is generally the same three views, and in addition, they are interested in a certain thing, and everyone's interests and concerns are all in this matter. You must have your hobbies, your specialties, make friends with hobbies, and everyone will be easy to talk to. Therefore, there are many group interest classes that are easy to make friends, such as gardening, poetry recitation, musical instrument learning, choir, etc., everyone has come together for a common goal and hobby, so that everyone has a common topic, and the communication is also smooth and happy.

This problem is actually very easy to solve, the reason why there is no common topic, is that you should be a little out of society, so you should care about the more popular topics nowadays, use the popular communication software, and constantly improve their self-cultivation, supplement all aspects of knowledge, in fact, good friends do not necessarily have to be good at communication to get, as long as you meet the kind of friends who can really make friends, with practical actions to pay each other, you can harvest good friendship, because it is true feelings that maintain friendship between friends, And just by talking about contact, true friends have to be experienced with their hearts.

Perhaps, you are putting yourself too high. In your eyes, there may not be many people who can stand side by side with you. I don't think sometimes looking for a friend is not looking for a soul mate. And you seem to be looking for a soul mate.

Actually, you learn to empathize. You don't think anyone knows you, and maybe your friends don't know them.

If you make friends, it is inevitable to have common topics. In the spirit of"Seek common ground while reserving differences"Guidelines.

Between friends, you don't necessarily have to talk about what you are best at, others are interested, you are not interested. What interests you, someone is not necessarily interested yet. Learn to find common ground.

Many times I feel that my friend's point of view is completely opposite to my own, but what does it matter? Everyone's thoughts and interests are different, and you can't ask others to be the same as yourself. The world is diverse, and people are also individual.

You can see that you are one of those with a lot of personality!

I wish you to find your ideal friend soon.

If you don't have friends, you have to learn to make friends actively, because no matter what kind of problems you face, you have to discuss them with your friends, because being alone alone is lonely after all. There's one more person he wouldn't be happy about. It should be shared in order to have joy.

We know that the clouds in the sky communicate with the clouds, and if the clouds want to communicate with the mud, then they will turn into rain and fall down. If the water in the river wants to communicate with the clouds in the sky, then it will evaporate into the sky and become clouds. That is to say, when you communicate with others, you at least have a state of reach, that is, when you are at the same level, you will naturally have a common topic, so there will be a saying that the height is unbearable.

Sometimes it depends on whether you have a common topic, or if you have a common topic, whether people want to have a common topic with you! Communication may seem like just talking, but there are many factors that depend on the communication. Because it's really complicated, there will be fewer and fewer people you can communicate with.

Think more, think more, broaden what you care about, and when others talk about what you care about, you can express your own opinions, and you can also tell everyone what you don't understand and listen to everyone's opinions.

You still have to be brave enough to socialize with others.

How lonely the master is.