My low self esteem has no friends, and people with low self esteem have no friends

Hard work is that everyone has a shining point.

If you go to play basketball, you will have friends if you play well, and even if you don't, the teacher can be your friend.

Dude, I'll make you this friend, I'm 1 high

You should be on the basketball team, and then you're cool with all the people in it being so tall.

Besides, your classmates are not with you because you are too tall, and girls probably don't even have your armpits, and boys stand next to you and have low self-esteem.

Dude, I have 207, so I go to play basketball to show that my manly style can be blue (I have 174 on my back, it's not good).

It's okay, find a tall girl, hehe, whatever you want.

Men are tall and good-looking! What kind of inferiority complex is there, as long as you get closer to other people's worlds!

Hi. I can't imagine anyone bothered by high prices. We want to be high but we can't.

Inferiority? Who is not inferior, everyone will be inferior because of their own shortcomings, if they are not inferior, they will not be called people. You are tall, and people think that you will not get along with you, because in the eyes of others, you always give others the impression of condescension.

So, you have to have an affinity, make others think that you are not condescending, but really want to make friends, and also, don't play basketball, so that people who are jealous of your height will only be more jealous of you, and then the psychological imbalance will spread gossip like "you are just playing cool", and the people who believe will only stay further away from you.

Why not go to the basketball team?

I'm pretty short, and I dream of how tall and tall I am. I used to be teased that I was too short, but now I'm going to the so-called, I know that the body is born, the fate is my own, I can be confident, so that people can look up to me, because I can afford myself first!

People with low self-esteem want to have close friends, but they often don't even have friends who drink and meat, and no one around him wants to be with him except for those who want to take advantage of him.

The more inferior a person is, the more sensitive they are. A casual word from others, he will associate with himself, and even a look from others he suspects that it has something to do with him. He always suspects that others are targeting him, laughing at him, and speaking ill of him behind his back.

Everyone is afraid of this sensitivity, and no one wants to be his friend.

The more sensitive a person is, the higher their self-esteem. He will care very much about other people's opinions, and they will cover up as much as possible when they do something wrong, and when they can't cover it up, they will start to shirk their responsibilities, and once they shirk their responsibilities, they will offend the people around them. But he doesn't look for the reason in himself, he thinks that someone else is bullying him in partnership, and this will form a vicious circle.

No one wants to be with others when they feel that there is a potential danger to being with him.

The stronger the self-esteem, the more you like to show off. If there is something that can be flaunted, he will say one thing many times like Xianglin's sister-in-law; When he has nothing to show off, he will take out a lot of ordinary things and say them, so that others will feel that he has no taste; Therefore, everyone hates him.

The more people like to show off, the more jealous they are. He really wants to have the achievements of others, and that desire to possess makes him very envious of the achievements of the people around him, envy turns into jealousy, and then he produces hatred, he will deliberately destroy other people's achievements because of such emotions, and after people feel his threat, everyone will stay away.

Sometimes I'm like this, I like to go alone, with the help of the Internet, I add the friends I want to know to Q friends first, first from the Internet chat and then slowly become real good friends, so I can hide my lack of confidence.

Don't let yourself be too withdrawn....If you want to meet friends, you must first take the initiative to talk to someone: you have to be confident, otherwise how will you mix in society!

First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; Your career will be successful, and you will be the most promising young person.

When you have self-confidence, you also have to learn to make friends, only in the heartfelt words of friends can give you a comfort, a chance to speak boldly, an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express their opinions or suggestions, express their own opinions. Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, so that you can integrate into society and get happiness.

When you have close friends, when you are full of confidence in your work, your career will be strengthened, and you will become a successful person!

Sometimes, even if a classmate who can't speak a few words a day will be your good friend, don't always feel sorry for yourself, and use your actions to prove that you participate in more school social activities; In addition, obesity is a disease, I recommend that you go for a walk after dinner every day, about 1 and a half bowls per meal, and eat some fruit after the meal.

There's no need to be optimistic, a positive attitude will affect the people around you, you don't believe in yourself, who will believe in you.

Take your time, you'll always meet you, but there are too few real friends.

The most important thing is to be sincere, to make others feel your sincerity.

Friend, no one can give you a way to completely free you from this state. You have to follow your own path, and no one else can replace it. But I'd like to give you some suggestions, I hope it will be helpful to you.

One thing is for sure, we all have strengths and weaknesses, you know. But how should we deal with them? Many people have so-called success, so that the mind begins to be arrogant, only looking at their own strengths and forgetting their shortcomings.

There are also people who experience so-called failures, and then they feel inferior, only looking at their own shortcomings and forgetting their strengths. Actually, both of these situations are bad. We should not love to focus our eyes and energy on our strengths or weaknesses, we should set our eyes and energy on a nobler, more ideal standard and strive for it.

Don't patronize learning, let alone earn respect and friendship through learning. Our lives are no longer related to these things, but to our character, and only when our character is noble can we have true friendship.

If you want to fit in, you can read more books about interpersonal communication and think carefully about how you can be a friendly person with others. You can also communicate and talk to close friends or relatives about your feelings and listen to their opinions.

Remember, being part of your life doesn't mean being a herd, because our society is so depraved that we will only become degraded if we follow it. Therefore, it is necessary to stick to the principles and at the same time, pay attention to socialize with friends. Don't be overly nervous, be with friends when you're supposed to be together, and just be careful not to do things that are empty and meaningless.

The meaning of life lies not in the first, but in the warmth and blessings that we can bring to others. Even if you get the first place, what can you do? You may feel a moment of satisfaction, but it won't be long before you realize that it's nothing more than emptiness.

It is important to study well, but the ultimate goal is to live a noble life.

Friends, don't complain, don't pay too much attention to yourself. Because you know that complaining and having low self-esteem won't do you any good except make you more decadent. You might think that this is easy to say, but hard to do.

That's true, but if it's not difficult, what do we live for? If not, why are you distressed? If it weren't difficult, wouldn't everyone in the world become angels?

Our lives are difficult challenges in our own right, and when we face them, do we give up, or do we live a truly worthwhile life? As long as you look to the future and do well in the present, what else can you do?

In fact, it doesn't take much of a complicated process to not feel inferior. The only thing is that you have to have strong faith and overcome it all. Perseverance, to practice perseverance.

You may think it's too difficult (hee-hee, actually, I am), but, if you think about it, is perseverance still called perseverance?

As mentioned before, our lives are one challenge after another. We face challenges to overcome, not give up. Look at the positive aspects of things, and don't dwell on the state of malaise, because the more decadent you are, the more difficult it will be for you to get out of this state.

You can try to take the initiative to teach students with poor grades, which may make your classmates feel good.

I think it's not wrong to insist on being yourself, you can't get along with them to show that everyone is not all the way, then don't be together, your life is not only these people, the days are your own, you must be happy, what is there to be inferior, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, no one should say whom, don't care too much about those boring eyes and opinions, be simple, relax.

First of all, we must treat our own shortcomings correctly! And so try to overcome it! At the same time, we must also see our own strengths!

Be open-minded, socialize with your classmates, help others often, and be tolerant of others! Naturally, you'll get a lot of genuine friendships! So you won't be alone!

But first of all, you should first look up to yourself, take action, and believe that you will reap the rewards!

Personally, I think that at least it is necessary to consider: find the cause of low self-esteem. Usually financially stingy and reluctant to socialize; Those who are stubborn and always contradict others, others do not want to have children; Personality developmental reasons.

Sort it out carefully, find the cause, and change the symptoms. I hope you get rid of your low self-esteem as soon as possible!

Low self-esteem, you can make other aspects stronger, you can quietly learn what you want to learn without anyone disturbing you and telling you to play.

Go out and meet new people and work hard to improve your abilities.

Be a man, be optimistic, why do you want so many friends, as long as there are a few who are sincere to you.

No one is perfect, there is no perfect person, you have to learn to be confident, you have to communicate and communicate with people more, treat everyone sincerely, others don't appreciate it, that's his business, you have a clear conscience.

You still have some friends, I don't have any, more lonely, more helpless, and more inferior.

Sympathy. I don't feel like I'm good enough and confident enough. In fact, I am quite good compared to my peers. But I'm not satisfied. It makes me feel inferior. Ay.

It's a lot of nods. There are not many true friends. ，

I don't have many friends, just be sincere.

In the same way, I hope to go out and meet more 7 friends.

Why have low self-esteem, believe in yourself.

If you know how to give, you will have more friends, and of course you are worthy friends.

Build self-confidence and learn a little more!

Friends, what do you want so much, you want to be a good confidant, it's too complicated between friends, and the more you are, the more lonely and helpless you are.

Too many friends only increase your stress and troubles.

I don't have any friends, I'm free to be alone, and there's nothing wrong with being alone.

My friend doesn't care how much, and asks if you want to be friends with me.

You're a man and a woman, you can go out to work and make more friends.

Have faith! If you are happy and optimistic, the people next to you will like you!

I think there may be two situations when you can think about this problem: the first is that you really don't even have a friend around you, and the second is due to a change in your mood.

Another reason arises due to a change in inner feelings. In real life, everyone is an isolated individual, and everyone will think about themselves first when doing things, and it cannot be said that it is because man is fundamentally selfish, he is the embodiment of human instinct. I don't know if you have ever felt this way, in a certain period of time, not to mention the interference of the external environment, not to be affected by others, you will inexplicably feel a sense of loss.

Then I found that there were no real friends around me, but this was not the case, the people around me, the environment still did not change. What has changed is only the truest idea in our hearts, at this time, we must learn to adjust our mentality, we must continue to accept and challenge new things, learn to find fun in life, and continue to realize personal value, only in this way, can we better integrate into this realistic society, at this time, you will have more and more friends.

I think this may be due to your low self-esteem, in fact, you may not have no friends.

I advise you not to be too discouraged, because I often feel this way, and when I am in a low mood, I often feel that I am alone, and there is no one to confide in. I feel like everyone around me is thinking about themselves, and no one around me is good to me except my parents. Sometimes I even fantasize that they are full of malice towards me, but in fact they are not.

Another is that the cognition of friends in my heart has not been liberated from the kind of friend relationship when I was a child. Because as we grow up, our friends are no longer friends in the sense of everything they said when they were children, and now the relationship between friends is actually much calmer, everyone has an independent space, and it is impossible to have only one friend. Many people think more about themselves, and it is impossible to put all their energy on their friends, which may be one of the reasons why you have this illusion of not having friends.

Another situation is that you may be a little more introverted and not good at making friends, but the type who is eager to make friends. When you need a friend, you have a very low self-esteem, and you are afraid that your relationship with your friend is not so good, so you make excessive demands and make others embarrassed.

In fact, I don't think you have to worry, because in addition to daily communication, there is also a kind of friendship that grows up in helping each other, as long as you are sincerely willing to make friends with them, willing to help others when they encounter difficulties, and willing to accept help from others when they encounter difficulties, I think they will feel your sincerity.