My wife is confined at her mother s house, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-19
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The wife is in confinement at her mother's house, you should accompany him more, take care of the child together, maternal confinement, drink more fish soup, nutritious things, eat peanuts, walnuts, don't make him angry,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then you have to go to see your wife and children often, try to help them do some housework within your ability, at this time your wife and children need to be taken care of, and you should take responsibility and obligation to take care of them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are close, you should go to see your wife every day, be diligent at your wife's mother's house, as long as you are there, you have to help the children wash diapers, wash clothes and your wife's, and you can also cook with your mother-in-law and buy vegetables.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Try to go back and visit as many times as possible, now my wife is still very fragile and needs the most care. I'm tired of taking a baby, and I have to play ** every day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can go and take care of it at any time. Your family can also go, and when the child wants to go back to his own house, he will pick it up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you need to visit your wife and children often, buy more food to replenish, and try to help with more housework and take care of the baby.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Take care of your wife more, talk to your wife more, work diligently, and make your mother-in-law happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What are you going to do?

    Because I think maybe your daughter-in-law thinks that her grandparents or her home for so long will be more comfortable. You don't have to measure this matter too much with your family, my family, and other people's homes Because confinement is to sit well to be comfortable, my wife's thoughts, you can just look at it, I am from here, and this really has a sense of uncertainty and constraint.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Confinement is very important, you should also move in or often go over to take care of her and the baby, and spend more time with her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is better to be confined in your mother's house than in your own home, after all, the wife and her own mother are closer, which is conducive to confinement. It's just that you have to take care of your wife more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can take care of her, too! Let's stay at her mother's house together, and come back after confinement!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, it's to take care of her, and what a woman needs most at this time is her husband's care.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Do you still need to ask, mentally, materially, unlimited support for your wife, just had a baby, your wife needs you very much, and the baby is small and needs to be taken care of.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I often visit her, and the thoughtfulness of my husband is very important during the confinement.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I often go to see it, fulfill my father's obligations, understand my wife's hardships, and cultivate a relationship with my children.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I often go to my mother-in-law's house to help take care of the adults during the confinement period, and I have to take care of the baby.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This man is going to introspect. Take some money out to pay for your mother-in-law's hard work. If cash isn't convenient, then a gift or something is fine. You still have to be called by someone to send it. It is also said to be in business. Do you understand human feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you mean to agree or disagree, if you agree, help your mother-in-law take good care of your wife.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Accompany me in the past and serve me well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Generally, it is not allowed to be in her mother's house, so you can persuade her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She should be taken care of and cared for more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe I think my mother is more thoughtful. Go to spend more time with your wife and take care of your baby and wife.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How do you move in. At this time, my wife needs you very much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay to go to my mother-in-law's house to see the baby.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Under normal circumstances, confinement is at the in-law's house. It's best not to sit at your mother's house. Unless there is no one in your mother-in-law's family to take care of you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This situation depends on your local customs and habits, some places must be confined to the in-law's house, some places do not have that kind of habit, in the ** can be, depending on what kind of situation your home is, the most important thing is to be comfortable and happy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's up to you! But generally speaking, it's not in my mother's house, and if you can't be at your mother-in-law's house, you can rent a house.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Confinement can sit in your mother's house, what age is it now, it is the same wherever you sit, as long as someone takes care of you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The older generation of people have such a saying that the confinement of the mother cannot be in the mother's house, because the postpartum maternal body is "not clean", and the mother can not be confined in the mother's house, which may be a custom somewhere, but there is no scientific basis for this. So do you know that pregnant women can be confined at their parents' home? Let's take a look!

    Can a pregnant woman be confined at her mother's home?

    Confinement is the same, as long as you pay attention to the matters of confinement. Although the contact with the mother's family is not so frequent after marriage, after all, the mother's family is the place where I have lived since I was a child, so I am relatively more familiar, and I am in a familiar environment for confinement, the mother is in a good mood, and the recovery is faster, so as to avoid the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

    Precautions for maternal confinement.

    1. Postpartum mothers should first maintain a happy mood every day, which will also affect the baby's mood! To keep your mood happy, be sure to live in a comfortable environment! The room needs to be ventilated frequently, and it is best to keep the room temperature around 25-28 degrees.

    2. Using an air purifier in the bedroom can effectively filter harmful agents in the air, so that new mothers can breathe healthy air. It is important to note that because babies often sleep with their mothers and babies need enough sleep, remember to set the air purifier to sleep mode and don't disturb your baby's sweet dreams!

    3. If you are confined in summer, you must pay attention to avoid the wind of the electric fan or the air conditioner blowing directly into the body, it is easy to catch a cold! If your clothes get wet due to excessive perspiration, change into dry clothes in a very timely manner. It's just as important to keep it clean.

    New mothers must insist on washing with warm water every day due to the large amount of secretions in the lower body.

    4. With the increase of food consumption and the number of eating, if you do not pay attention to rinsing your mouth and brushing your teeth, it will cause bacteria in the oral cavity to multiply and cause oral diseases. Don't listen to the old rules of the past, "don't brush your teeth during confinement" will ruin a good tooth.

    5. In terms of diet, new mothers should also pay attention to the fact that the main goal of the first week after giving birth is to "dilute water and reduce swelling", so never make a big supplement!

    Presumably, after reading the above content, you have a certain understanding of how women can be confined in their parents' homes? In fact, confinement in the mother's house will not have any impact on the surrounding people and the mother herself, so the mother can be confined in the mother's house, and it is okay to have a comfortable rest environment, as for the home does not matter.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    According to the custom, I usually sit at my mother-in-law's house, but now I don't pay much attention to this. Especially in cities.

    If your parents are the only child in your family, you don't have to care about this at all, as long as your parents and fathers are willing, and you can be better taken care of.

    But if you have a brother in your mother's family, you have to care about their opinions and don't make trouble for your parents.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is no legal provision that you cannot be confined to your mother's home, but you must also respect local customs and habits, and if your family agrees, you can also go to your mother's house for confinement.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, you can do it in **, with confinement as the center.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is better not to, some customs and habits are necessary, and then go back to your parents' house after the full moon.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Confinement at my mother's house, it is inconvenient to go back and forth. After a woman has given birth to a child, it is better to sit at home for confinement, as sitting in the house in her mother's house will cause some inconvenience. If the mother-in-law is far away from her family, then she needs to bring a lot of things, which is troublesome and has a lot of customs.

    It's all right, you need to make full moon wine. After the birth of the child, due to the weakness of the constitution, coupled with the woman's childbirth, it will be particularly difficult to move back and forth, and it will affect the recovery after childbirth. It's best to sit in your own home.

    After all, I don't live in my mother's house often, and it is inconvenient for my husband to serve him。Most sons-in-law do have some restraint at their mother-in-law's house. Not as comfortable as your own home.

    If confinement is in her mother's home, then her husband needs to live at home with his wife. It will be inconvenient. Postpartum babies and mothers need husbands to take care of them so that they can rest better and are also of great benefit for postpartum recovery.

    If there are brothers, it is easy to cause contradictions. In some places,It is customary that married daughters are not allowed to sit in their parents' home. If you have a brother-in-law at home, some of them may have a bad temper.

    If you're sitting in an unmarried person's home, the morning may be even more offensive because there are suddenly more people in the house. Nursing can be uncomfortable, and the family can seem chaotic. When taking care of a baby,It's easy to rush and prone to family conflicts.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you are a mother-in-law. If you are busy and have no time to take care of you, you can also go back to your parents' house for confinement, and it is suggested that you can explain the matter to your lover, and there will be no more. Trouble happens. This makes it possible to understand each other. Get things done. The most important thing is to take care of your body.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    No, because after getting married, it is not good for the mother's family to go back to the mother's house for confinement. It is best to choose confinement at your mother-in-law's house.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Can I be confined to my mother's home? You can't be confined at your in-law's house or at your own home.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I am from Xianyang, Shaanxi, and we are not allowed to sit in the confinement of my mother's house, which is a big taboo. Confinement at your mother's house will take away your family's wealth and bring bad luck.

    So we haven't seen anyone who marries a woman in her mother's house for confinement, or rents a house outside. If any daughter has the idea of confinement in her mother's house, she will be rejected by her mother, and she resolutely can't, at that moment she feels that her mother is so ruthless, as if she is not biological. Because this is a big taboo, it will make the brothers and sisters of the mother's family very bad, and it may bring blood and light disasters if it is serious.

    And our married girl can't spend the New Year at her mother's house, and you can't stay at your mother's house on the thirtieth and first day of the new year. Also, when I go back to my parents' house, the husband and wife can't share the same bed and have to sleep separately. However, with the opening up of society, there is no such rigidity in following the rules.

    The first two points are resolutely not.

    Although there is no scientific opinion, the custom of cautious travel left by the ancients must have his reason, and such customs account for a large proportion of the country. So we still have to stick to these, and we can't let our mother's family live badly for ourselves, so we can't close our hearts and minds.

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