How do I express my thoughts on career development after marriage?

Many people are worried about the fear of opposition from each other's parents, but you, on the contrary, are your own parents.

For this, you have to convince them that you don't need to be eloquent at all. It's about your own firmness in love, a person who has confidence in your future, you don't even have the willpower of your own, you need to be eloquent and incompetent. (Someone else is only helping you temporarily, what if you have problems in the future?)

I think that if this is the case, you will also be anxious about the troubles of those things in the future and will not be able to find reasonable answers. ）

So I hope that you will treat your marriage thinking well, and that you will come up with ideas and show your courage to convince them. And convince them with your own experience. You must know that the road is your own choice, and you know best.

Now it can be seen that your girlfriend's conditions are very good, young man, you are looking for a good look, you have to change your ability for your lover, your parents do not agree that it is nothing more than that you have had the experience of failure, so they are scared and don't want you to go down this path. But your girlfriend knows more about business than you do, and with so much experience, are you still worried that she will let you fail? Of course, failure will make her one step closer to success.

There are no failures in life, and the terrible thing is that those who encounter failure will give up from then on, so he will never succeed.

Any family and career can have its ups and downs. But when true love burns like a fire, the most important thing you should do is to burn yourself bravely.

So with such good conditions from your girlfriend's family, don't you dare to work hard? To learn from failure, happiness in life is a kind of system engineering. Achieving a happy life requires comprehensive quality, and various complex conditions need to be met to achieve this goal.

I'm sure you can!

Marriage lies in you, and people who can't make decisions about their own marriage can imagine that they will hesitate in business, be decisive, miss opportunities, and so on... Just seeing people eating meat and not seeing people being beaten, if business is so good, wouldn't there be no poor people in the world! A month's salary is not bad, so let's work in peace and stability!

Work hard to make money before marriage, have the capital to marry her home, and work more diligently under the leadership of your wife after marriage, so that your wife can live the best life.

Before and after marriage, I shared weal and sorrow with you, working hard for the sake of my children and family to earn money.

I will not spend a penny before marriage, I will buy the most beautiful wedding ring for you to bring with my own hands, after marriage, I will truly love you and our children, work hard, and give you and your children's families the most perfect home.

Tell the truth as you think in your heart.

A house purchased jointly by both spouses after marriage may be agreed to be owned by one of the spouses.

The provisions of the Marriage Law on the joint ownership of property acquired during the existence of the relationship between husband and wife can only be applied if there is no agreement between the parties, that is, if the parties have an agreement on the property, the agreement between the two parties shall apply first. The provisions of the law shall apply only if there is no agreement or if the agreement is invalid.

Therefore, the property rights of a house purchased after marriage can be agreed upon, regardless of whether the payment belongs to the personal property of one party or the joint property of the husband and wife. In the process of property disposal, the principle of "the agreement shall prevail and apply to the statutory provisions" can fully reflect the respect of the law for the autonomy of the parties. In the process of agreement, attention should be paid to the following issues:

1. The house to be disposed of must be the joint property of the husband and wife, and the house of other family members or the house jointly owned by the family cannot be disposed of without authorization. Otherwise, if the interests of a third party are harmed, the act shall be invalid.

2. Both parties to the agreement must have full capacity for civil conduct and express their intentions genuinely, that is, the agreement is a choice made voluntarily and equally by both parties.

3. The agreement must be legal, must not harm the interests of the state, the collective and the third party, and must be in writing, and the oral agreement is invalid. Finally, it is agreed that it is best to notarize, and the parties do not need to provide evidence on the validity of the notarized house property agreement.

1. The newly purchased property after marriage is legally defined as the joint property of the husband and wife, and if you want to have it exclusively, it is not as simple as writing your name on the real estate certificate.

2. Solution: First of all, the signature of the real estate certificate and other ownership certificates is you; In addition, both husband and wife have a joint declaration (the content is that your lover has waived the claim to the property and indicates that the purchase price is not the income of the husband and wife's joint labor); Finally, the most important declaration must be notarized by the notary public in order to be valid.

3. Property that is determined in a will or gift contract to belong only to the husband or wife "may but is not economical and cumbersome." For example, if it is donated in the name of your parents, it will be your property, but you will have to pay a considerable amount of tax on the transfer of property.

If you want to take it as personal property, it is first recommended to apply for the real estate certificate and other ownership certificates, and secondly, the husband and wife need to jointly draft a statement, and the statement must be notarized by the notary department to take effect. As for the form of donating a house, the process is more complicated, and you need to pay relevant taxes, which is more troublesome and uneconomical.

1. Premarital property notarization, as a means of confirming the property rights of husband and wife, is not applicable after marriage.

2. The newly purchased property after marriage is legally defined as the joint property of the husband and wife, if you want to be exclusive, it is not as simple as saying that your name is only written on the real estate certificate, and the best solution personally thinks it should be:

The signature of the title certificate such as the title deed is you;

Your husband and wife have a joint declaration (the content is that your wife has waived her claim to this property right, and it is stated that the purchase price is not the income of the husband and wife's joint labor, of course, this is a bit hurtful to your wife's psychology);

The declaration materials must be notarized by the notary public in order to be effective.

3. The clause "the property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife" is uneconomical and troublesome. For example, if you donate it in the name of your parents and it belongs to your property, it is best to have the second explanatory material in Article 2 above. And in the future, you will have to pay a large amount of tax on the transfer of the property.

Premarital property notarization is when the unmarried couple reaches an agreement and goes through the notarization process before the marriage is registered. When notarizing premarital property, the parties shall submit an application to the notary office at the place of domicile or the place where the agreement is signed, and the following materials shall be submitted when making the application: the applicant's identity certificate; Agreement (can be completed under the guidance of a lawyer); Proof of ownership (e.g. title deed of property owned by the individual); Other relevant supporting materials.

Generally speaking, the property that is easier to prove does not need to be notarized before marital property, and the property that is more difficult to prove requires premarital property notarization. Like real estate, such as houses, because of the implementation of the registration system and clear property rights, there is no need for premarital property notarization. Movable property rights that are in flux at any time, such as deposits, jade, gold and silver jewelry, and other valuables, need to be notarized before marriage in order to avoid being unable to explain in the event of divorce.

For example, if one of the spouses owned a property before the marriage, and the house was demolished during the marriage, the compensation is personal property. After receiving this compensation, if necessary, the notarization of marital property should be carried out in a timely manner. Because money is movable property, if it is not notarized, it is difficult to tell whose it is in the event of a dispute.

Money that is not clear is counted as joint property.

The newly purchased property after the marriage shall be agreed in writing to be owned by one party alone, and the property donated by the parents to one party shall also belong to the personal property of one party.

Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 17: Joint property of husband and wife.

The following property acquired by the husband and wife during the marriage shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:

1) Wages and bonuses;

2) the income from production and operation;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Property obtained by inheritance or donation, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 18 of this Law; (5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husbands and wives have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property.

Article 18 Property of one of the spouses.

In any of the following circumstances, it is the property of one of the husband and wife:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Medical expenses, living allowances for the disabled, and other expenses received by one party as a result of bodily injury;

3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife;

4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

Article 19: Agreements on marital property.

Husband and wife may agree that property acquired during the marriage and property acquired before marriage shall be separately or jointly owned or partly separately and partly jointly owned. The agreement shall be in writing. Where there is no agreement or the agreement is unclear, the provisions of articles 17 and 18 of this Law apply.

The agreement between the husband and wife on the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage is binding on both parties. If the husband and wife agree that the property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall belong to each other, and the debts owed by the husband or wife to the outside world are known to the third party, the debts shall be paid off with the property owned by the husband or the wife.

Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China (III).

Article 7 : Where immovable property purchased by one of the parents for their children after marriage is registered in the name of the investor's children, it may be regarded as a gift to only one of their children in accordance with the provisions of Article 18 (3) of the Marriage Law, and the immovable property shall be recognized as the personal property of one of the husband and wife. Where the immovable property purchased by both parents is registered in the name of one of the children, the immovable property may be deemed to be jointly owned by both parties in accordance with the respective parents' share of the capital contribution, unless otherwise agreed by the parties.

Since they are all married and their children are one year old, don't mention divorce easily! Divorce because of your current situation is not good for anyone, not for yourself, your lover, your children, your parents, etc!! Do you think it's easy to get married again after getting divorced?!

Can you do it just by talking about it?! It's like a game, can you play as much as you want?! Come on, real life is complicated and cruel!!

Besides, you're a man, what's the big deal that can't be tolerated?! Your wife's idea is right!! In today's society where competition is fierce and prices are soaring, how can the whole family live comfortably if they don't want to find ways to improve their status and earning ability??!

You don't work hard to forge ahead, and some people struggle to climb up; You think it's good to stand still, seek comfort, and seek stability, and others want to fight for more and better; In this cruel society, if you don't advance, you will retreat!! If you don't work hard to arm yourself to be more powerful and competitive, others will gradually eat and swallow yourself!! Survival of the fittest, survival of the fittest - this is the underlying law of natural progress and development!!

A man is the head of the family, the pillar of the family, if you don't show manhood, courage and hard work to fight for the happiness of your family, who will fight for it?! Let your soft wife, your elderly gray-haired parents, or even your biological child who doesn't even have the ability to take care of himself?! If that's the case, can you bear it?!

It's strange that outsiders don't scold you for being a coward and a bad seed!! Finally, if you are a man and a gentleman, you should be aggressive in your career!! Maintain your happy family and maintain it well!!

Let your children grow up and live happily with their biological parents!! Mentioning divorce is an escape, and it is a coward's practice!!

Looking at such a high score, let me say a few words. Ha ha. They are all married.

You're right, and she's right. The key upstairs brothers didn't talk about it. Someone lives around you.

For example, there is food and clothing every day, a car and a house. It's said to be very comfortable. But the weather was uncomfortable.

Why? But all the brothers and sisters have bought villas and famous cars. If you don't, of course you can't stand it.

Are your wife's little sisters all alive and well? That's the key.

If so, I think your wife naturally has her reasons for asking you to be motivated. For example, when her husband paid public funds to buy her a high-end dress, the wife was very happy, but as soon as she wore it out, she found that all the clothes of her little sister were like this. The imbalance in the heart should be understandable.

If it's a desire for power. There was no choice but to ask her to find an official. If only the desire for money and life. I think it should be solved, and it doesn't conflict with the idea that you want to live your whole life.

People don't go out to make money, they don't go out in society. Money can go out. When anyone in the family wants to do business, of course, it means that the kind that has done a good job all their lives, can lend him money, or participate in shares. It doesn't have to go out on your own.

If you don't have any money, you can take out a loan for the house, don't be afraid, it's a big deal to borrow again in five years. What are you afraid of?

If you don't have a house, you can take your salary to a small bank for a loan. Some of the private banks (not pawnshops) now offer salary loans.

If the house is mortgaged, see how long it has been pressed, if it has been a long time, and now the house has risen like this, it should be much easier to borrow a sum of money, pay off the mortgage, re-lend it, and invest it again, it should be much easier than your mortgage. After all, you used to have to pay, but now you don't have to pay, and you have to go in.

Of course, the person you are looking for must be stable. Your own siblings, or very close relatives are fine. Don't do this with outsiders.

If, you are still afraid,. I think God might be able to help you.