How to go after regret, how to go on the road of life so that you will not regret it?

At the beginning, I was only an 18-year-old girl who was dissatisfied with her grades (because I was too demanding, and my grades were already very good in the eyes of others), and I chose to go south to work before graduating from high school, but I didn't come out at that time to further my own thoughts, such as taking the self-examination exam, and I didn't understand that time. Now that four years have passed, I have taken a few self-exams but I want to give up because I feel that my memory has deteriorated and I can't remember anything because I have been out of school for too long. Thinking about your life is ridiculous, you are spending it in regret, I hope you have just come out of the job now to think about yourself as easy as it, while working to get a diploma, you can make money and accumulate experience, than to go to school to waste time and money hundreds of times, so you don't regret it like me, hurry up and study while working, then I think your road must be very good!

Good luck and happiness!

There will certainly be a stage in a person's life - dissatisfaction with reality; Confusion about the future.

When I first graduated, I was at a low ebb in my life. Because I majored in accounting, after three years of college, I found that I didn't know anything, and watching my classmates go to work one by one, I realized that I was already on the edge of society.

I called my homeroom teacher and complained to him. He only asked me to remember the phrase "the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge"!

It wasn't long before I finally got a job as a beverage salesman with a fake resume......Now, I have become a businessman with a monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan. A person's life is full of countless variables and opportunities, and you have to believe that you only need to grasp it once, and you will succeed. Believe in the variables in life, create opportunities, and you will be able to get rid of all your current boredom.

Still want to learn? If you want to learn, don't you have a lot of examples of self-taught? Is there anything else you can learn to get into?

Why didn't you like reading at the beginning, and now you regret not reading, when you go to read again, can you guarantee that you will not be taken back to your original mentality by boring learning Go your own way, think about it yourself, think about it yourself, think about it yourself.

Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement!

You can go as far as you want.

It's impossible not to regret it.

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve.

Similarly, if you're happy with the job right now, and you're expecting a good prospect in the future, focus on your work.

The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time. Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless.

You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life through work, which are all the meaning of work.

You don't have to be like this for the rest of your life, but you have to be like this for a period of time (about 3 years) compared to your almost 35 years of working life.

From my personal growth experience, there is no shortcut to a broken life, and what you see in other people's harvest is actually not formed overnight, but a process of accumulation.

The other day, when I was consulting with a client, I gave an example of wheat.

In our hometown, wheat is sown after October every year. After October, the weather will only get colder and colder. After the wheat sprouts, it grows a few leaves, but it is only 10 centimeters high, and it is very weak, and it has to meet the coming winter, including the coldest time of the year.

During the long winter, the leaves of wheat do not grow and can even freeze.

If the weather is dry, you see the green layer of wheat on the surface, but the leaves are already dry, and they will crush if you pinch them with your hands.

But, don't worry.

When spring arrives in March of the following year, these wheats will grow rapidly, tiller, and turn from a weak seedling into several seedlings, or even a dozen seedlings, and then tassel and fill until they mature, which only takes 3 months.

To sow one mu of wheat, no more than 10 kg of seeds are needed at most, and the yield per mu is generally 500 kg after maturity. The output is 50 times the input. The core key to achieving such a high input-output ratio lies in the coldest three months of winter.

At that time, although the leaves did not grow and were even freeze-dried, the roots of the wheat were still growing slowly in the ground, growing into a large patch. In this way, when spring comes, they will have enough roots to absorb nutrients, and they will complete their life's mission in 3 months.

These three months are the coldest and most difficult moments, but they are also the most important moments.

The same is true for human growth. Whatever you want to gain, you have to talk about the hardships and efforts you have to deal with it (except in the case of family wealth inheritance or other fortuitous outbreaks).

Even if it is practiced deliberately, it takes 10,000 hours to become a talent. If you want to achieve more than 90% of the results, you have to work so hard for a period of time that it takes root like wheat to ensure that the nutrients are absorbed in order to ensure that you can harvest later.

No matter how you go in life, you will regret it. People have different choices in different periods, you choose one, you must give up one, every choice is a different life, what you can't get is always the best, how to choose can not have both, the emphasis is to follow the heart, choose to insist. Take marriage as an example, when you get married and have children, whether you choose to be a full-time mother or a working mother, you will regret it, being a full-time mother will inevitably have no income to Fu Tuanyuan, life will be hard, and you will not be able to accompany your children to grow up if you are a working mother.

When I opened it, I didn't know how to start, and I was full of emotion but I didn't know where to start. I don't know when I started, and every time I look back at the end of the year, I always don't understand who I was at the beginning.

In the adult world, you need to be self-reliant, and you always want to live a better life, but it often backfires. Perennial economic accumulation, the material foundation is better than at the beginning, and the spiritual life is almost scarce, which can be regarded as an equivalent exchange, right? If you unconsciously acquiesce to blaming others for what happened, you may regret it even if you go back to the original starting point and go down another fork in the road.

The most frustrating part of life is not trying this option.

At one time, I naively thought that it was not to persevere when I saw hope, but to persevere to see hope. But in fact, perseverance may not be happy. Therefore, to me, the current insistence seems to be illusory, and I will not make a choice easily, so "going with the flow" has become the ultimate secret to dealing with everything.

In this way, when it comes to sudden realization, you can attribute regret to the objective conditions of the beginning.

You can never predict the future, let alone measure the past. If you regret everything you do in life, what's the point of trying to change the status quo?

1. On the road of life, there is a road that everyone must take, and that is the detour when you are young. If you don't fall on your heels, don't hit the wall, don't touch your head and break the blood flow, how can you refine steel and iron bones, how can you grow up?

2, the manuscript Lu Meng's hunger is always a test of loneliness, when a dream falls, but it is too late to save it, then you can only endure it silently. Everything about life can be summed up in three words: it will pass.

3. Use your smile to change the world, don't let the world change your smile! Once you start to hate someone, whatever they do will bore you.

4. There is no perfection in life, twists and turns are also scenery, only by being at ease with encounters, can you do what you want. because that's where we'll spend the rest of our lives. Life may deceive you, but you must not deceive it.

5. Life will inevitably suffer some grievances and injuries, rather than lingering on depression, it is better to deal with it frankly and calmly. Only by withstanding the baptism of the storm can we practice calm and calm.

6. Famous sayings, in good times, we are gratifying, but in the face of adversity, we don't have to be too sad, because the good times and adversities in life have their unique charm and value.

7. The biggest mistake in life is to exchange health for things outside the body, the greatest sorrow in life is to exchange life for personal troubles, and the biggest waste in life is to use life to solve the troubles created by yourself!

8. Loneliness grinds time into little by little, that's why it passes so slowly, and the road of life only needs you to complete it quickly and happily. The road was made by itself, and there was no reason to regret it.

9. Those who insist on love, remember that it is okay to persevere, but don't be hurt by love. Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small. No one knows the way forward, only to explore slowly.

10. My youth is still going on, and no matter how many thorns there are, I have to run forward. Youth is so good, so good that no matter how you live, you will feel wasted, and when you look back, you will regret it. No matter how hard and tired you are, as long as you keep moving forward, the scenery that belongs to you will eventually appear.

A word, a philosophy, a daily journey of the mind.

Think deeply about your decisions: Think carefully and identify your goals, priorities, values, and long-term plans before making a bad decision. This will help you choose your path more wisely and reduce the likelihood of regrets.

Do your due diligence: Before making any decisions, do your research and research to understand the pros, cons, and possible consequences of your options. This will allow you to make more informed decisions and reduce the likelihood of unavoidable situations.

Keep an open mind: When choosing a route, keep an open mind and consider multiple possibilities. Doing so allows you to be more creative and more flexible in responding to future changes.

Adjust your route: Sometimes, you may find that the route you choose is not the best option. At this time, don't be afraid to adjust your course to accommodate the changes. This will make you more attuned to reality and will also allow you to face the future with more confidence.

Accept failure: Failure is part of success, and it can help you better understand yourself and understand your weaknesses and shortcomings. If you choose a route and end up failing, don't be afraid to accept your failure and learn from it to chart your own path.

Doing so will make you more mature and will also give you a better idea of what you want.

There are no regrettable choices, only unbalanced persistence.

After all, it is unrealistic to give all your time to your career, and balancing your life and career is the key...A long-lasting career needs a strong body to support, and it also needs a healthy attitude to match.

So it's a philosophical question, and it's questioning everyone's understanding of balance.

After all, young people nowadays still face many practical problems, such as work, housing prices, love, marriage, etc.

These all need to be based on relative materials, and we can't sit and talk about it every day, but we still have to combine our own specific conditions and appropriately adjust the changes in the section.

So I am reminded of what a philosopher said, that the only constant in this world is change, and not to talk about regret, but only to talk about change, is the mentality that everyone should have.

In the past, it was often about following the path that others wanted to walk and making the choices that others expected. I used to think that this is called kindness, it is called casualness, it is called magnanimity, and it is called indisputable with the world! Now people have also invented a word called Buddhism, which should also mean the same thing.

But now I have a different idea. Every person's life is unique, that is, twins are standing at different coordinate points of the grand life at a time node in each rubber shirt.

No one can fully understand you, only you know what your needs are in the moment. Making the most suitable choice is a sign of respect for your unique life and proof of your existence.

Sometimes you don't know how to choose, because you don't know what your needs are at the moment. Why is this happening? Because you don't go deep into your own heart, you're looking at other people's faces, worrying about other people's reactions, complaining about other people's words and actions, and fearing that others will hurt you.

The truth is that you have the answer in your subconscious, you are a wise being, and if you fully accept yourself, fully trust, you will become one with the universe, and the right choice will automatically emerge.

This is also the mission of every life to come to the world, that is, to make their own choices at every unique moment, to fully experience life, and to live as they should be! Only when everyone lives their own wonderful life can the world return to full truth, and sincerity and peace can be seen everywhere.

I can't fully understand others, so what should I do? Choose to listen and respect. Then, people can compromise and cooperate for the sake of love, and the two people have established a relationship. Intimacy is there, enriching you and enriching me!

Go your own way, make your own choices, and have no regrets in life! Love yourself, love others, and live a rich life without regrets!