Should two people get married if they have been in love for a long time?

Updated on society 2024-05-16
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't agree with this statement, I don't think this kind of thing is certain and definite, it should depend on the specific situation. I don't think love and marriage are equivalent. Love is not the same as marriage, if two people love to die and live, it is not very suitable to enter the marriage hall.

    Because marriage is not only about feelings, but also on many aspects, such as family background, economic ability, two people's values, outlook on life, and whether the personalities of two people match. Because sometimes love will be defeated in the face of reality, and it will be miserable.

    The condition for two people to get married is whether two people's hearts can accompany each other through a lifetime, not just simple love, because marriage needs two people, learn from each other's strengths, take care of each other, and understand each other, you may be in this process, two people will have different views on some things, and quarrel, this kind of thinking at this time, it requires mutual understanding and mutual understanding between the two parties, and the shortcomings will be more obvious after marriage. If you really want to forget, but if you just look at love, it will seem very powerless. What can really accompany you through your life is the other half who supports each other and understands each other.

    You may take advantage of your youth to talk about a vigorous love, but who can guarantee that you can be vigorous for the rest of your life. Therefore, it is not that you should get married after a long time of love, you need to find the right other half to get married, although it is said that the marriage that is based on the most important thing in love is the most beautiful, but the most important thing in marriage is mutual understanding and mutual understanding in the face of reality. Before marriage is love, after the newlywed is family affection.

    Loved ones are the kind of people who will never leave you and be by your side, and they are the kind of people who simply love you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Although not necessarily, if you have been in love for too long and have not been married, then you should not be married, which has little to do with the length of time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is not necessarily, some people may become friends after dating for a long time, and marriage may not be realized, this phenomenon will still exist, but the probability is relatively low.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, you have been in love for a long time, and it proves that the two of you are suitable to live together, if you live together, you will get married, if you don't get married, you don't legally bind others, why do you want to work with you for so many years?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After a long time, should I get married? This is not necessarily, if you are not willing to get married, well, you can continue to love each other, which is also a blessing and a wrong way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After falling in love for a long time, it comes naturally, and naturally both parties will think of getting married.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Two people have been in love for a long time, and if they both understand each other and feel that they should talk about marriage, then get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If two people have been in love for a long time and do not get married, the relationship will slowly fade. Marriage can be protective.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Normally, you should get married if you have been in love for a long time, but it also depends on your own conditions.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not good to fall in love for too long, and sometimes it's best to control this degree.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Two people have been in love for too long, and they should have gotten married a long time ago.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Two people, if they have been in love for a long time, they should get married, yes, if two people have been in love for a long time, they should get married and live a happier life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Two people should get married after they have been in love for a long time, which is complicated for each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Two people who have been in love for a long time should get married if they feel that they have feelings and can get married, which is a responsible approach to each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think for a man, since you love a woman, you have that commitment. If the other person doesn't have that intention, then it doesn't matter, but if the other person doesn't love the other person, then why wouldn't you marry the other person?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When two people have been in love for a long time and feel that it is suitable, they can get married.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Two people have been in love for a long time, so they have to see if both parties are suitable for each other? They all love each other, and if they both love each other, they should choose to get married.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Half a year to two years is the best.

    Generally speaking, two people have been in love for half a year to two years, which is more suitable for marriage, and if the two parties are still together at this time, marriage is the most suitable.

    2. It is not suitable for marriage within three months of love.

    The first three months of falling in love are the honeymoon period of love, like glue, eager to stick together every day, both parties are each other in their eyes and hearts, and they see each other's advantages, and it is more irrational to get married during this time.

    3. Understand thoroughly.

    This should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, mainly depending on fate. Some flash marriages are also very happy, but some have 9 years of love career, and finally break up and go their separate ways. Generally normal, I think that at least one year, experiencing spring, summer, autumn and winter, is enough for you to understand the advantages and disadvantages of the other party, and enough for you to know whether the other party is your lifelong partner.

    In fact, from love to marriage, during this period of time when two people get along, you should understand each other more clearly, two people get along further, and evaluate whether this person is suitable to manage the next days with you from the way two people get along, communication, etc. From the other party's attitude towards work, whether he is self-motivated, whether he has a plan for the future, and whether he has real actions, to evaluate whether this person is the potential stock he wants; From the other party's attitude towards themselves and the way they chat with themselves, you can judge whether this person really loves you. If it is appropriate, then trust each other, work together to fight for your future, and live a happy life; If it's not suitable, then don't compromise and manage an unhappy relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When our relatives and friends bless us, we will have a kind of confidence and confidence from the inside out, and we have enough understanding of each other's families, which means that both of us are fully prepared for the future life. When both parties have a sufficient sense of security, they will dispel the fear of marriage, and both have the ability to withstand the practical pressure brought by marriage, so that we will tolerate each other's past and believe in each other's future. I have a full understanding of each other's personalities, and I already have a clear understanding of his economic conditions, family situation and career development.

    1. If two people know each other on a blind date, then they can consider getting married in about half a year to a year, of course, some people may have a shorter time and get married after knowing each other for about three months, but most people will choose to spend about half a year to a year.

    2. After getting to know each other on a blind date, if two people don't feel about each other, they may break up in three months or half a year.

    3. Because people are very busy with their careers and the pace of life is very fast, many people are not looking for a partner, and there are many single men and women, so they have to rely on their families or friends to introduce them to each other. Some were even forced to marry by their families. In fact, the blind date ultimately has a purpose, to find a suitable person to marry, that is, if the other party's conditions are okay in all aspects, then regardless of what imitation of Jane love, they will generally get married.

    Two people get along, will show the best side to each other, at the same time both sides also have their own shortcomings, and shortcomings, Lu Yao knows that the horsepower has been seen for a long time, if you want to fully understand a person, will not understand clearly in a short period of time. Get to know each other in depth and detail. If you want to know a person completely, in addition to understanding the other person's temperament, behavior, living habits, etc.

    It is also necessary to understand the other person's past and social background, which will involve the future life and whether they will be happy. Therefore, it is impossible to get into it in depth in a short period of time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Absolutely! That's a strange question!

    Yes, gymnasts Yang Wei and Yang Yun are not also of the same sex, two people who really love each other get along together, the most important thing is to achieve mutual trust, mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual help, only by doing these minimum requirements, two people will be happy together, and each other's feelings will be sublimated and continued. True love can withstand any test and will not be affected by objective factors such as time and distance.

    v May you be in a good mood every day ——— wish you a happy and happy life v

    If from the point of view of fortune telling, it is not particularly suitable, because of the temper. But everyone's personality is different, and it is impossible for people of the same phase to be the same, so if two people get along well, of course they can get married. When you ask this question, does it mean that you don't love each other enough?!

    Think about it, what if there is no country with a zodiac? Love each other because the other person is good, not because it is compatible. So, don't be superstitious about those pseudo-sciences, believe in yourself, believe in love.

    Normal, if you love each other, even if one party is getting old, one party is very young, it's okay, normal or not normal is what people say, why care about the world's eyes.

    No. You can marry two people, and that person has a child in his belly!

    When you fall in love, the shortcomings of the other party are also advantages, the so-called: the lover's eyes are out of the West.

    After getting married, the advantages of the other party are ignored, and the eyes are full of the shortcomings of the other party, the so-called: marriage is the grave of love.

    If the man is rich and the woman is under 25 years old, there are too many examples of this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no doubt that the main problem of flash marriage is the lack of understanding of each other and the lack of a stable emotional foundation. Whether a relationship can last for a long time depends on the couple, and whether the two staring people can be highly compatible in terms of three views. In my opinion, two people can only get married after dating for at least one year.

    For couples who have not been together for a long time, it is difficult for two people to have a real understanding of each other's three views, if they only choose two people to marry together based on their superficial understanding of each other and a momentary impulse, then after two people get married, they find that there are too many incompatible and difficult places to adapt to each other, they will feel that this marriage brings them not real happiness, but a kind of torment, which is likely to make the feelings between two people crack. It is even very likely to lead to the eventual breakdown of the marriage of two people. For two couples, from just realizing that they have decided to get married, two people should get along for at least 2 to 3 years, as the so-called road knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people for a long time, only two people can understand each other for a long enough time, and finally determine whether they can achieve general agreement and agreement with each other in terms of three views, so that they can slowly run in the feelings between two people during this time, and see if the two people can really make each other feel comfortable. Especially after such a long period of mutual contact and understanding with each other, we can find out the shortcomings of each other.

    In short, two people have been dating for more than a year, which is an important factor in determining the longevity of two people's marriage, after all, no one is perfect, and anyone will have their own shortcomings and shortcomings, and only if they can truly tolerate each other and accept each other, it is one of the important conditions for two people to live for a long time after marriage.

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