I shouldn t care about this matter, how not to care about one thing

Updated on society 2024-05-22
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    How can there be a reason to go back to give you a gift, if it is because of the breakup, it will be okay to pay him back, but it is a change! The gift is very commemorative, not a question of whether it is expensive or cheap, if my boyfriend is like this, I will give it to him, but at the same time, I will tell him that I don't need to change, his brother's that I don't want, I don't want it, but my boyfriend gives it so cherished, and the brother's exchange is equivalent to the brother's gift, and at the same time will tell him not to send me anything in the future, so as not to say that he wants to change it next time his brother wants it, is it not that the child born by the younger brother in the future does not like it, and he also wants to take the brother's and exchange it with him? Could it be that his brother's girlfriend is important, so you are not important?

    Changing things is a small thing, but the problem reflected by this incident is a big thing. You don't have to come forward to tell his brother, just let your boyfriend solve it himself, but you have to explain to him that you are not greedy for his things, but pay attention to your memento. He said that he would buy another one for you in the future, so he could sponsor his brother to buy another one now, and then sell the one he bought earlier.

    If he loves you, he shouldn't ask you to change this finger, don't let him develop the habit of not caring about your feelings. But remember to use communication, not noise.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your boyfriend is more elve, pays more attention to brotherly feelings, and doesn't understand the careful thinking of girls. You can tell him what you want directly, for example, if you think self-control is meaningful to you, he may understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This also depends on the situation, but there is a degree of helping others. This time I can forgive, but there can't be a next time. If it keeps going like this, men will get an inch!

    Don't quarrel over something that has nothing to do with the relationship between two people, or get angry with the other person, which hurts feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm a woman, so I'm going to give my opinion

    You'll give it to his brother first! Ouch, what's the big deal, your boyfriend won't say it, I'll buy you another one, and then you can pick a **, and at the same time let your boyfriend think you're reasonable!

    Alas, I really can't figure it out, and it's not that I won't buy it for you, so why bother so much! Birthdays are celebrated every year.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter to his brother, anyway, he promised you to buy a better one, as long as he bought it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course I care, our women are different from men, men don't think so much, how can he think of the first one, even if he opens his mouth, he can't give it, and it won't be difficult to buy another one, ask your boyfriend to lend him some money first, and it's not necessarily just this one way, right?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You tell your boyfriend the meaning of the ring, tell him that he doesn't want to change it, you can borrow it, but you must return it, I believe your boyfriend must know how to do it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. I don't care, just don't always take everything seriously, don't drill the horns, don't be too face-saving, don't be careful; Don't take those trivial things to heart, don't pay too much attention to the gains and losses of fame and fortune; Don't be anxious about a little thing, shout and scream, so that you regret it because of a small loss, don't be so suspicious and sensitive, and always misinterpret the meaning of others; Don't exaggerate the facts and create imaginary enemies; Don't secretly hate the opposite sex who talks to your lover as a "third person"; Don't be like Lin Daiyu who cried when she saw flowers, listened to music sadly, was sentimental, and always looked at the shadow and felt self-pity. You know, sometimes life really needs a little silly.

    I don't care about Chunqilu, just don't always take everything seriously, don't drill the tip of the horns, don't be too face-conscious, don't be careful; Don't take those trivial things to heart, don't pay too much attention to the gains and losses of fame and fortune; Don't be anxious to get angry and shout for a little thing, so that you regret it because of a small loss, don't be so suspicious and sensitive, and always misinterpret other people's meanings; Don't exaggerate the facts and create imaginary enemies; Don't secretly hate the opposite sex who talks to your lover as a "third party"; Don't be like Lin Daiyu who cried when she saw flowers, listened to music sadly, was sentimental, and always looked at the shadow and felt self-pity. You know, sometimes life really needs a little silly.

    I don't care about Chunqilu, just don't always take everything seriously, don't drill the tip of the horns, don't be too face-conscious, don't be careful; Don't take those trivial things to heart, don't pay too much attention to the gains and losses of fame and fortune; Don't be anxious to get angry and shout for a little thing, so that you regret it because of a small loss, don't be so suspicious and sensitive, and always misinterpret other people's meanings; Don't exaggerate the facts and create imaginary enemies; Don't secretly hate the opposite sex who talks to your lover as a "third party"; Don't be like Lin Daiyu who cried when she saw flowers, listened to music sadly, was sentimental, and always looked at the shadow and felt self-pity. You know, sometimes life really needs a little silly.

    It's that I'm sick right now, which causes my face to be yellow, and my face is very bad, and I think every day, how can I do it? And then because it takes me a long time to get better when I'm sick, I'm anxious every day why is it still like this, and then the doctor told me that my emotions are not conducive to recuperation, how can I not think about her? Pay attention to the source of his illness and hunger.

    How can I not be so concerned?

    Do something to distract yourself.

    If you're busy, you won't bother to pay attention to it.

    How do I keep myself busy?

    I feel like I'm paying attention to this all the time at home.

    Reading a book, playing with a mobile phone, sleeping, are all the kind of uneasy, thinking about this problem.

    Do sports, do housework.

    It's just that I feel like I'm very concerned about my own yellowness, because I wasn't white before I got sick.

    This is normal.

    As long as the conditioning is good, it will recover.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I thought to myself, the life I wanted most was to be alone and a cat or a dog. When I am idle, I amuse them; When I was busy, I let them accompany me, and it was comfortable.

    Maybe the more people you see, the more things you see, the more you look forward to a calm and indifferent life.

    Don't care about something that is not important or makes you unhappy, whether it is love or friendship, it should be broken.

    Life is the same. I think about life, I think about getting up early every day to go to the cafeteria to drink hot porridge and add some side dishes I want to eat, but I am happy. After eating, I walked to the library, and I could see some scenery on the way, which was really beautiful.

    If your mind is not quiet, read more books, look at nature, and set your phone to do not disturb.

    I saw a sentence from me that day, if I don't do something for a certain period of time, it's not because I don't have time to do it, it's just that I don't think Li Sheng's first burning thing is important. So when I think that even though I was picking up leaves for an hour and not doing anything else, but I had a good time, then I didn't do anything wrong.

    Be happy!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    <> "Some things don't mean I don't care.

    Some things are not that you don't care, but that you care about how you can serve them.

    There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results, and maturity is to face all the little things with a smile.

    No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you are responsible for yourself.

    It's your luck to have someone to help you.

    No one to help you is a just fate.

    To guess and believe that you will be better, to be kind to yourself, to make your life wonderful, is to make your life more exciting, not to make someone regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. The first is to take the initiative to find you. A person who really cares about you will definitely not be able to take the initiative to always take the initiative to find you, maybe to chat with you, maybe to meet you, but no matter which one it is, in the final analysis, he just wants to know what you are doing, wants to know if you are doing well this day, and wants to see if you are taking care of yourself.

    Because I care about you, I will miss you, and because I miss you, I will take the initiative to contact you.

    Second, he tries his best to meet your requests. People who truly care about you, face your requests, and make promises to you, will definitely be firmly in mind. As long as he can do it, he will try his best to satisfy you.

    Because in his heart, your joy and happiness always come first, and he will also empathize with you when he sees your happiness and contentment.

    Because I care, I want to give you the best of all I can.

    Third, spend time with you. We have passed the age where we are satisfied with a few sweet words, and what we really care about is in action. Everyone's time is precious, but if someone is willing to spend time with you when you need it, even if they don't say anything, just stay quietly by your side, then this person must be someone who really cares about you.

    If you cared about me, it wouldn't be like this.

    Hello dear <>

    If a person genuinely cares about you, then there must be these three manifestations.

    The first is to take the initiative to find you. A person who really cares about you will definitely not be able to take the initiative to always take the initiative to find you, maybe to chat with you, maybe to meet you, but no matter which one it is, in the final analysis, he just wants to know what you are doing, wants to know if you are doing well this day, and wants to see if you are taking care of yourself. Because I care about you, I will miss you, and because I miss you, I will take the initiative to contact you.

    Second, he tries his best to meet your requests. People who truly care about you, face your requests, and make promises to you, will definitely be firmly in mind. As long as he can do it, he will try his best to satisfy you.

    Because in his heart, your joy and happiness always come first, and he will also empathize with you when he sees your happiness and contentment. Because I care, I want to give you the best of all I can. Third, spend time with you.

    We have passed the age where we are satisfied with a few sweet words, and what we really care about is in action. Everyone's time is precious, but if someone is willing to spend time with you when you need it, even if they don't say anything, just stay quietly by your side, then this person must be someone who really cares about you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. My dear, there are some things that I don't care about, but I care, so what? The meaning of this is that I actually care about this matter, but because I am powerless to change, I can only try my best not to care. There is a sense of helplessness and powerlessness.

    Some things are not not cared about, but cared about, so what can be done? What is the meaning of this sentence.

    My dear, there are some things that the town doesn't care about, but cares, so what? The implication of this is that I actually care about this matter, but because I am powerless to change, I can only try my best not to care. There is a sense of helplessness and powerlessness.

    In fact, life is like this, some things are not not not cared about, but what can be done if you care, which means that in this world, not every thing you care about can make any changes to this matter if you care. You have to know that a lot of things are not that you don't care, but that you care but can't do anything, and that feeling is very powerless. But if you really want to do this, do what you can, although the result may not be as good as the world, but we still care about <>

    Mr. Yang Jiang said: "I shouted that the dry people had been trembling and looking forward to the recognition of the outside world, and in the end I realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. "Finally, thank you for your question, remember to give it a thumbs up. <>

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