How far is reality from dreams?

Marriage must have a material foundation, just like a strong country must have national defense forces, you have such a panic when you are not satisfied with your work, it can be seen that your original decision was very hasty and hasty, because you didn't even think about the days after getting a marriage certificate.

But it doesn't matter, your happiness is still in your hands, because you haven't made a mistake yet, what is the first mistake you will make? I tell you, you should avoid, and that is to hold on to your lover like a drowning person.

If you don't understand, I can explain again: everyone needs space, you can love him very much, you can ask him to love you very much, but if you say something like "I have you left alone, you must be good to me", he will re-evaluate your value to him, don't be cold, anyone will do it. And once all this happens, you will have a shadow, just like you will be nervous and uncomfortable after taking a hot bath, and you will also be sad, including blaming each other, seeing each other's shortcomings more and more, doubting whether your decision is correct, evaluating each other's actual sincerity, etc.

My advice to you is: find your career again, you can change your job, but the pursuit cannot change, become independent financially as soon as possible, today is the 38th Festival, you can officially support half the sky with your own strength, like all female compatriots!

I don't know the distance between reality and dreams, and I don't care how close or distant the relationship between them is, but I know that the road is all chosen by yourself, since you have chosen your current path, do you feel right? In fact, life is a multiple-choice question, and every day is also living in multiple-choice questions. If you choose the right one, you need to know why! If you miss love, you will come, the road is wrong, and it may be difficult to turn back!

Why did you find out so late? Wouldn't it be a little reckless! I didn't confirm each other's feelings anymore, so many .. were abandoned

But now let's not complain about that! If you are sure that you will be happy in married life! So why did plutonium break free from the illusion so early?

After all, people don't live in dreams! But in reality! You're not that old, are you?

For men! Career is important! If I were you!

I will give up this plutonium worthy of affection! To develop my career and create my future! Turn back!

Wrong! Plutonium is terrible! The scary thing is that I can't fall into consciousness'!

Now you realize! Everything can be saved! Bless you!

How can it be that it has no weight at all, maybe he is not very good at expressing his love for you. Dreams and reality, close and near, far and far, but dreams are not reality after all, there is always a gap, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

You have to communicate with him more, and it's too late to regret it now, because this is the happiness of your life! Don't give up so much for your lover, no man really loves only one woman!!

How far and how far and how close and how close

There is a transition period.

Try to feel all the happiness you can feel.

Hey, why do you treat yourself like that?

Premarital depression. Go to see premarital counseling.

is the most effective.

The ideal world is a perfect and beautiful world, but the real world is indeed a real and cruel world. When the ideal and the reality are infinitely close, a beautiful and real world will slowly emerge. On the contrary, people's hearts will be broken, and sweet dreams will become bad news in life, and they will become the weight of life that we cannot bear.

Regarding ideals and reality, the philosopher Feng Youlan summarized a few points, let's listen to them and see what the advantages or disadvantages are.

1, Shakyamuni cut his own flesh to feed the eagle, which is a benevolent act, but using the blood and sweat of the Indians to maintain the prosperity of the British, not only Gandhi opposed, even if Shakyamuni was resurrected, he would not agree. In addition to interests, the ideals of the British people are also interests.

2. There is no law between countries, and there is not much morality between countries, and there are no eternal enemies between countries, only eternal interests. It is better to talk about reality not among countries.

3. Ideals and reality are not opposites, but depend on each other. Reality is inseparable from ideals, and ideals are inseparable from reality.

People are always growing up in the process of fighting with reality, knowledge is the most realistic thing, there is always a gap between the ideal and the reality, the more frustrated the more courageous is the wise saying, and their own good is the true good.

One is to be enthusiastic and full of expectations.

One is hesitant and overwhelmed.