Girls come in and say what is in your hearts

Let me tell you.

In fact, at first, girls like boys to spoil her and accommodate her, but slowly she will get tired of it.

At this time, you can cold her for a while, or drop her, and she will come back to you!

I'm telling you. A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, and that is:

Coexistence, anti-dependence, independence, symbiosis.

The time it takes to switch between them is not necessarily and varies from person to person.

Phase 1: Coexistence.

This is a time of passionate love, and I always hope to be tired of being together whenever and wherever I want.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the emotional stability is stable, one party wants to have more time to do what they want to do, and then the other party will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along takes shape, and you have become the closest people.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

He or she is like a relative to you.

However, many people can't get through the second or third stage and choose to break up.

In fact, many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, but thinking too much and being willful is unavoidable.

How difficult it is to meet the only you in the world, can you not give up easily.

Did you find out?

You don't have anything in common, you don't look alike on the outside, your personalities are very different, but you love each other and then stay together, day after day, year after year, and you will be surprised that your eyes are a bit like his.

His smile is a bit like yours.

You walk at a similar pace.

And the tone of your voice is becoming more and more similar.

You love the same drink.

Your mantra has become the same.

You can always guess what each other's next sentence will be.

It turns out that we will become the ones we love.

You unknowingly get him to break his bad habit of frowning.

This change may not even be noticed by himself.

He unknowingly makes you become less so-so.

You almost don't recognize yourself.

will gradually become the ideal person of the other party unconsciously, and this change is definitely not deliberate.

The longer two people get along, the more similar their temperaments become, and one day, you are surprised to find out how tacit you are in this way.

Maybe you will never encounter such feelings again.

When you love someone deeply, you really lose yourself little by little, but why do you still feel happy?

Probably because you lost at the same time, you also earned, you earned back his temperament and his smile.

Friend, where are you going?

How difficult it is to meet the only you in the world, can you not give up easily.

Can you go on forever?

Please don't talk about the next life, I'm afraid that I won't meet you again in the next life.

So in this life,

Actually, it's like this. Because. I feel that he is too good to him.

It will feel like he has been captured.

He will always be attached to him. I just cared about him.

Let him go. You will know how to cherish it.

Porphyry. Persuasion. Porphyry wants to be like that. Suddenly departed.

It's going to be sad. It hurts. Very regretful.

Try to be nice to your boyfriend. Just remember. Everything he does is because of love.

That's fine. I wish you happiness.

The reasons are: flawed love: love is a very beautiful emotion, but this beauty is based on equality and respect.

A boy is very good to a girl, and everything accommodates her" is out of balance, if the boy forgets his love for the girl, it is unequal love; The love of a boy who "accommodates her in everything" is the doting of adults on children, and it is disrespectful love that does not treat girls as women but as children. The girl can't stand her boyfriend who loves her so much for unknown reasons, because she subconsciously resists this unequal and disrespectful love, and the inexplicable manifestation is: the girl feels impatient.

Cheap charity: full of love will have the negative effect of "not realizing its love for a long time"; The love that is readily available will not be cherished; Giving too much can sometimes turn love into deterioration – into a love that imposes, restricts, and makes the loved one uncomfortable.

Suggestion: Establish an equal and respectful mode of love and get along, the feelings of men and women should not be too entangled, and give each of them a certain amount of free and independent space;

Postpone gratification. The things you desire in life are acquired through all kinds of hard work, and you will cherish them very much. Men and women can set the order of happiness and pain of some emotions and events with each other or together

First, face the problem and feel the pain; Then, solving the problem and enjoying greater joy is a viable and positive way to postpone gratification, which can also increase the value of love.

It's a relationship of personality.

In fact, what a girl needs is not a boy to accommodate him forever, she hopes that the person she loves has a personality, she hopes that this boy can hold up a sky for herself, but this sky is when there is wind and rain, when it is sunny, there is no need for an umbrella, what is needed is a brave, strong, big man by his side.

Glued all day long, there is no room for themselves at all, and I have to text every moment to ask for warmth.

It's not like I can't take care of myself.

And this kind of boy is very jealous, and when he sees me chatting happily with other boys, he will be unhappy, and he will be too good to himself, everyone will be nervous, and of course he will be easily bored with the psychological burden.

It's hard to be a man and it's hard to fall in love.

I think you have other intentions for her.

I used to be friends with a guy.

Then he suddenly started being nice to me.

Accommodate me everything.

And then. I feel disgusting!

I hate ambiguity the most, especially the kind of self-inflicted sentimentality that thinks too much!

People go to higher places, he wants him to find someone who is one level higher than himself, you serve him every day, he thinks you are one level lower than him, so he doesn't like it.

There is a kind of love that can suffocate girls, and it should be your kind of love. And how pure, dense it was that she couldn't breathe. Rise to feel depressed. Eventually I'm starting to get impatient with you.

1) Give her some personal space and private time. Humans are social animals and are not glue creatures. You don't have to stick to it every day.

2) You are kind to her, I don't think it should be what she wants. So you're going to have to see for yourself a little bit what she wants.

3) You can find something else to do while loving her, such as meeting more friends of the opposite sex, and they will help you with advice, because they definitely know women better than you. It's going to help you and your her too!

I wish you a speedy ride from your worries.

Because people are always in this way, they don't know how to be blessed, so it's not just women who are like this, but men are no exception.

Human desires are endless, women are always easy to get in, want to see their man's patience to get there, but they never know that once a man reaches the limit, he will never come back, and in the end he will only choose to abandon or give up.

At this time, no matter how much the woman pleaded, it was useless.

Actually, it's the same with men, so there's a saying that's right:"Men will always feel sorry for their ex-girlfriends, but they will never know how to cherish their current ones. "It's probably the same thing.

Therefore, whether you are loved or loved, you should also control your desires, give each other more space, be more considerate and tolerant.

Learn to be grateful, learn to restrain your temper, and control your emotions.

Only such a distance can manage a relationship for a long time and be happy.

I wish you happiness.

The favor of boys will only be that girls are spoiled and spoiled.

It's not that I can't stand it.

It's that she doesn't have you in her heart.

The better you treat her, the more she feels indebted to you.

It's not good to owe something to someone, let alone an emotional debt.

Men aren't bad, women aren't loved! It should be like this.

It's because she doesn't love you. She doesn't love you as much as she loves you, and she doesn't love you enough.

1. The vast sea of people, the passers-by are in a hurry, you are by no means my momentary scenery, the world, all living beings, you are the style of my life. May we love each other for eternity.

2. Before I met you, I didn't think about liking someone; After meeting you, I didn't have the heart to like other people.

3. You are my axis of symmetry, without you, I can't find the other half of myself.

4. Happiness, porphyry is how you spoil me and how you flirt with me, but with you by your side, nothing else matters.

5. I want to ask you what time it is now, and I don't mean anything else, just to remind you that you should like me if it's not too early.

6. I don't think you're really a qualified friend, so you'd better change your career to be my wife!

7, I was born stubborn Zhaoyou, love and hate clearly, so liking you is not a whim, nor is it Qinchai Cong's heart is different.

8. Although I don't often say those three words, I always do it with my heart - "I love you".

9. Respect your wife's thoughts, maybe your wife's thoughts are different from your own, but your wife must have no outside heart for herself and will not hurt herself.

10. Your happiness, I exclusively sponsor: your pain, I exclusively bear it; Your temper, I bear it exclusively: I will accompany you all your life. Baby, love tiger oil!

If a girl is willing to talk to me about anything, it can actually show that the relationship between the two of you is very good, and to a certain extent, Gao Jiankong treats you as a good friend psychologically, this kind of good friend, it may be that she has a good impression of you, if there is no such situation, then in fact, I think it is still a close friend in the soul.

Because there is only one girl who is willing to tell you everything that happens to him, it actually means that he has let go of all the guards around you, at this time, you are actually important to him, because even if he does not regard you as his other half, in fact, he also treats you as the most indispensable friend around him.

In fact, in my opinion, if a girl tells you everything that happens around her, I think the most likely is that I think he may not become a lover with you, because if you want to be a lover with the other party, you have to have some distance, and more or less you don't want the other party to know that you have experienced these bad things in your old age.

In fact, if there is a girl who is willing to tell you everything that happens around her, then I think you should cherish such a girl, because he treats you as a trash can to talk to in his heart, in fact, in the heart of a girl, not anyone can be used as a trash can, so you should feel that as an emotional trash can for girls, it is a good thing.

Because from this aspect, you can show your interpersonal relationship, and you can also see how much this girl trusts you, if you have a big mouth, he will not tell you what happened to him, it is because of trust that he will tell you so much.

Nine sincere words from girls to girls: Hello! Glad for your question.

1. You are an angel, but unfortunately you only have one wing, please lean on my side, let me use the other wing to hug you, support each other and fly above the sea of love, and go to ride the wind and waves together, and be in the same boat through thick and thin! 2. Now when I wake up every day and open my eyes, I see your sun-like smile on the wall, and I want to wake up one day, the first thing I touch is the real you who are as sweet as a flower. 3. If you are cold, I will take you into my arms; If you hate, I'll wipe away your tears; If you love me, I'm going to broadcast to the whole world; If you leave me, I will bear it silently.

4. Don't ask me how much I love you, I really can't say, I just know that you have become a habit in my life, an indispensable habit, every day, you can skip meals and sleep, but you can't miss you. 5. Let me use hard work to build your happiness, use romance to achieve your happiness, create your warmth with tenderness, shape your warmth with care, and fulfill the vow of love with a lifetime, so that you can live in the harbor of my love without worry! 6. Don't perform alone on the stage of life, too tired and lonely; Let me be with you, not to increase the color of your stage, but to make you dependent, no longer lonely, looking forward to opening your heart and accepting my love!

7. I will never make a promise to any woman, and I will never do what I will do for you to any woman, how different you are in my mind! 8. I want to become an elf, dive into the depths of your soul, listen to your heartbeat, your breath, feel your thoughts, your wishes, so that I can have a heart with you and know how to love you well. 9. The happiness of flowers is red, the happiness of leaves is green, the happiness of the sky and the sea is blue, and the happiness I give you will be colorful.