Do you know why girls hold what is in their hearts and don t say anything?

1.Girls are naturally shy, and later they become generous, which is another 2This also varies depending on the personality, and some girls like to say anything to their friends of the same sex, the so-called girlfriends, and say more than the private words between men 3

In fact, if you want to say that you can suffocate the words in your heart, it should be a man, most women have three or five confidants and friends, and they can do everything without saying anything, while men are different, every man has a bottom line content in his heart, and above the bottom line can be mentioned to friends, and below the bottom line is absolute privacy, and no one will mention it.

Maybe it's because of some experiences, just like me, when I was a child, I would talk to my family about everything, but it didn't seem to be useful to say it, and I couldn't get help, and since then, I wouldn't tell my family about anything, and I wouldn't tell my girlfriends, friends, and boyfriends, and every time I would sulk with my boyfriend, and he asked me what's wrong, and I didn't say anything, and I didn't know why I was like this, I just felt that I couldn't say it, and I didn't want to say it, but then I thought about it, and I didn't feel like it, and I didn't feel angry It's because I think that no one will understand when I say it, and I can empathize with it, and I think that even if I say it, it's useless, so there's no need to say it, and after a long time, I form a habit that I always like to hold it in my heart, and I don't feel sad, because no one will empathize, so no one will understand, and there may be people who feel that it's making a fuss and feel hypocritical, and they're really speechless.

Subject, in fact, this is not a good thing.

Keep the words in your heart all the time, and it will just make people for a short timeFeeling unhappy, but once the time becomes longer, it will make people feel depressed, uncomfortable, and seriousDepressionHow many people's depression starts here.

If you keep your words in your heart, you are either a person with a very great heart, or someone like us who is unwilling to express yourself.

Holding the words in your heart will only make people feel very uncomfortable, and no one can speak, someEmotions can't be expressed, I can't vent it, so I can only hide these words in my heart. It will lead to psychological discomfort.

Seeing that others have one or several people who can communicate and tell others what they think in their hearts is very envious, but it will also exacerbate their own unhappiness.

It's sad, but it's still going to show it on the surfaceVery happyThis is the hardest part, sometimes some smiles are really not from the heart, and it will make people very depressed and uncomfortable.

Sometimes people think you're veryOpen-minded, very hi, happy every day, in fact, the reality is not like this.

I think this situation may be because this person usually thinks too much, takes everything to heart, and is very sensitive to people and things, so there are a lot of things that he wants to say, but he doesn't find a person who can speak.

In the face of this situation, the subject must tell himself that he can't hold back, it's really like this, he must find someone to talk to him and express everything he wants to say. In this way, your heart will feel very goodComfortableEven if you can't find someone who can listen to you, then go find a wall or a doll and put it to heart.

Tell it all you want, and it's also a good solution.

Don't hold the words in your heart, you will be depressed after a long time, sometimes, when you say it, someone will help you relieve it, and look at one thing in a different way, maybe your mind will change, and it will not be so uncomfortable.