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You have to see if he will develop in the future, because to live together. And whether he is sincere to you, whether he has true feelings. Judging from your description, his family has no money, and it is not a big deal for him to be frugal.
On the contrary, this is a plus. I can understand your feelings, but I don't understand how you can be happy, if only consumption can make you happy. Then I can tell you that you are not suitable.
But if you go a few years later you will find that such an idea is very naïve and immature. And what is the purpose of your relationship, is it to be together in the future, or just to make friends. This is important.
If it's the former, you should value feelings, character, and ability. It doesn't matter if it's the latter. Here's a little bit of advice from me.
I hope you can get rid of this trouble.
I see, you want you to have the most important place in his heart. That's right, it's two-sided, and to be honest, my girlfriend is 100% nice to me, so she's in a high position in my heart, and the reverse is true. You can try to be wholehearted to him first, I don't believe he wasn't touched. Try it.
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Not too expensive? This means that he still bought you something.
You may not know how many frustrations he went through to buy you something? Maybe there is an economic test, or maybe there is a checkpoint for his parents, after all, his economy is not good, and there is a difference between his boyfriend and his husband, and there is also a connection.
True love is not smashed out of money, you say that you are not very materialistic, you may violate your conscience, in your heart, you still hope for material, such a girl, will be thought by the boy to have an attempt, you can be coquettish and ask him to buy something, remember not to exceed his financial ability, buy something small or something. Maybe when you really experience something, you can see if he loves you.
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Hehe, out of concern for you or love you, it is normal to spend the appropriate amount of money for you, but please make it clear 1, the object is mutual, I feel that you should not expect him to pay for you, don't always think about what he should give you, you should think more about what you have done for him, after all, it is the object, after all, he does not owe you anything. As long as he is sincere, even if he does not spend money to make a small gift for you by hand, he can also represent his heart, people are different from others, as long as the character is good, filial piety, in a little brain, the director is solid and willing to work, it is best to be able to have some skills, I think such a young man is quite good, although he may not have money now, but such a person as long as the sky does not extinguish he will definitely have some achievements in the future, by the way, I feel that what you said is a little selfish Passing by.
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Understand what you mean, he is thrifty, even if he doesn't like to spend money on you, if he really cares about you, when you meet something you like or what he thinks you will like, he can still ask you if you want to, at least show that he has you in his heart, and you will naturally understand whether it is worth buying, and will not let him spend money indiscriminately, which he himself should understand, if he rarely takes the initiative to buy you things, then such a boy is not only stingy, but also may not take you very seriously in his heart! You have to be cautious when you associate with him!
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Spend the money you need to spend and do what you have to do
Suppose he has enough money to live an easy life for the rest of his life, and he already knows you and gives you an unusually expensive gift, will you continue with such a man? No amount of money is enough for him to be extravagant! ~
You say this guy I think you should give him some time
Just one example
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Who wouldn't want to spend money on a girlfriend if they have that ability. Maybe he's helpless too! Be considerate and considerate of him.
Your boyfriend is very similar to me, with a salary of more than 1,000 and is still managed by the family. Helpless....Helpless....Helpless! This society is too realistic, and girls want to find a handsome and rich boyfriend.
Who made us poor, so I didn't even dare to have a girlfriend.
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It's okay to be poor, but you can't be short-minded If he is an ambitious person, he should continue to socialize.
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I'll ask you, do you like his money or like his people, if you like money, just go find a big money, if you like him, even if you live a poor life, you should feel happy, you know that his family is not rich, why do you have to spend money on him, don't you spend some money? Even if you get married, the money is together.
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Alas, don't think so, his family conditions are not good, and as his girlfriend, he should be considerate rather than think that he doesn't spend money on you.
He's not stingy, he's just squandering like he doesn't have money.
But I think it's better not to find a poor boyfriend.
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I don't think so, a boyfriend is a boyfriend after all, and financially the two of you are still separated, and it's okay to become husband and wife
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It may be related to personality.
It seems that one of the realms of love should be: I am willing to give everything for you.
Maybe it's because the heat can't be ready.
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It depends on the boy's personality.
Looking at a person is not necessarily just about whether he has money or not.
Ay. It's miserable to be a boy.
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The necessary expenses still have to be paid, who likes to be with an iron rooster?
But it's mainly up to the people.
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Life, we'd better have someone to bring us food, hahahaha, bitter and hard.
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Dealing with a material cannot buy security.
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I feel like he's sensible, but you're not a good girl.
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I don't know what you think. I don't know how you do it, someone who is my heart, of course I will choose. "When a woman chooses a man when she is in love, she must not only listen to his mouth, but will definitely see his actual actions.
The girl falls in love with her ears, but the girl's heart still tends to love her and spoil the man who does a lot for her. Most men who don't take the initiative to pay when they fall in love think this way in their hearts. Men who don't take the initiative to pay when they are in love, most of them think like this in their hearts, I don't love you.
An important criterion for judging whether a man loves you or not is to see if he doesn't spend money on you. When you are in love, it is the most intimate and intimate time for two people. If a man is still reluctant to spend money for you at this time, he will never take the initiative to pay for you.
Then you have to understand that this man may not love you very much. Because he doesn't love you very much, he may not want to go to the end with you. Nature doesn't waste his money on you.
When you are in a relationship, there may be men who do not take the initiative to pay. He's the kind of man who is very stingy. He doesn't spend money on you.
He just thinks that the rabbit belongs to the kind of man who doesn't scatter eagles when you haven't spent his money yet. He is stingy not only with you alone, but also with his family.
So when you fall in love, you don't take the initiative to spend money, whether you love you or not, purely he is a man who is not very generous. Endure big tricks, some men don't want to play their cards according to common sense. often makes you feel very unpleasant, and gives you a super surprise, that is, the kind of man who likes to hold back his big moves.
When you're in love, he doesn't seem to take the initiative to pay for you. In fact, his heart thinks like this, not wanting to become zero, but wanting to pile up zero into a whole. He may not spend money on things that are scattered in a relationship, but he is just waiting for the opportunity to surprise you super in one fell swoop.
Equality. Some men may have studied abroad and have been influenced by Western culture to advocate equality between men and women.
So when he fell in love, he didn't realize that he had to spend money on women, and he didn't know whether to spend money on women, which would affect the relationship. This kind of man believes that love is pure. Don't talk about money.
Talking about money is not really emotional. So, if your bones are still traditional, it will be hard to be with such a man. A man who is unwilling to put down money in a relationship may not love you unloved.
He just treats your money as pocket money.
Save his money to buy a house, a car, and get married in the future. Such a man wants to save money because he wants to marry you.
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If a man is unwilling to take the initiative to spend money on you when he is in love, it may be that his emotional intelligence is sometimes not so high, and he has not thought of this aspect, or it may be that he does not have such a strong impression of you and does not like you so much, so he will not take the initiative to spend money on you.
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In fact, most men are still willing to take the initiative to spend money on you, but for some men, I think you and he have not finally decided that they are not willing to spend too much for you, for fear of ending up in the water, so it means that he is not too sincere to you.
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Take the initiative to spend money for you, which means that this boy likes you, and it also seems that he is machismo, and the boy who is willing to spend money for you cherishes it, that is really good to you, and occasionally you have to give back to the other party.
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Because the man thinks that you are not my daughter-in-law if you get married without a license, I spent money on you, and you finally broke up with me, I am not raising a daughter-in-law for others, so when you fall in love, men are not willing to take the initiative to spend money on you.
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Because he doesn't regard you as very important and attach great importance to you, he is unwilling to spend money for you, and once he loves you very much, he will take the initiative to spend money on you in the future.
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Because he's not sure if you're the one who can spend his life with him, and it's a loss to spend too much money on you in the end with no return.
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If a man is unwilling to take the initiative to spend money on you when you are in love, it means that this boy still values money more seriously.
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If a man is unwilling to take the initiative to spend money on you when he is in love, it means that he is not confident, and he is afraid that if the relationship fails, the money spent will be wasted.
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There are many reasons why you are reluctant to take the initiative to spend money, such as being stingy, feeling that you are not worth it, or feeling that it is not time to spend money on you for fear of being lost.
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Because men don't feel like they have a future with you, they don't want to waste money on you.
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I'm not sure if you can make it to the end, I'm afraid that there will be no return for paying, and I feel sorry for my money
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It is very likely that the other party does not really like you, but just uses you as a spare tire and is not willing to spend money for you.
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I think that if this guy is reluctant to spend money on this girl when he is in love, I suggest that girls don't look for this kind of man, it's too stingy.
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A very important criterion for judging whether a man loves you or not is to see if he spends money on you. When you are in love, it is the time when two people are most affectionate. If a man is still reluctant to spend money for you at this time, he never takes the initiative to pay for you.
Then, you have to understand that this man may not love you very much.
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When you are in love, why is a man reluctant to take the initiative to spend money on you, which shows that this man does not trust you enough and does not know you enough, so he is not willing to spend money on you, for fear that it will be spent in vain, or will he come back?
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It may be because this man is a relatively stingy person, and this man doesn't like you enough, so he is not willing to take the initiative to spend money on you.
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Men are reluctant to spend money on you because they don't know and trust you very well, and they are afraid that you will change your mind and make a fool of yourself.
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Men don't want to spend money on you. First, the man has no money. Second. Men don't feel your love at all. Third, he doesn't love you that much.
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I feel that he is suffering, and he does not trust you at all, so be cautious.
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Because money is his life! Because he doesn't mean it to you, choose the answer yourself.
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First of all, not all men are like this, but some men may express their feelings verbally, but do not give in action. This could be because they lack the ability to express feelings, or because they don't really care about you. Besides, caring doesn't have to pay money, or spend money on you, your values are problematic or need to be corrected.
Second, it's important to recognize that a man's words and actions are inconsistent may be because he has other problems or motives. If you feel that his words and actions are inconsistent, it is best to talk to him directly to let him know how you feel and try to solve the problem. If you are looking for support, you can clearly mark the price and ask for money in the name of discounts!
In the end, we men don't spend money on women, that's too normal, you just can't spend money on your women, other things are easy to say, spending money is being scammed, and besides, there is no need to spend money on women before marriage, true love doesn't need money to measure!
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I don't love, I don't care, if there is no money, he will work hard to earn money, save his own food, and let you spend it.
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Can you believe a man if he says he loves you and just doesn't want to spend money for you? Miss, no matter what this man says to you, you want to be independent, it's hard to say it yourself, or make plans for your future, don't trust him. It's a pity, how can there be so many reasons.
A man who spares no expense for you, he may not really love you, but if you feel sorry for the man who spends money for you, he must not love you.
Stay away from the man who is reluctant to spend money for you, where men have love, where there is money. For a woman, she doesn't want to spend anyone's money, she just wants to spend the money of the man you like. For a man, he does not give flowers to any woman easily.
A man's love is in **, and he is reluctant to spend money for anyone. He tempts a woman's love, whether the woman spends his money or not. A man who is reluctant to spend money for you, he doesn't take you seriously at all.
A man who truly loves you, he always can't help but want to spend money for you. He will take you to eat your favorite meals. I will give you a gift that you like.
I'll pay you money. In his heart, you are precious, and you deserve the best of everything.
And that man who always says he loves you, but never gets caught up in the truth, his love is just talking. The reason he is reluctant to spend money on you is not because he has no money, but because he thinks you have no value. A man who can't even afford to spend money for you.
Don't expect him to be nice to you in the future. When a man is in love, he is reluctant to spend money for you, and he can calculate well with you everywhere.
Afraid that you will take advantage of him, or even want to take advantage of you, he will only be more angry in the future and refuse to spend more money. A man who can't even afford to spend money for you. In the future, he will respect you, care for you, love you, and live well with you, which does not exist.
This kind of man, extremely selfish, he will only take care of himself, and it will not be good for you. Stay away from the man who is reluctant to spend money for you, he doesn't love you. He won't be nice to you in the future.
A man who spares no expense for you is not because he has money, but because you feel valuable and is reluctant to spend money for you, not necessarily because he has no money, but simply because he doesn't want to spend money on you. It's not that a woman has to spend a man's money, but if a man is reluctant to give you money, he can no longer give you the love you want.
When you are not married, your boyfriend spends money on you, and a small amount of money is acceptable, but when the amount is relatively large, it is better to refuse. Because you are not married, there are still many uncertain factors that determine whether the two of you are together in the end, if you break up, it is very troublesome to return the money, or carefully consider it before deciding whether to accept it.
If you like her very much and he sends you a message, you should explain your point of view to him very clearly, if you don't like him, then such a boy, you just give him a decisive decision, and the two of them stop communicating!
Don't talk to guys about these topics.
I don't think so. Not liking a person but being with him will make both people unhappy. You may even feel wronged deep down, especially when there are conflicts. Instead of wasting time with someone you don't like, go find someone you like.