Why do I feel bad when I see someone else having money? How do you change yourself with such a probl

Haha, this is envy, this is jealousy, this is vanity. With these "good friends" by your side, your life is getting worse and worse. I know you want to rush and want pie in the sky.

Don't dream. The best thing to do is to think about people who are worse than you. Do what you have to do.

That's normal!

There are two ways to solve it!

First, learn to be content and happy, look at the troubles of others after they have money, and think about their own happiness!

Second, it's good to catch up and become rich.

Many people are poor not because they are poor elsewhere, but because they are poor in their minds. This thought is not knowledge, but your subconscious!

As long as you think that I am going to be rich, and believe in it, and then add your own efforts, you will really do it!

Someone else can't be a passerby, it can't be a character made up in a TV series, it's definitely a good friend around you, or someone you hate, and it's okay to be a good friend, but it's not okay to hate it. I don't agree with what I said upstairs, it's because we're all jealous, and we're jealous, because we all want to win, and we're not willing to fall behind, and maybe someone else will get their way, and it doesn't matter, there's a bird that doesn't fly for three years, and doesn't cry for three years. If you don't make a sound, you'll be a blockbuster, and if you don't fly, you'll be soaring into the sky.

Work hard to make money and turn yourself into a rich person.

Then you become rich, and it will be uncomfortable for others to see you.

Thinking, one day, I will be richer than you, and trampling you under my feet is a kind of desire to win.

Other people's money is also earned by themselves.

As long as you work hard, there is a chance.

It's not that rich people feel uncomfortable, it's that many people who are better than themselves in some way will be a little uncomfortable, people are like this, so strong.

Who is most comfortable looking at? Some people say that the kind of person who is similar to his ability in all aspects and external conditions, and then slightly inferior to himself, looks the most comfortable, and the conditions are not much different, that is, standing on the same level, and a little worse than himself, he has a sense of superiority, so he looks the most comfortable.

And you are not the only one, the Chinese are more hateful to the rich, and some people call it"Pink eye"It's okay I won't, because I don't think those rich people are much better than me, and those people are not as happy as me, they are not as happy as me, and it is useless to have more money, and if the money is exposed, it has to attract jealousy, and it has to prevent people from robbing. The following is omitted, so it would be nice to have enough money and a little leftover.

That's an imbalance in your mind.

In fact, rich people also have their hardships, and he has paid a lot behind his success.

Don't have an attitude of "angry people", turn jealousy into motivation, work hard, and strive to create a wonderful life of your own.

Because some rich people pretend, it will indeed make people very unhappy, I think you should be a person with a lot of personality, and you are not used to seeing some of the actions of rich people.

I'm unbalanced!

I also have a hatred for the rich, but it doesn't seem to be as heavy as yours

You should look at their merits more.

Psychological imbalance, there is a hatred of the rich, you can see a psychiatrist.

It's normal, don't think about why, let yourself live easily.

That's what you don't, psychological jealousy.

Do you have an inferiority complex?

Wake up tomorrow and you're still there, that's happiness

Don't overthink it. Do what you are doing.

What would you think if one day, you too squeezed into the ranks of the rich?

Because you don't have money yourself, and you are desperate to get it, you are competitive in your subconscious, and you don't allow others to do anything better than you. Although it is not jealousy or envy, it is very uncomfortable to see others so rich.

Try to be richer than others...

This is a very normal phenomenon, you don't have to worry, the most important thing is to adjust your mentality, there is nothing wrong with having money, it is all obtained through your own efforts, what we need to do is to work hard ourselves, bless you, come on.

Because you don't have money but you have to be richer than others, it's just a psychological imbalance. Normal!

Don't be jealous of rich people, people are more popular than people, people don't compare with others when they live, if you want to be rich, rely on your own efforts.

Don't be like this, jealousy is not good.

Others are rich because others have worked hard, and if you work hard, you can also be rich.

Me too, hahahahahaha.

Lack of self-confidence, lack of confidence, if you want to have no feeling of villain's mind, you must often read more books, low-** clothing can also wear personality, wear taste, wear self-confidence, temperament change, should first change from the heart, if you want to change the heart, first of all, you must read more thoughtful books, and chat with people with high-quality temperament, if you do this, you will be able to change your own shortcomings, there is a saying: The ruler is short, the inch is long!

No problem, make more money, and you won't feel that others are rich! Hee-hee!

This is caused by your low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.

Make yourself better and more confident.

Now that you're aware of it, you can only rely on yourself to change.

It's not a villain, it's probably obsessive-compulsive.

You do have psychological problems. This is a "demon in the heart". Change is a process. It needs to be gradual. It can't be fast, and it's going to be slow or even ineffective at first. Even if there is a slight effect, it is likely to be repeated again. The solution is as follows:

1. Accept your own shortcomings and accept all your shortcomings. Do so concretely. Write down all the shortcomings you can think of and take a look at them yourself.

No matter what kind of shortcomings and shortcomings, you have to find enough to prove that you have such shortcomings is not a problem. It is normal to find evidence to prove that you have shortcomings, and it is normal to have shortcomings. Accept your own shortcomings, accept your imperfections.

Be sure to see clearly, it is to let you accept all your shortcomings and shortcomings, not to make you change.

That's hard to do. Especially when it's harder to do it completely within yourself! However, once you do it slowly, you will find its benefits. This mode of thinking of completely accepting everything you have is the most fundamental way for almost all mental illnesses!

The so-called superior person does not change others, but overcomes himself. It's not the people who make themselves perfect. There are no perfect people in the world.

A true master is a person who develops his strengths and at the same time accepts his shortcomings. When a person always grasps his shortcomings and puts his main energy, or even all his energy, on changing himself, does he still have the time and energy to do a good job? Because after a hundred years of change, you still have a lot of shortcomings that you can't change.

2 Learn the spirit of being thick-skinned. Don't be afraid of others looking at you, and don't be afraid to look at others. When you are really not afraid of others looking at you in your heart, and you are not afraid of looking at others, just like when you eat, you are not afraid of poison in the food, and you are not afraid that the meat is not clean, so you eat normally.

When you're always afraid of this and that, you're not normal. Worrying, being afraid, and caring is the source of your pain, the root of your problems. Accepting all your shortcomings and shortcomings is the most fundamental, the most thorough, and the most thorough way to eliminate worries, fears, and concerns.

3. Let go of your own demands on yourself and your concern for others. No one in the world pays attention to you. Only your impure heart is disturbing you!

There is not so much pain in the world, and the so-called pain is nothing but self-inflicted. Put it down! It's the last moment!

This is called embarrassing substitution, which is empathy, and everyone will have it to some extent. The higher the level of empathy, the more embarrassed you will be for others! Nothing.

Because you are an emotional person,,More kind,,More loving,,Usually such a person,When you see others sad,You will be sad.。。

In fact, human beings are social animals, and emotions are contagious in this social group, not only sadness, but also happiness. This navigation only proves that you are a pure human being, not polluted by the big dye vat of society. Congratulations.

Normal people. This is usually the case. Emotional contagion.

Sadness and joy. Don't like things. Don't feel sorry for yourself.

This realm is relatively profound... Unless you are too cold ... Don't change yourself easily.

Remain true to yourself ...

It's easy to be emotional.? Hehe, it's not a good thing.

Because that's hard earned. You have to change your mindset. Tell yourself every time you spend money. Isn't it just to make money and enjoy it? That way you won't feel bad.

I think that's a plus, but if you're really rich, know that you're not just spending money on things that you love and are useful, but you're also helping people who sell your things. He is indeed a noble man of businessmen.

It just means that you don't have enough money.

People who don't know how to spend money don't know what to look for. Do you understand?

Because your money is hard-won.

If you don't give me some money, I'll help you spend it and help you correct it.

Poor people are about the same, and that's not a disadvantage.

Because you know how to save and if you want to change, there's plenty of money for that

Spend more money on people you like and people you want to help.