My relationship with my husband is in trouble, because I have children and I want to save my marriag

I think there is no big contradiction between the two, it can be mediated, the two of them have a good talk, everyone let each other go, change yourself more, you can have a happy home. You also have to change it, be more considerate, if you care about him, I don't think he will go online dating.

You should make sure that the problem is him or you, don't always feel bad about the other person, you can do something else, to pass the attention, don't always revolve around him.

Hehehe, things are confused, marriage is just turning a blind eye.

Long pain is better than short pain, if you are not happy, then let go, so that each other can chase happiness.

Alas, why are you so entangled, don't get divorced, how pitiful the child is, my parents divorced when I was in high school, I think I'm so pitiful, whether it's my mother taking me or my father taking me, I lack a kind of love, I look at other people's family of three, I envy others.

The relationship between two people is mainly communication, because of communication, you love each other, because of the lack of communication, you have estrangement......

The court will basically give the child to the mother, but the problem is, you have to have proof that you can basically support the child. If you relied on their family's factory wages before marriage, it is better for you to find a job now and convince the court that you have the ability.

For the sake of the child, talk to him and see if he can get it back

Is it because he doesn't want to have a child that he doesn't want to have a child, then you can talk about it.

You can't keep your marriage with your children alone, and your children won't be happy.

Let's talk about it well and then decide.

If you are not happy, you will get a divorce. As for children, I think whoever has the financial ability will give it to whomever they want!

When I was young, my parents also had a lot of divorce, and then I thought that I must follow my mother, and in the end they didn't get divorced, and the relationship between my parents and my parents was not good during the period from my age of eight to fourteen, and my mother said that if I wasn't afraid that I would not be good for the divorce, I would have divorced my father a long time ago, and now I'm twenty-two years old, and the relationship in the family is much better than before.

Of course, if you can, you can't leave, but you both are like this. If you go to court, the court will usually award the child to the mother.

I haven't finished reading what you said, let's communicate more, being able to marry you shows that he still loves you, maybe you don't know him yet.

Let's talk about it, if it doesn't work, let's get a divorce.

Don't make a noise, don't make a fuss, be very good to him, you will be moved! Hold on!

It can be redeemed, because the husband also wants to give the child a complete home, and if the two people divorce, the child will become a single-parent family.

No. Because a family without affection will make it more difficult for the child to grow up healthily, so he cannot be redeemed for the sake of the child.

I don't think you should keep him for the sake of the child, since the two of you don't want to love anymore, even if you are barely together until the end, you will still get hurt, so it's better to separate as soon as possible.

It shouldn't be. Redemption will not necessarily lead to good results, and it will make the child unable to understand your relationship.

He should not be redeemed, because since he has been divorced, it means that there is no hope for your relationship, and it is useless for such a person to stay, and he should not choose to redeem it for the sake of his children.

If he insists on divorce, then you can't save him, because others have said that the wife said that 100 divorces are useless, and the husband said that one is particularly useful and difficult to recover.

No, since your husband has already made up his mind like this, there will not be a good result in redemption.

When you have children, married life will become busy, more trivial, coupled with the wife's complaints, etc., the husband will gradually lose confidence and die for marriage, so how to save the husband who has children? Let's look down.

1. Don't blind your heart anymore, use your children as an excuse, or use your unwillingness as a declaration to save your marriage.

Face your heart, in fact, you still have expectations for this marriage, and you still have feelings for this man. You feel that it is a shame to still have feelings for such a man, and you feel that it is rude to save such a man, but you can't deceive yourself, and you don't want to get a divorce, as long as you don't want to divorce, you will cherish something. If you blindly use external things as a reason for recovery, it will be difficult to generate strong motivation.

It is not impossible to transform a person. If you have such self-confidence, you should practice without distraction, your mind is unwilling, and you haven't even started trying to ** it. In fact, it is even more irresponsible to give up and let it rot.

2. Find out why.

If he doesn't love you anymore, it means that there is a communication problem, or something special. Now, we need to get to the root cause and then you can correct it. You can also communicate with the other person and let the other person understand your intentions so that the relationship between the two is not so stiff and there may be room for recovery.

3. Give him time and leeway.

When your attitude is to forgive him as long as he comes back, try to give him time and leeway to make him realize that he has done something wrong, so that this will prevent such incidents from happening again in the future and let him take good care of the family.

4. Recall your past and reclaim love again.

When your wife wants a divorce, it is because your marriage has lost the warmth, happiness and warmth that you imagined, so at this time you can go to the place where you once loved her, reminisce about how you felt before, and then talk about a love. Women are very emotional, your family's photo album, the restaurant you ate together, the park you once dated, her favorite snack, or another honeymoon.

First of all, you must make your husband responsible for the family, a responsible man will be relatively responsible, and he will also think about you and the children in his heart.

By making changes from oneself, the marriage can be maintained for a long time, and on this basis, it is necessary to support each other and understand each other.

Then the two of you can go to the place where you fell in love before and reminisce about the sweet things of the past. I've been to the two-person world of the two of you.

To be honest, family and marriage are a lifelong "career" and "work" that are very difficult to manage;

We must always do a good job of taking care of ourselves and our families, taking care of them, reviewing their deficiencies and improving;

Since you have been a great failure and have seriously hurt your wife's heart;

may want to or have left you, if you are truly repentant and sincerely want to redeem this once beautiful marriage;

Then you should take this as a lesson, first work hard to develop yourself, strive to achieve yourself, and complete the tasks you should complete;

Only your efforts and the brilliance you create will make it possible for this family to return to the happiness it once had!

For your happiness, for your children! For the sake of this family, work hard! Happiness will surely come to you again and favor you! Trust you to do it!

In fact, the other party still cares about you, if you don't care about you, you may have left a long time ago, so at this time you can only find the other party, apologize, and promise the other party, of course, some mistakes in the future can not be wrong, once you are wrong again, it may really be over.

Therefore, what you have to do now is to communicate with the other party well, find the other party to apologize with the heart, and pursue her again as if you had just started falling in love.

Now that I know that I regret it, I will go to ** early, don't kidnap your wife with your son's morality, and go to her when you pay off all your foreign debts! There's no way she'll be able to turn back now!

It is very good to be able to recognize your mistakes, and to change your mistakes, the key is to be sure to live and count, from what you have done, you have not seen how to love your wife and son, but often beat and scolded her and have a lot of foreign debts, today you finally put down the butcher's knife in front of everyone and become a Buddha, everyone gives you the opportunity to change, love your wife and son, work hard and strive to repay foreign debts, remember that a man's fist is a fight, and beating his wife is the most incompetent embodiment of a man.

Hello, you're divorced, and who is your son with? You say that you want to save your marriage, then you say that you can't let your son be without a mother, that means that now your son is raised by you, right?

Now the situation is that she has left you, and you can only pay off the debt slowly, and then change yourself, maybe she will come back.

You can't rely on children to save your marriage, the most important thing is to rely on your personal emotional communication, if you two still have feelings, you can save your marriage.

If you want to save your marriage, you must look for the reasons that make your marriage collapse, and only by finding the main reasons and actively correcting them can you save it. There is no absolute right or absolute error in marriage, and the home is a place for intercession, not a place for reason.