I have just been married for more than 1 month, and I found that I have no common language with my h

Marriage has a run-in period, and it will be good after this stage, there is always someone who has to make concessions, I wish you a happy life.

yes, then you don't want a divorce, do you?

In fact, it's very helpless and helpless It is said that feelings are slowly cultivated If you don't call, I see it is difficult After all, you are young Are you still the traditional old thinking? Don't get stuck in that alley, in fact, the world is very big, there are a lot of Chinese, not just the two of you.

I'm not advising you to divorce, think about it, really think about it, don't want you to have too many things ·· It's not easy for you to live a family, and I'm actually worried about this kind of thing.

But I don't think it's a bad relationship, we all love each other, I set him up, it's really your contradiction.

In my opinion, it's all trivial ·· I know how painful it is to love each other and not be able to be together.

I miss her every day... Every time I think about her, I can't help but cry, and I'll love her for the rest of my life.

I'm going to love silently He's the same as me It's silent love Think about how you love her...

At the beginning of marriage, you need to understand each other, it is a transitional period, and it is natural to be good if you are excessive.

Try it if you don't believe me.

It's all like that now.

The consequence of a flash marriage is a flash divorce.

99% of them do.

You can't get rid of it.

What are you doing without feelings, it's funny.

You don't feel like you're married.

You can understand your current mood, it is true that four years of marriage is not easy. I believe that you can come so far, which shows that the relationship was still very good before. But what caused the communication problems between you?

Marriage requires two people to manage with their hearts, no matter what reason you have come to this point, but at least it is caused by your improper management and maintenance of marriage, and only by understanding the root cause of the conflict or inability to communicate between you can you completely solve your problems.

It can be seen that you love your husband very much and attach great importance to this family. After all, it is not easy to come together, so two people must communicate well and resolve misunderstandings in order to be happy again. Because the small contradictions between husband and wife are not resolved, they will slowly accumulate into big contradictions, and if this goes on for a long time, it will not only affect the relationship between husband and wife, but can even break down the marriage of two people.

Your Cold War is getting longer and longer, which means that your contradictions are gradually accumulating.

Therefore, if the emotional matter can be solved as soon as possible, it is still too late to find the problem, I believe that as long as you communicate and save it through the right method, you can still live happily.

It's a headache to encounter this problem, since you love him very much, just tolerate him a lot After listening to what you said, it's really not worth it for you. But if you say you love him, then you can only tolerate him a lot! Maybe it's something he's been annoying about lately, or you can talk to him openly and honestly to see what kind of position you have in his heart!

After you know, you will understand a lot!

You just sit down and have a good talk, what feelings need is communication, the cold war is the most unwise, since you love him and are reluctant to let him go, then put down your face, take the initiative to talk to him, and when you are in a good mood, remind him that women need men's care, and there is nothing to take advantage of between husband and wife. Whether there are women or not, I don't dare to say nonsense, it depends on your observation, whether you love to dress up, whether you spend a lot every month.

Your headline says four different things:

1. Married for 4 years; 2. It is difficult to communicate with my husband now; 3. Say anything casually and get angry; 4. A quarrel will be cold for more than a week.

Analyze: 1. You have been married for 4 years, which means that your marriage is still quite stable and flat.

2. It is difficult to communicate with my husband now; What are the main aspects that are difficult to communicate? So how did you communicate before? Did you communicate well before?

3. Get angry at whatever you say. What do you mean by being casual? Why do you get angry? Got angry before? Who posts more?

4. Is there nothing to say about the Cold War?

You think about whether you have changed before and after you get married, and then think about how you can deal with the problem now, and maybe you can find a way to reconcile.

Treat your marriage with your heart.

Let's see if it's your eight-character problem, or a home feng shui problem.

Your husband has a flower head outside, so be careful.

If both partners are unwilling to make changes, it will be difficult for the marriage to last. It's better to separate early, it's a relief for everyone.

can't be maintained, and there is no normal communication between husband and wife, which means that it has long existed in name only!

Summary. Hello dear! If you quarrel as soon as you talk, there must be a short-tempered person, this person will lose his temper and get angry at every turn, and you need to find things that you are not satisfied with each other, and then find these problems and solve them in order to continue to be together better!

The marriage of two people needs each other to be able to understand each other and tolerate each other, and they must also learn to empathize with each other, and don't blindly vent their complaints on their own objects! Only by doing so can your marriage be stronger and your relationship will go further!

Two people can't communicate together, and they quarrel as soon as they talk, can this kind of marriage still be maintained?

Hello dear! If you quarrel as soon as you talk, there must be a short-tempered person, this person will lose his temper and get angry at every turn, and you need to find things that you are not satisfied with each other, and then find these problems and solve them in order to continue to be together better! The marriage of two people needs each other to be able to understand each other and tolerate each other, and they must also learn to empathize with each other, and don't blindly vent their complaints on their own objects!

Only by doing so can your marriage be stronger and your relationship will go further!

Relatives, as long as you figure out the points of your quarrel and the specific reasons and then solve them, you can be together! Do you know why you're arguing? Whether they dislike each other or dislike each other's problems, can you talk about it?

From the time you gave birth to your daughter, you asked him to take or hug the child at night after work, and you didn't let him participate when the child was first born, and now he has become indifferent to the child.

After being married for a long time, there are husband and wife who have a common language and respect each other, but there are relatively few of them.

Divorce is very harmful to children, and after divorce, will you definitely be able to find a husband who has a common language? After the divorce, remarried families are more concerned about the economy, and many remarried families are financially AA system, and each of them takes their own money.

The idea that you don't want to divorce is right, it is recommended that you communicate more with your husband, and both parties will cultivate more feelings, but after a long time, the average couple will become like relatives, but the common language is a little less.

Ay! Each family has its own worries, since you want to live together, then think more about how you can live the life you want, you and the child are infected with him alone There is still a great chance of winning, although it will be a long time, anyway, the family is either you integrate into him, or he integrates into you.

Think about your relationship with your husband first. Asking this question, I guess I still want to carry out the marriage. There are two ways to try:

1.Try to get to know him more and see what he likes to do, so as to develop your own interest in that direction, so that you can talk a little bit and make him feel that you care about him.

2.Let him be interested in you and be curious. For example, doing something that you haven't done before. Use the time you spend watching TV and surfing the Internet to learn a dance, or work as a social worker.

There is no need to quarrel. Every time he wants to quarrel loudly and get angry, you calm down and don't bother with him, and he will be loud, and he himself will not be able to quarrel. In fact, the topic is caused by you, as soon as he has a seizure, you turn off the fire, and you will definitely be fine.

Sometimes when he sees that you are not like him, he may come and apologize to you, and even if he doesn't, he will show it with his actions. But the premise is that he also wants to carry out the marriage.

Marriage is not a procrastination, it is necessary to maintain it as much as possible. He's a rough guy and he's so grumpy, you know, isn't he? Why are you arguing with him?

Even if you have a point, what's the use of winning the argument? Husband and wife should not be reasonable, if you want to live a happy life, you must talk about "love". This "emotion" is not only emotion, but also [emotion].

For example, you are tired after a busy day, and you have to wash the dishes after dinner or something, but he doesn't care about anything, just snuggles up on the couch and watches TV! Objectively speaking, you certainly have a reason to explode and scold him. But what will be the result?

He will definitely not be "woken up" by you and run over to help, but he will probably be angry because he feels that he is more tired, or that it is natural for men not to do housework. [Don't tell me, he's just not right. I know, I also think he's wrong, but if the quarrel continues, he'll only do more wrong things, no matter how much you loved before, it will gradually wear off.

So don't quarrel. 】

The family is not a court, so why do you have to be reasonable? Let's try to do it another way. If you are a woman, you should be soft and strong.

I can understand your feelings! We're only going to be worse off than you, alas......What could be done? You have to face it.

Talk to him well, for the sake of the child

Then who else does he listen to, talk to that person well, his nature is not bad, he is a mother, think about the child.

This shows that your husband still cares about you very much, ** it should be the reason for work You understand more, suspect that you may not know yourself Some of your words Some behaviors give him a sense of insecurity Or it may be his own character is suspicious and insecure, you can create some little romance Candlelight dinner or something In this environment, his heart calms down Maybe he will confide in you, 2 people enter marriage to cherish each other More patience More care I hope you can continue to be happy!

Maybe you're too charming and insecure, but it's a sign that he loves you too much because he's in such a hurry, and you should feel lucky.

It's him who loves you! You also need a good way of communicating.