The blind date is working in my hometown, and I am working in the field, so it is impossible for bot

I also wanted to learn about the case, and I happened to see it, so I couldn't help but answer it; A few minutes ago, I also happened to reply to my blind date, I was in my hometown, and the other party was out of town; And don't submit the questions in the process, on the matter of being in a different place, if both parties are very sure of what kind of life they want, it is better to wish each other as soon as possible; Originally, I thought I could go to other places, but in fact, I really could, but in fact, in the early stage of understanding, without a solid emotional foundation, no one would compromise for themselves, and even the possibility of negotiation is not too great; Husbands and wives will consider their own interests at a critical juncture, let alone a blind date. There is no right or wrong judgment in this matter, that is, if you decide your choice, you will definitely pursue what you want.

Then there is no need, lying down is also a waste of time and adding to each other's troubles. Since it is impossible to compromise, you can only go your separate ways, find a partner in the local area, let others introduce you, or you can take the initiative yourself. Because the current job is indeed very difficult to find, for people with particularly deep feelings, they are willing to make compromises, and they definitely don't have the courage to make compromises for the future that doesn't know the ending.

Then there is no need to continue talking, first of all, consider the right person. If these conditions are not worthy, there is no need to consume them.

Hello, one is working in the field, the other is in the hometown, and they don't compromise, so they can't be in a different place all the time. Just forget it and find another one.

Since neither side can compromise, I don't think there is any need to talk any further, and it would be a waste of time for both sides to continue talking.

The love is bad in an instant, I went to work for 5 days, I was tired of being a dog, and I didn't let me rest on weekends, I feel that this kind of remote rarely succeeds, I don't know if this kind of blind date is still necessary, and I'm tired.

I've also encountered this problem, I've always been very reluctant to have long-distance relationships, but my family conditions are not very good, and I'm afraid of the leftovers, I'm also very conflicted, hey.

Generally, parents always like to keep their children by their side and start a family early. But your life is yours, I suggest that you and your partner get engaged and go to work in other places together, you can tell your parents, just keep the house, how to live after you have no money? But let me remind you that if you leave your hometown with your partner to find a job in the shadows, you may not be satisfied with your work for a while, will you complain, can you handle it well, and don't affect your feelings at that time.

It's best if you go out first, work for a while, settle down, pay the rent, and have a general understanding of your subject's work, and then you pick up your partner to go over.

I think it's easier to do, you can go out to work first, and then when it's stable, you can take your partner with you and scatter it. There may be three months and five months in between, but in the end it's important that you're together. So you go out first, and if you can't stand up outside, you can come back.

May you succeed out there.

If two people go out at the same time and go to work in other places at the same time, then the initial cost is relatively large. So go out alone first, and then wait for a firm foothold to lay a good foundation, and then sell your object away, and so on. There is no delay in the front and back.

Go out and work. Generally, you need to have certain professional skills, and Zhengkuan's family also has academic qualifications, so that it is easier to be employed and is in a favorable position in the competition, so before going out to work, you must measure whether you can find a better job after going out than in your hometown to make money.

In short, it is very important to earn a certain income at work, but it is also very important to find a partner, and it is not easy to find a partner who is satisfactory to you in your life, so you have to take it into account.

You are about to get married, which means that you are an adult, and when you disagree with your parents and Senpei's parents are not necessarily right, of course, you have to make your own decisions. After you get married, you will be an independent family, and you will have to work hard for your own happy life in the spring hall, of course, how can you live a better life.

Actually, I think this situation is relatively normal. Looking for a job should still take your time, you will always find a suitable one, don't be so demanding, you can find a job first, and wait until you get engaged or get married, then two dust travelers can go to other places to find a job at the same time.

In fact, under normal circumstances, many people will say that it is better to go far than to climb close, so if you want to earn 5,000 in the hail outside, it may be better to earn 4,000 at home. Therefore, during this period, you should still stay in your hometown and find a relatively low-paying, but stable job. Silver mill years.

It is up to you to decide whether to go out together to find a job or stay in your hometown, and if he has the ambition, he will go to the outside world with you to work hard.

The two of you can go out and start a business together, and you can also cultivate a relationship.

You should discuss with your mother to solve the problem, and your mother also has her considerations.

You can see if there is a job that suits your partner in the place where you want to work, and it's good for the two of you to work together.

Let's go out together, you don't have to be in your hometown.

It's good to take your partner to work outside.

Start your own shop! Be your own boss!

First of all, I agree, since you have a blind date, then there is nothing to hide, unless you don't like the other party or feel inferior and feel that the other party doesn't look down on your family.

Since the other party wants to visit, this is also a sign of sincere contact. In the past, blind dates were often introduced to take girls to the man's house, and how could they marry without worrying about the real world.

The above is viewed from the man's point of view, which is normal.

If you go to the woman's house on a blind date for the first time, it is not very suitable. Neither the ancient nor the modern point of view is a good thing to do when you meet for the first time. Are you looking for a daughter-in-law or are you looking for an old man?

Or do you want to step on a point? It makes people doubt its sincerity and motives.

It is understandable to take into account the mutual examination of the family conditions of both parties, but it is not advisable to do so.

Looking at each other's family conditions, the right match will be a strong guarantee for marriage.

Door-to-door pair is a derogatory term a lot of the time. But in fact, in other words, it is high-end fashion - circle.

Similar or similar circles can integrate into each other, otherwise it will be two small conflicts that the two original families do not like each other. And the right person will have a lot of consensus on the attitude towards things, and will reduce a lot of trouble.

As a man, there is nothing to refuse if the other party wants to go to the house to sit. As a girl, if the blind date wants to go to the house to see, then refuse completely, what is the monkey anxious about? What do you want to do?

Summary. Pro, if you get along, have a good impression of each other, and are ready to go down, it is not a big problem to work in a different place, and now the communication is developed, you can**, you can WeChat, you can play**, and working in a different place will not affect your development of feelings, as long as you find an opportunity to work in a place as much as possible in the future. But long-distance relationships are really hard, so it's best to be able to go to work in one place.

My family said that the blind date was going to work outside the city, so what should I do now?

Pro, if you get along, have a good impression of each other, and are ready to go down, it is not a big problem to work in a different place, and now the communication is developed, you can**, you can WeChat, you can play**, and working in a different place will not affect your development of feelings, as long as you find an opportunity to work in a place as much as possible in the future. But long-distance relationships are really hard, so it's best to be able to go to work in one place.

The girls have to see each other, but I'm leaving for work tomorrow, do I want to see them?

Dear, you can meet in person, but it's better to choose daytime, because it's safer during the day.

I'm afraid that girls don't take a fancy to me, then I'm not running for nothing, pro, the blind date itself has a probability of success, so no one can guarantee 100% success, so there is hope to go, if you don't go, there is no hope.

What about my ticket.

Dear, the ticket is refundable, as long as you refund the ticket or reschedule it, you can do it.

Summary. Hello dear, glad to serve you! I know the answer to Xiao Du, according to your question, although the blind date object is working in the field, which is understandable, but on weekends and holidays, he does not come back after the holiday, I feel that his attitude is very indifferent, because the two of you met on a blind date, and the emotional foundation is a little weak, so you need more opportunities to get along with each other to increase your feelings and understand each other more, so I think this is the case.

The blind date is working in the field and doesn't go home on weekends + can I continue?

Hello dear, glad to serve you! I know the answer to Xiao Du, according to the line of the nuclear your question, although the blind date object is working in the field, it is understandable, but on weekends, holidays and holidays after the holiday is not back, I feel that his attitude is very indifferent, because the two of you are on a blind date, the emotional foundation is a little weak, so you need more opportunities to get along to increase the relationship, to understand each other more, so I think this is the case.

Both of you should get to know each other better, my dear, but he doesn't come home often, that is, he doesn't communicate with you much.

I think this is already very fatal, and the second thing is to see if he is good to you, whether he is sincere or not, dear.

Can you feel his sincerity? Pro-<>

Isn't he cold?

Ordinary. Don't you keep in touch often?

It can't be like this, it's just that there is not much to talk about, there is a branch to talk about Mengbi chatting, he didn't reply, especially the family always urged the middleman to ask that the two sides want to meet, I feel disgusted, because there is no need to keep urging, the other party will take the initiative to mention if he is willing, but the woman keeps asking, and the remainder feels like it is going to be upside down.

So you don't usually talk to much.

Then the emotional foundation of your blind date is already very weak.

If in the absence of increased feelings.

But his attitude is really bland, he works overtime on weekends and is not in the city, the nuclear socks are not far away, but to be honest, I don't like him, I just think that peers may be able to change the excitement and understand each other's work, the family conditions are OK, they are all ordinary families, but the problem is that they can't see each other a few times a year, and the emotional seepage is estimated to be nothing.

In other words, you also know that the emotional foundation is weak.

If that's the case, do you usually give you a small gift as a surprise?

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answers: Reasons:1

Family reasons: Family members may not want you to leave home, they are worried that you will encounter unsafe situations while working in the field, or that you will be affected badly. 2.

Emotional reasons: You may worry that you will feel lonely while working in a foreign country, or that you will not be able to adjust to life in a foreign country. Workaround:

1.Communicate with your family: Communicate your thoughts to your family so that they understand what you think, reassure them, and let them know that you will be safe while working in the field.

2.Be prepared: Before working in the field, be well prepared, understand the situation in the field, prepare the necessary items, and solve problems that may arise.

3.Ask for help: If you're having trouble working in a field, you can seek local help or ask family for help.

Personal Tips:1Stick to your own ideas:

Before making a decision, stick to your ideas and don't be swayed by the pressure of your family. 2.Face it bravely:

When working in the field, make the most of your time, don't waste it, use it effectively and do something meaningful.