My boyfriend found out like this, am I too careful? Or is it true ...

The reply is not surprising, and it is better to be careful!

Don't use the plot in the TV series to measure the sophistication of people in real life, if you have to do it, then okay, they don't, you don't pull either.

About your boyfriend and more than 30 Hubei women, I use the same male, but I judge from the perspective of a man, your boyfriend may only be a man, not a man, if it is a need to socialize instead of cumming and sexting, there should be no need for 30 so many plus so many women, it is nothing more than play, but today he can play like this, tomorrow he may not be able to play how to play.

And I believe that there is a first time, there can be a second time, and there is nothing that is impossible and has not happened because the conditions are not sufficient.

So I'd suggest that it's better to be cautious and talk to your boyfriend and listen to what he has to say to you.

In addition, if he finds other women's feelings or whatever, that also shows you a little bit of a problem, that you are not attractive enough, you can't satisfy him, or so on, and you can only see what other people are like, but you can't see yourself.

I can only say that two people can love each other very much but can't be together all the time, separated from each other, different experiences, different encounters, we are not by each other's side, either of us may change, maybe she will become stranger, but as long as the two things have not changed, love and trust have not changed, I will not be afraid, because I know that everyone will try to slowly get closer to each other, so now you at least have a crisis in your relationship, it has become very dangerous, if you really want to go on with him, Seriously ask him, have your two things changed, and then if yes, believe him, if one day you find out that he is lying to you, then turn around and leave, don't be nostalgic, you want to know something about him, you can tell him that you want to know his life over there, want to meet his friends, and even want to see him, see how he is you.

You've been in love for five years, and you're still not at ease with him, I really don't know if you really love him, did you talk to him when you were in school and watched everyone fall in love? If you really love him, then please believe in him, and if you don't, give yourself a reason to leave him.

Neither men nor women can stand the loneliness of their hearts! You deserve it with more than one heart! Prevent it from happening!

Let's go together! Let's take a look after a while, if it's still like that, it's not worth it. That early letting go is the best option, and you can't continue to waste time on him.

If he just needs some retraction in your absence (of course, there is a limit), and you come, he doesn't need to use that way, then, it's nothing, be together more, and spend some time with your feelings.

Maybe you're thinking too much.

To love someone is to believe in each other.

Whether it's romance, or marriage, distrust is the biggest problem. We don't ask one person to trust another person right away to solve this kind of thing – because it's impossible. Rather, it is up to the counselor to find evidence to prove both the pros and cons on his own.

In other words, the world is not made up of black and white. When we can't forgive others for their mistakes, we first need to understand whether we have done the same wrongs. Moreover, the most advantageous solution is not to speculate on the problem yourself.

Speculative ideas are assumed by us because we focus on unnecessary details. Therefore, if the error is already in the premise thought, then our thinking will continue to be wrong. So doubt is the killer of the end of love!

Since you love him, trust him!

If you can, it's best to live together and go to work together.

Don't you think you're wasting your time with such a caring man.

Ask yourself, does he really love himself?If love, is that so?Or is this his special love for someone?Or is he waiting for you to break up with him?

Do you know your own boyfriend well enough, your past, and his past should be very clear, love, is easy to break and at the same time very strong, but this solidity is co-created. You have to know him more correctly, and let him know you more correctly.

In the past, he may not want to talk to you, but you should be more proactive in communicating, isn't it, liking is to make love stronger. Give it a try.

If you fail, let's end it, which means that you may really not be suitable, and when you look for the next relationship, you have to be more sure of each other.

Girls are fragile, and love is also fragile, and it is likely to be broken because of a little thing. But you should take care of it carefully to minimize the chance of breaking. Right?

Damn, I never cared much about my girlfriend. I've never specifically gone to good night.

If you don't lose it, of course it's a love word to coax you, don't hold on to it. Be considerate of him, if he is busy with work, you should be considerate, send him some snacks or something, the effect is much better, let him feel your love, I believe he will also value you, love is mutual.

And why does falling in love haunt you? Be rational, I think he's very good to you, I can't stand it if it's me, it's too annoying to play ** all the time, it's not the love period, it's your previous boyfriend who left a different impression on you. Take your time, it's only been four months.

He doesn't ask for 99 percent for you, in fact, 70 or more is good. You have to learn to be content.

Whether he loves you or not depends on your own understanding, everyone has their own experience and their own character, can't love in the way you like is not necessarily not to love you, there is no perfect love, if you want him to love you more, you need time to run in, you need to work hard to make yourself better, boys are very careless, take your time to observe the run-in, and then your heart will be clear!

It is recommended that you read a book called Men from Mars and Women from Venus. After reading it, you will understand, here is a brief explanation to you, you have to understand that an excellent man will not come to pester women, he always has his own needs to think about and things to do, for him women can be loved but definitely not pampered, so I think he should not be a person who will explain everything to you. Love is a matter of two people, you also have to learn to understand him, always thinking about how your former boyfriend treated you and how considerate he was to you, do you think it is fair to him?

I wish you happiness.

In the past, you suffered from love syndrome, and it was always someone else's standard or shadow who asked for your current partner, and after a long time, you will find that there is no one in the world who you are satisfied with.

You're normal, and I would, too. But boys think differently, I feel that he still cares about you very much, and if you communicate with him more, your mind may change.

That's his character. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

I've never been in a relationship. I don't know very well. But I don't think he loves you very much??

Ask. Is he rich and handsome?

You can see how often he contacts you without calling him.

What is said upstairs may not be, what kind of people are in his circle of friends This is very important.

I want to say that you haven't come out of the video of your boyfriend in office, and you have to show your ex's kindness to you, and insist on showing it in your current body, you have to know that everyone has a way to express love, don't care about you at all, won't coax you at all, won't approach your parents, won't care about your friends, the most important thing for 2 people together is trust, don't worry about the little things of sesame, don't think too much.

First of all, you should get to know him better, determine his personality and hobbies, and then think more about him from his point of view, don't always quarrel with him when he is busy, don't ask him to cooperate with your romance, you have to find a way to get along with him, so that you will be happier and happier. Look at your narrative and feel that he still loves you.

Communicate well and understand each other.

Love him and don't doubt his ......