I found out that I kind of like my boyfriend s brother

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to face it correctly, I don't know how long you've been with your boyfriend and what kind of relationship you've developed.

    If you've been dating for a long time, then he must have a lot of things you like and care about, don't let a momentary heartbeat mess up your normal relationship.

    I've been with someone for a long time, and I'm casual in all aspects, maybe your boyfriend is like this.

    If he had been replaced by his brother, the result would have been the same.

    In fact, it's normal for you to be like you in life, and you feel a little excited about your boyfriend's younger brother, brother, and friend. This feeling will gradually fade with the time of contact. Sometimes because the other party treats you as a friend, you will see a lot of things that you can't see as his girlfriend, so tell you, that feeling will slowly turn into happiness or disgust.

    Anyway, handle it carefully, if you don't handle it well, you may lose your wife and lose your soldiers.

    People must grow ...... in self-reflection

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ask your heart, who is happier to be with? Now you haven't had too much contact with his brother, maybe it's just a novelty, get in touch with him more, see people's hearts over time, and see if he is more suitable for you.

    Don't tell your boyfriend about it, stabilize him first, maybe after a long time, you will find that the person you love is still your current boyfriend, not a brother who can only give you a fresh moment.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is not good, it will be difficult for people to find out about you.

    The main thing is that strangeness produces a sense of mysterious impulse, and it is also a reproduction of the time when he met his brother, so the cerebral cortex is excited and will not like his brother.

    It would be nice for everyone to have more contact.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Things are the same.,You can choose whichever one.,But people are different, you can't choose his brother if you choose your brother.,You may be faint that he is too much like your boyfriend.,It's an illusion,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Even if they are twins, they look super similar, but there will always be differences in personality, pick whichever you like, don't worry about other problems, you will regret not being with the person you like, ......It's going to be a pity.

    I have a buddy who eloped with someone he liked, and although it was not the right thing to do, I understood and supported ......You make your own ideas and ......... hungry

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's definitely impossible with his brother, that's the truth. Unless you don't want both, ho ho, that's from the bottom of my heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Falling in love is not about buying things, you should clearly understand what kind of people you need to live with and control your emotions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The two of them are going to be forgotten, they look exactly the same anyway. Ha!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe it's not love, it's just your psychology that's at work.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to think about it. Don't break their hearts.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dizzy, this one is more fun, interesting. They all look the same, don't they? Then you should be playing with the wrong person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. What should I do if I find out that my brother likes boys? Kiss, don't break it directly, drink the younger brother on the side and communicate.

    Can. What should I do if I find out that my brother likes boys? Kiss, don't break it directly, drink the younger brother on the side and communicate.

    How to communicate. It's to ask my brother when he started liking boys.

    Last year, I didn't care so much about it, to see if I could correct it, but I must not communicate with him in a blunt tone.

    But today, I know that he likes my boyfriend's younger brother and their chat history.

    You'd better ask directly, spread it out and say it's better, and if you're an adult, it's better to spread it out.

    He was only 18 years old. When you become an adult, it is best to understand whether it is congenital or acquired.

    Maybe it's because he sees others do this, he learns from others, and he must understand clearly.

    If you know that it has already happened, you should not immediately object to the suggestion, but you can talk to him and tell him that you don't understand, but you are willing to listen to him and try to understand him, and I believe that he can tell you a lot of things and a lot of ideas.

    After all, you are his sister, and I feel that he needs the understanding of others, especially his family.

    I only found out today.

    You should calm down first, sort out your emotions and think about how to communicate with him before communicating, but you must not discriminate against him.

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