Why I don t have anything to say to strangers 30

In fact, this is determined by everyone's personality, and there is no good or bad. My personality is also this type, good friends can keep talking to each other, but they don't communicate with strangers, but I think if that stranger makes us feel cordial, we won't refuse not to communicate so much, just remember: we live for our own happiness, and we don't care about other people's eyeballs.

Hope you're having a good time.

Actually, I'm the same way, but it's changed a lot now. When you meet a stranger, the best way to open the topic is a title, for example, big brother, big sister, beauty, beautiful girl, etc., and so on to play freely, and then give a seat, and then ask your surname, and then casually ask the person who is **, a little comment, generally a few words, the other party will feel that you are more enthusiastic, and then will be more relaxed to talk to you.

Normal, because we have an innate defensive mentality, it's not a big deal.

You don't know people, of course you don't have anything to say, only when you are familiar with them can you talk to friends, and if you know everyone like you're familiar, people will say that you are not normal.

Me too, but no one else has anything to do with you...What's so sad! Could it be that a stranger will come running up and say why don't you talk to him?

Next time, take the initiative and explain your shortcomings to the other party, and then the topic will slowly open.

Me too, maybe it's slow heat, and when it's cooked, I'll say anything.

Everybody's not self-cooked.

It's just that you need to practice a lot.

An Jialiang's blood sample was found to be completely consistent with Ye Doujia's blood handprint, and An Jiahe was wanted. And An Jiamu was suspended for reflection. Nina filming in Shenzhen.

I stumbled upon Mei Xiangnan.

An Jiamu received Nina's ** and flew to Yuanqing Shenzhen alone. He knew that An Jiahe would definitely show up there.

An Jiahe found Mei's mother, who was taken to Shenzhen by Mei Xiangnan for hospitalization, and sure enough, he waited there for Zheng Tong, who visited Mei's mother, and followed Zheng Tong to the women's shelter. At the same time, An Jiamu, who was connected to Nina, was also on her way to the women's shelter.

An Jiahe knocked Zheng Tong unconscious, he knew that the death penalty was inevitable, and forced Mei Xiangnan with a gun, waiting for An Jiamu to appear. An Jiamu arrived. After An Jiahe explained everything to his younger brother and wife, he said the last sentence to Mei Xiangnan: I love you. Then he raised a gun to commit suicide.

A few months later, An Jiamu could no longer hide her complicated feelings for Mei Xiangnan, hoping that she could return to Xiamen and the two could live again. Mei Xiangnan rejected him. After a few months, Mei Xiangnan married Zheng Tong.

A year later, An Jiamu died in the line of duty; On the same day of the same month, Mei Xiangnan gave birth to a baby boy in Shenzhen.

When dealing with strangers, women should still prefer the principle of "don't talk to strangers". Women should have the ability to "dance with wolves", but that is not something that can be practiced overnight, and it is not achieved overnight.

As a man, not many people dare to boast that they can be comfortable in all kinds of environments, and as a relatively vulnerable woman, they should learn to protect themselves for the following reasons:

1.Safety hazards: "Dances with wolves" increases the risk of assault or harassment for women. While most people are good, there are also many people who are malicious or criminal. Fierce Delay.

2.Disseminating personal information: "Dances with Wolves" may leak personal information, and when used maliciously, it may cause unnecessary trouble to individuals and families.

3.Waste of time: "Dances with wolves" can take up women's time and energy, which can affect their daily lives and work.

4.Social etiquette: "Dances with wolves" may be considered impolite or inappropriate in today's social etiquette, especially in certain settings (e.g., business meetings, formal events).

5.Mental health: Some women may experience discomfort or lack self-confidence in the face of strangers, so they need to avoid unnecessary interactions to maintain their mental health.

In conclusion, for women, "Dances with Wolves" should be treated with caution, especially in unfamiliar environments and social situations. It is recommended that women should be vigilant, stay vigilant, and follow the principles of social etiquette and personal safety to protect the safety and health of themselves and their families.

With the rapid development of society, communication has become more and more convenient, and people have paid more attention to social relationships. However, we still need to pay attention to the problem of socializing with strangers in reality. Next, this article will explain why you should not talk to strangers.

1.Security issues.

Safety is one of the most basic needs of human life. Talking to strangers can be intimidating. Once the other party has malicious intent, it will bring us unnecessary trouble.

With the advent of the Internet era, there are more and more fraudsters. If it is not necessary, we should try to avoid contact with strangers, so as not to leak our privacy and even get bodily harmed.

2.Social estrangement.

In today's society, with the improvement of people's living standards, people's classes and identities are divided into each other. Everyone has their own social circle and positioning. In an increasingly complex society, contact with strangers can lead to social isolation and even unnecessary social problems.

3.Break through your personal space.

People feel like their space is their own private domain. If others do not allow themselves or break through their personal space, it will lead to psychological discomfort for themselves. People want to enjoy their time off and connect with familiar friends or family.

Conversations with strangers can affect this private sphere and are detrimental to our own sensory experience.

4.Waste of time and energy.

Communicating with strangers is different from communicating with friends, it often requires more preparation and thinking, and it is more expensive to communicate with strangers. It can take much more time and effort to talk to them than it takes to talk to friends. In terms of time and energy costs, the benefits of communication may be small and not worth the cost.

To sum up, talking to strangers is often an unwanted act. Except for necessary situations such as daily life and public transportation, we should try to avoid communicating with strangers to ensure our safety and experience. However, when it comes to social activities, expanding social circles, etc., we can connect with strangers in an appropriate way.

No matter what the situation is, we should keep ourselves safe and communicate with others in moderation in order to enjoy life better.

<> "Everyone's upbringing experience is different, which leads to different personalities. Some people like to talk about things when they encounter them, and the advantage of talking is that they can quickly come out of their grief. Some people don't like to talk about things when they encounter them, but choose to digest them themselves.

But for people who can't get rid of themselves and don't want to talk, the primary reason for this is the environment you are in. Maybe the reluctance to open up to others is because there is something vulnerable inside of you, and once you say it, you will lose your image in the eyes of others, and you are afraid that you will fall into passivity. If you close the door of your heart, it means that you are running away, and you need to face it bravely.

Most are reluctant to open up to those around them. You are reluctant to open up to the people around you, it may be because they don't really have your trust, you don't trust them in your heart, you may have some concerns, you are afraid of being ridiculed, you are afraid of not being understood, maybe you would rather digest it yourself than tell it. Our living standards and family conditions are similar, and most of the circles coincide, and it is easy for me to open my heart to her when I meet this kind of friend, and I will talk to her from the bottom of my heart, and I will not get tired of getting along, so I will tell her a lot of life and study troubles.

If you don't want to talk to others about these things and have a bad impact on yourself, then you have to find a way to comfort and regulate yourself, and don't cause harm to your body and mind. Trust strangers, don't trust familiar people or people around you. Two forced youth:

Trust everyone. If the subject is just an ordinary youth, or an ordinary young person who is serious and nervous, such as only trusting the people around him, it is actually normal, I don't think there is much of a problem.

But for the friends around us, it will be easier for us to express ourselves to them when they understand us, empathize with us, and give practical advice to them. So it's not pathological to be difficult to open up to the people around you, just because the people around you have different ideas from you.

You don't want to talk to strangers. This shows that you are a kind person and a person who does not have a strong sense of security.

Say you're a kind person because you define a stranger by "friend." Those who can treat strangers as friends must be kind people. I believe that you will not lack courtesy in your relationship with him, because you respect her.

You think he's supposed to be a good guy, but you can't be sure. Because he is a stranger to you, you don't know him.

From an early age, our parents taught their children not to talk to strangers. In the process of growing up, I repeatedly accepted the idea that the heart of harm is indispensable, and the heart of prevention is indispensable. In the process of interacting with people, you will also be educated that you know people and faces, but you don't know your heart, and you can't throw away all your heart.

All in all, you don't want to talk to strangers because you're afraid of exposing your heart to everyone and keeping yourself a certain mystery, which will make you feel safer. This is said from a psychological point of view.

Physiologically, it's your introverted personality, which is related to genetics, and the difference from the above is that although you don't want to talk to strange friends, you are willing to listen to strange friends. Because I don't like to talk to strangers, most of them are genetic, and most of them are due to the fact that they have said wrong words and brought harm to themselves. As a result, they are afraid of lying.

And strangely enough, the more afraid you are to speak, the easier it is to say the wrong thing. As a result, you have developed the character you are now. From being afraid to talk to strangers, it slowly develops into not wanting to talk to strangers, even though you see them as friends, and this friend is only symbolic.

Actually, the front door said that you are a kind person. So you don't need to be afraid of anything. It doesn't matter if you say the wrong thing, kindness can be felt with your heart, just as you feel like you are friends with your stranger. So be bold and say it! You'll have more friends.

If you knock down a stranger who claims to be a doctor, Chaku, and say that you may have some kind of disease, your first reaction will definitely be not to believe it. ......However, in order to clarify the truth, you need to deal with and solve the problem through the following three measures: first, protect yourself, second, clarify the identity of the other party, and finally properly solve the problem according to the identity of the other party.

First of all, you must protect yourself and avoid being fooled.

When a stranger comes to tell them that he may have a disease, the first reaction of most people must be that the other person has bad intentions, and this kind of thinking is natural. ......At this time, you must first take measures to protect yourself and avoid being hurt by the other party because ......of your credulityIn this way, you can effectively protect yourself and avoid being deceived during the next period of dealing with this matter.

Then, you have to clarify the identity of the other person.

Whether the other party's statement is true or not is directly related to its identity. ......If the other party is indeed a doctor, then what he said may be true, and he should pay attention to it. ......And if that person wasn't a doctor at all, his words would definitely be fake.

Therefore, the most important thing in this matter is to clarify the identity of the other party, so that you can provide the most powerful support for yourself to deal with this matter properly, and finally, you should properly solve the problem according to the identity of the other party.

Once you know who the other person is, you need to take steps to deal with the ...... properlyIf the other person is really a doctor and is reminding him out of kindness, then he should accept the advice positively** and thank the other person for his help ......And if the other party is not a doctor at all, you should stay away from him to avoid affecting your good mood.

<> "If you don't dismantle the film, you know how to chat, and you don't have anything to talk to strangers?"

1. Prepare a few fixed topics.

In addition to weather, traffic, and cities, these are popular topics. You can also talk about hot news and horoscopes.

Your fixed topic should be adjusted to the different ages, genders, and social identities of the strangers in front of you. He laughs.

2. Find intersections.

For unprepared meetings, you can talk about the scene, if you are having a dinner, the dinner itself is your intersection, why do you appear at the same time?

The friends you know together are your intersection, the land you are stepping on at the moment, the city you are in, is your intersection.

3. I don't know how to answer.

If you don't know how to catch the other person's words before the trip, you repeat the last sentence of the other person in a questioning tone, and the other party will naturally think that you are interested in what he said and will explain it again.