Why can t I swear in front of strangers?

In fact, when you swear, the people you face are defenseless, you can be unscrupulous, in the face of strangers, you will have a sense of resentment from the heart, unwilling to show yourself too much in front of others, if you do it to everyone swearing, then you will become relatively simple, anyone can guess you Men can't be completely hard, sometimes there is a soft side, where to show their temper is very important, If you swear in front of someone you don't know well, it's easy to be offended, but to someone who knows you well, it's not a big deal to say swear occasionally, and you think your real self must be the kind of swearing? In fact, according to what you said, your reaction speed is still quite fast, subconsciously you know what to say and what not to say, in fact, you can slowly adapt to yourself in this way, the simple way is to talk less, see more, see what others say, how others do, but not necessarily learn from others, understand others at the same time is to thicken a wall for yourself.

I think you're wrong! Talking dirty doesn't mean you're more manly at all! I still advise you not to swear, because if you don't know it, you may lose a good job, you may lose a true friend, you may lose your image in the hearts of others!

You're not very old, I had similar thoughts to you when I was very young.

When others swear, it's just because he has low quality, low self-cultivation, and no tutor.

If you know this person, then you can choose not to be friends with him. Stay away from him as much as you can, distance yourself from him. As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. If you make friends with this kind of person, then you will definitely swear casually in the future.

If you don't know him at all. Then if he didn't insult you with swear words, insult your words. Then I can only say, stay away from her, don't meddle in your affairs, and make yourself a fuss.

Of course, if you are a burly man with a sense of justice. Then you can use your fists to intimidate her. Of course, it's not for you to actually punch him, just scare him.

Let him keep his mouth a little cleaner.

Roll your eyes and don't bother to pay attention to him, it's too low-quality, what should I do if people think you are the same kind of people when you come back.

There is a distance between people, and the distance determines the bottom line of your principles, the degree of patience and acceptance.

For example, if you keep a very long distance from a person, and you are particularly vigilant, even if this person says very well to you, you will feel that he is very disgusted, and you may feel that he is annoyed, in short, you will be annoyed when you see him.

The most direct embodiment of the release is questioning, you say swear and he will question your character, question whether there is no quality, and then be more embankment, and pull the distance farther.

And as the distance got closer, the vigilance became less and less, and this is when he began to think more, "Oh. It turned out that the scolding was because of his habits, not against me, but because we had a good relationship and were open together.

Can strangers compare to friends?

I don't care so much with my friends, and I'm used to listening to it, and strangers who always like to swear will think that this person's quality is too low, and swearing is a bad habit, which is understandable