What should I do if I fall in love with someone I can t love? He has a family, and I thought he was

Give up early and get rid early, otherwise in the end, the family will be ruined and the hearts of several people will be broken. I feel that I am divorcing if I can't get along with my husband, so I am afraid that my husband will not be able to accept it.

Then you can be his confidante. Of course, it is necessary to keep it confidential, and not let the families of both sides find out, otherwise it will hurt everyone.

..Forehead. I want to say that for the sake of your family, for the sake of his family, I think it is better for you to remain good friends.

Because maybe you will be with him in the future, and he is not what you imagined, so don't you regret it again? So you should cherish what is in front of you.

Now that he is a husband and you are a wife, you should live your life.

Don't be stupid, he won't give up his family for you, even if he likes you.

If you don't get results, why bother to leave him and go somewhere else, and slowly you will forget how you feel about him, be kind to yourself, don't be stupid, or you will be bruised all over your body.

Then don't see each other for a while, calm each other, and think carefully about whether happiness in this life can only be given by the other person.

If so, then against all odds, choose to be together.

If not, then it would be good to stop at the precipice.

You're sick, you can die, you're going to die.

The gods and horses are all floating clouds, and the shore is ...... when they turn back

The cutting is still messy, and the contact is broken as soon as possible.

What about your family? What about his family?

Tell your husband. He will teach you.

Summary. I fell in love with a woman with a family, he also loved me, and I loved him, but there was no way to be together, if the two love for a long time, how could it be in the morning and twilight, there are many things in this world that cannot be both, including love and opportunities. I think that if you really love each other very much, then don't show it out, two people understand each other and love each other silently.

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I fell in love with a woman with a family, he also loved me, and I loved him, but there was no way to be together, if the two love for a long time, how could it be in the morning and twilight, there are many things in this world that cannot be both, including love and opportunities. I think that if you really love each other very much, then don't show it out, two people understand each other and love each other silently.

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I fell in love with a woman with a family, he also loved me, and I loved him, but there is no way to be together, kiss you and resend the question you want to ask.

I've got you covered.

On Valentine's Day, I gave my girlfriend a ring, and I have been explaining to me that it is not fake and can be verified, I explained to her all night, but I didn't expect him to just reply, do you mean that he only replied to the message you sent on Valentine's Day.

How long have you been dating?

If this happens, how can I coax her! I thought about it a lot, he probably didn't mean it that way.

The pro-ring ring is for you to go to the diamond ring shop.

In this case, you still have to coax it.

Dear because judging from the messages he sent, he was already angry.

What did you say when you gave her the ring?

Your so-called love, are you sure it's love? Isn't it a primitive impulse? There are many kinds of love, there is primitive instinctive love, there is emotional messy love, that is, rational love, and more serious love.

Of course, there are some kinds of love in the name of love, but it is a matter of fornication, which we may all understand.

From my personal point of view, true love is universal salvation, is righteous and bright, and not brings harm to people, whether it is a person or an outsider, so if you love someone, you must love his current life, and don't ruin his life, his lover or even him because of selfish love. Love is a kind of responsibility, you fall in love with a family person, although I can't say for sure that it must be your responsibility, but I know that he must also have some mistakes, such as maybe having an affair with you and not knowing how to cut it off, etc.

It's just that no matter what, your feelings must be restrained, this is not real love, it's just that you haven't met the right person yet, you should also leave space for your heart, and wait for your future him, right? Love is deep and hard to collect, I still suggest that you stop here, and you can still have beautiful thoughts for each other, do you say?

In fact, people will fall in love for a long time.

Come to think of it, it's like this.

Human beings are really a very strange animal, they have a lot of affection when they are affectionate, and they hurt a lot when they are ruthless.

So, don't be too affectionate, and don't be too ruthless. Maybe it's good to be away for a while. This kind of love of yours is not necessarily love, it is just a manifestation of your amorousness. If you love someone, you have to love all of them, and your existence at this time will only ruin their life.

At the beginning of people, there is still a certain truth in "the nature of goodness", otherwise enemies will also be released because of love, strangers will also be close friends because of love, and people who are destined will also fall in love because of love.

The feeling of affection, love and hate is only discovered after experiencing many things together. Hurry up and make a spot for yourself. Keep in mind when you leave; No, you will remember me and you deeply, but occasionally you will think of me, you.

Ambiguity is the biggest harm to a woman, because that man or you can't afford to give you a good home for this beautiful relationship in your heart. In fact, there is a cliff between you, he is looking at you, you are also looking at him, if you and he both take this step, the two of you will fall into the abyss of pain, and the people on both sides of the cliff will be sad and sad. Now that God has separated you with a precipice, it is better to go back and be with your family.

Treat him as one of the fondest memories. I've had this experience too, we're no longer in the same city, but I've always had a place in my heart and he's still a good memory of my youth.

When you cut off that relationship, time will tell how right you are.

There are two cases:1You love him, he doesn't love you :

You might as well give up! Someone else has a home2You love him and he loves you :

It's better to give up! Don't end up emptying people and money, and those who have a family still indulge their feelings, either lustful, "open", or veteran.

3.You love him, he loves you, but he wants to turn you back: then you have to be careful, either let go or wait for trouble!

4.You love him, he loves you, but he keeps his distance from you: be friends! But also dangerous! After that, keep your distance for a while, and then face it well when the relationship fades, or you empathize and don't fall in love.

It's your business that you love her, and the key is whether she loves you or not. Leave aside whether your love is moral, whether it hurts other people's feelings and family. What kind of foundation your love is based on is the key, and this must be thought out and figured out!

Otherwise, one day, she will tell you that she is in love with someone else again.

To tell you the truth, there are thousands of roads in the world, why do you have to take such a risky road by yourself.

It's better to forget!! Good luck!!

Don't be painful, child, there is no one right or wrong in feelings, first of all, if you fall in love with him if it is your wishful thinking, it is your fault, divert your attention, think about such a result, if you love him, don't cause harm to him and his family, who hasn't had a crush on someone else, but why is the crush so beautiful, so you can watch from afar and bless him.

If he and you like both sides, you don't have to be sad and sad about such a man, a person who is not responsible for the family only cares about himself, you may be a beautiful passerby in his heart, he will not destroy his family in order to destroy it, so look away, do something meaningful, young, we need to try a lot of things, if not, go out on a trip, see the outside world, how happy.

Finally, I advise you to cherish yourself, the people who love you the most are your parents, think more about your family, and be filial to your parents.

First of all, you have to see whether their family is harmonious, and then you have to see whether they are in love with each other. Look at them again if they have children. If they are harmonious and loving, then you better let go.

Also, the most important thing is whether the person you love loves you or not. If that person doesn't feel good for you, you should let it go. If they are not affectionate, and the person you love is not resistant to you, then be brave and chase it.

Also, if their child is still very young, just wait, it is very important for the child's development. You are not in a hurry at this time.

Love is a dose of poison, perhaps when you are addicted to it. The medicine is the strongest. However, if each other can let go of psychological barriers and boundaries.

You can accept everything about her past, and promise not to revisit her past. If she loves you too, then you keep going. It is not easy for a person to have true love in his life.

Love can happen regardless of time, place, and conditions. Because, she will not be happy when she lives with someone she doesn't love. But if she doesn't love you, then you can only choose to wait silently, or stay away from the most sincere happiness she gives her.

I hope that people who truly love each other can be together regardless of everything. Bless you!

I don't think you have to be restrained, love is love, and convergence means to be wronged, and that's great, I can't do it.

There are many people who fall in love with a family, and what you have to do is to see if he loves you or not, to see if he is willing to be with you, to give up marriage for you.

If he's just going to play with you, then you don't have to waste any more time with him.

What do you say that love is righteous and bright It's not a that brings harm to people Let's actually do it Okay In that case, it's not that I'm uncomfortable.

Even if it's uncomfortable, you have to choose a way that you can accept, and you can't give up without even working hard.

I won't analyze the meaning of love When two people feel right, they will be together, and if they are not crazy, they will be old.

Maybe he's going to have a lot of obstacles, a lot of obstacles, depending on whether he's willing or not, and what you're going to do is not to force him, but to help him.

You and he first have to think about a question: Are you willing to give up your former home and love? If there is the slightest unwillingness, it is better to give up decisively.

Secondly, you have to objectively recall: Was the beginning of your original love also very beautiful? If you are married with love, then don't expect that your current love will not mature into a dull marriage like your existing love in the future.

Again, ask yourself, will you regret giving up what you have?

No one can give you a right answer, I wish you happiness!

There is nothing wrong with love in the world, but it is not right for you to fall in love with someone with a family. If he doesn't divorce him emotionally, you can develop normally, if he keeps saying that he loves you, but he still has his own family, in this case, you shouldn't be in love with her, that will make you lose your mind and do some stupid things, the more you can't get it, the more you want it, and such an escalation will only hurt yourself and others. Forget about him and start trying to love a better man.

To love her is not necessarily to get her, but to want her to be good. Respect her, bless her, and wish her happiness in her life.

Destroying her family and taking her for yourself is not true love, but a sign of selfishness. Not a gentleman's doing.

You think, there are too many people and things in this world that people love! Can't it all be your own? No matter how good it is, it is also a famous flower and a person.

For example, if you see someone driving a particularly good stool on the street, or someone wearing a nice outfit and likes it, can you grab it? No matter how good I am, it's also a manuscript thing. What is it to rob other people's things?

The one that really belongs to you may be better than this one, but you haven't met it yet.

Don't worry, it takes fate to meet, be patient and look for and wait for that happiness that belongs to you!

I wish you all the best and a happy life!

Love is subtle, and the good feelings that people generate are also subtle. It is not only necessary to distinguish what love is psychologically, but also who is the person you really love. Because after determining the relationship between husband and wife, it is not only a choice of love, but also a choice of loyalty.

It is also necessary to distinguish the good impression of the other party because of the attraction of charm. Because sometimes such a good impression is only temporary. However, due to the different ideas in people's psychology, people with different charms will have a good impression, and the same two people will notice each other's goodness after spending more time together.

Some men fall in love with a married woman, what should they do?

It is not good to use the definition of love to warn yourself that it is impossible to be with the other person and not to do things that violate morality.

For those who have a good impression but can't get it, the best choice is to gradually forget, and you must not be impulsive and become a moral betrayer.

Think about whether you are just attracted to the other person's appearance. There is no real in-depth understanding of the specific situation of the other party. Didn't even understand if the love you generated was just a momentary impulse to be good?

Love is the relationship between the two parties, and you can't just rely on your own wishful thinking to do unrequited love, which can only be a bamboo basket for nothing.

After confirming the above points, if it is true that you are just impulsive, then it will be easy to do. Reduce the amount of time you spend together, or devote yourself to another thing, enrich your life, find a new partner, and start a new relationship.

If the likability is really strong, then you should also restrain yourself. If the other person does not have a crush on you and is unlikely to give up on his marriage, then interrupt such thoughts as soon as possible. Because it is only yourself who hurts by waiting, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

In short, in terms of love, we must not violate morality first, because the traditional concept of morality threatens the harmony of other people's families, and it is not correct to do so. Secondly, we should be rational about our emotional problems and don't act impulsively.