How does modern understanding of silence is golden ?

Silence is a communication strategy that Kim mainly refers to. But to use this strategy well, the premise is that you must be able to speak, you must speak when you should speak, and you must speak well, and when you should not speak, you must not speak, do not say a word, this is the real silence is golden.

Some people think that silence is a kind of wisdom, because people have two ears and one mouth, that is, they should listen more and talk less. It makes sense that if you talk too much, you will lose, and the more you talk, the more loopholes you have. Illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth, which is also a reason for silence.

The silence of the earth gives birth to the harvest of autumn, the silence of the eagle contains a powerful impact, and the silence of winter is dedicated to a spring of purple and red. There is an old saying: "A gentleman accumulates thick and thins his hair."

Without the accumulation of little by little, without tireless hard work, how can there be the joy of the successful, how can there be the cheers of the winners? People often only see the learned man talking eloquently, but ignore the obscurity of his hard work; People tend to praise only the ease of conversation, but underestimate the thinking that is brewing in silence.

Formal stillness does not mean stagnation of thinking. On the contrary, deep thoughts are precisely the seemingly silent thought process. Some people like to talk about it and say their immature thoughts too early.

In this way, for himself, he lost the opportunity to think further and improve, so that the ideas that could have been valuable slipped away casually.

Silence is not to teach people to remain silent, but to hope that people will think deeply and think twice before speaking. Let us have more quality conversation in our lives and less aimless and banal gossip. Let the spark of thinking shine in silence, and let the art of language be sublimated in thinking.

Silence is an option, the best option after weighing the pros and cons. For a long time, there was an attitude that silence was golden.

Silence is not the same as silence, it is a process of accumulation, brewing, and waiting for a sudden outburst. It's like pulling a bow to charge power, so that when the arrow is fired, it can be powerful and soar into the sky.

Especially people who are not very eloquent often use silence as an excuse for not speaking. In the past, there was a classmate who was like this, he didn't dare to practice on stage, so he said that in fact, I think silence is golden. I told him that silence is not gold when silence should not be, that silence is iron, it is plastic.

Silence is a communication strategy that Kim mainly refers to. But to use this strategy well, the premise is that you must be able to speak, you must speak when you should speak, and you must speak well, when you should not speak, you must not speak, do not say a word, this is the real silence is pure Ling imitation gold.

This sentence has three meanings:

1. If you don't say it, you say it. In addition to verbal and written language, there is also body language, not to speak, that is, to close the trembling mouth and not open it, in fact, it also sends a signal to do fiber.

2. Don't talk nonsense that shouldn't be said, you will lose too much talk.

3. Not to mention more powerful. When you need to be wary of others, or when you have a shocking effect, you can say that silence is golden.

Silence is golden, and the phrase "Yuan Chajue" is familiar to everyone, and it has not even become a mantra for many people. This was said by the Scottish philosopher Thomas Carlyle. The greatest contribution that philosophers have made to the world, and the greatest contribution of ordinary people like us who do not have civilized minds is to speak in small ways.

It would be a waste of the good intentions of the sages to treat silence as a consolation after ridicule or remorse.

Silence applies to people in any state of hail, especially those who are ambitious and humble. A complacent person is often sprinkled in front of others, and his mouth is like a river, and at this time his heart is only satisfied and vain. But the world changes, and what will happen after the passage of time, no one has enough confidence to challenge the arrangement of fate.

At this time, perhaps every word spoken will become a shackle for him until he suffocates. Naturally, people with low status are not qualified to talk endlessly. The humiliation of a person's words reverberates in every word spoken.

The shame of being ignored and the lack of one's own ability are enough to make people feel ashamed.

We should try and remain silent forever. This is a difficult task that requires a lifetime of enlightenment and practice.

When we are babies, every word that comes out of our mouth makes our families happy, and it doesn't take long for us to learn, but when we do learn to speak, it takes our whole lives to learn to be silent. Absurd fate, pure truth.