In the emotional world, are you willing to be the one who pleases?

When faced with love, some people are very free and easy, dare to love and hate. Once the other party doesn't love him anymore, then he can also turn around and leave. But there are some people who are very humble in the face of love.

If you find that the other person doesn't like you, then you will keep pleasing the other person, hoping that the other person will like you in the end. But often this is ineffective. Because liking someone can't be forced in the first place, a person won't like each other because of the flattery of others.

So, in the world of feelings, are you willing to be that pleaser? I won't. First of all, I know that pleasing you can't be exchanged for love.

1. I know that pleasing you can't get love

A person has feelings for another person, not because the other person pleases him, but because he likes it from the bottom of his heart. There is no reason for this liking, and it is not transferred by the will of others. Therefore, if you want to be a pleaser, then you have to be mentally prepared, if the other party does not like you, then you will not be able to win the affection if you talk well.

2. Both parties in love should be equal

Both parties in love should be equal, and one party cannot love very humblely, while the other party can accept it very freely. In love, both lovers have to give equally, which is respect for love and respect for lovers. If one party is a pleaser and the other party readily accepts, then such a love is a spoiled love, and such a love will not last long.

3. Pleasing the other party will only make the other party less value themselves

In our daily life, if someone pleases us, then we must feel that the other person has a purpose. This kind of purposeful approach is generally unaccustomed to it, so in the face of other people's flattery, I will generally be disgusted. In the same way, in love, if one partner will often please the other party, then the other party will feel that he is amazing and will not cherish the relationship, so he will not get the love of the other party.

Therefore, I will not be a pleaser in love.

No, I think in the world of feelings, two people should be equal, and the one who blindly pleases must be very tired.

I don't want to, because I feel very humble like that, and it will lose me and make me undignified. This will also make the other party gain an inch and lack respect for yourself.

I don't want to, I don't think it's necessary to please feelings. If in a relationship, you are always a pleaser, then you will be very tired, two people are equal in love, there is no need to deliberately be too good.

I don't want to, because my self-esteem is still quite strong, and I can try my best to solve things by myself, and I won't please others if I can.

Willing. Because the emotional world is very caring, there is always someone who wants to be a pleaser, so for the sake of feelings, I am willing to be the pleaser.

I don't think there is a need for a pleaser in a relationship at all, because I think it's a derogatory term for the word pleaser, maybe only I think so, but I think the word pleasing itself means humble and low, so I think that whether it is a relationship or life, we should avoid being a pleaser, although in life, we may be a pleaser for work, but in the relationship should be equal, so there should not be a pleaser.

In ancient China, there was a word to describe the harmony and happiness of husband and wife, this word is called respecting each other, because in that era, the status of women was relatively low, so at that time women often acted as a pleasing person, but I think that in marriage, we should respect each otherOnly by respecting each other can there be no problems in life and two people can go further.

But I think there are a lot of feelings now that are very reluctant, because for them it will be more rewarding to do this, for example, the girl who chases the girl first, at this time the girl will not be particularly good to the boy, because after all, the boy takes the initiative, so the boy often chooses one to be a pleaser, so I think this is a more humble example of love. Another example is a girl who is chased by a boy, but girls don't treat boys badly because of this, and often love more than boys, so I think this is a lucky thing for boys, and no one will be a pleaser for anyone.

So I think in life, we don't need anyone to be the pleaser of whom, because we tend to love each other more because of something, and we must respect our other half moreBecause I know that being a people's pleaser is a very tiring thing, and I didn't stick to it anyway.

I think so, because in a relationship, two people need each other, and the same goes for each other.

No, I think two people in a relationship are mutual, and it can't be described as flattering, so it doesn't make sense.

I think I am, and only by pleasing each other in my love life can both people feel happy.

I'm a real pleaser sometimes, and if I make someone angry myself.

In my opinion, there will always be a pleaser in a relationship, and there are very few feelings between two people who support each other.