Should this kind of love continue?

Updated on society 2024-05-14
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Girl, first of all, you have to figure out what you want. What you want is happiness, and you want happiness for both of you. Secondly, you have to figure out your own situation, your situation is not bad, not to mention that after marriage, the two of you live, the girl's family does not need to deliver too valuable things when she gets married, and the most important thing is that his father is also thinking about so many things for his son, and he is thinking about his children, every parent is the same, I believe that if your mother knows that his family is not good, she will also consider it, you say.

    So, look away, move forward, everything will pass, everything will be relieved, what you have to do is to use your sincerity to give him happiness, to make his parents believe that you are happy. Of course, don't be in a hurry, be steady, take your time, if you don't take it to heart when you look at your face, be generous, then it's your elders after all. I believe that no one's heart is iron, I wish you all a long time and happiness together :

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Whether a marriage is happy or not depends on the quality of life of two people after they come together. For example, if the quality of life of two people is single and x and y respectively, the combined quality of life is (x+y+m) is a variable, which is the improvement value of the quality of life brought about by the union of two people. A truly successful combination is one in which (x+y+m) 2 is both greater than x and greater than y.

    Consider m first, if m is positive, then the combination is promising, if m is negative, then the union is a failure from the start.

    Then consider the relationship between x and y: x and y are equal, which is the so-called "door to door" situation, then as long as m is positive, both people will feel happier than before.

    Conversely, considering that the difference between x and y is very large, for example, one is 10 and the other is 2, then you can imagine that a considerable value of m is required to ensure a successful combination.

    Brother, to be honest, the difference between the X and Y values of your two families is not very big, if your girlfriend gets married, she can become your virtuous helper and create happiness together. The quality of life of both people can be improved, and such a marriage is also successful.

    If you really love her, don't give up easily, plan for the future with her, and have a shaped plan so that you can convince your parents. After all, the primary concern of parents is the happiness of their children.

    I wish you lovers to be married.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Parents always want their children to live a better life, so his father will investigate your affairs! In fact, I hope that my son will be happier in his future life! This is the difficulty of parents! If you want to be someone else's daughter-in-law, learn to be considerate!

    After getting married, there are still a lot of things to face! It's not as easy as you think!

    The important thing is that he is good to you, if his parents are good to you and he is bad to you! Even if you get married, this kind of life is very miserable!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What do you mean by today's door-to-door door?! It doesn't mean that your family's property is right with your power. It refers to the environment in which you grew up.

    These factors are inevitable, and the environment in which a person grows up creates all the characters that he has now. Personalities are different, and all views on things, things, life, and so on are different. Do you feel like you resonate together?

    Can you communicate rationally about anything? That's the key!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The answer above is good and there is no denying it.

    But don't forget my answer.

    Untested love is glass.

    What has been tried, but in the end, it is the crystal that is separated by external factors or its own factors.

    But after the test, no matter what the factors can perpetuate, alas, is the diamond (eternal), love is to tolerate many things.

    Hopefully one day you can say it to your lover

    I have a very valuable diamond, do you have it?

    I also want your lover to say to you.

    Yes I hope that your alas will continue o( o....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is normal for parents to care about their daughter-in-law's (son-in-law)'s family situation. You don't have to be too sensitive! His parents didn't overdo it, and they didn't mean to insult you!

    There are more lovers who have more family obstacles than you, you have such good conditions, don't give up the opportunity to be happy easily!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are married to your husband, not his family, and his father just wants you to be happy in the future, and your family background is not bad, as long as there are no conflicts involving money between you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, you have to be clear about whether you like your boyfriend or not, and how much you like it;

    Secondly, you have to be clear that this is a difficult road.

    Furthermore, study the boyfriend's parents and attack the heart. This requires the cooperation of your boyfriend, what the old man likes and dislikes, and after understanding it thoroughly, go to the other party's old man's work.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a tough question

    Just like me, my girlfriend is a lawyer, and her annual salary increases by 30-50% a year, and her parents are very bs, and I am just a small civil servant.

    But my girlfriend still wants to be with me.

    My girlfriend said to me: it's the two of us who are in love, not them!

    The most important thing about marriage is whether the two parties are harmonious, not about the family background!

    What kind of society is now, I don't think this kind of problem is very important!

    Of course, parents also have a lot of meaning to themselves in their lives, just see how you gg settle them!

    If you insist on being with you, I don't think the other party's parents will maliciously stop you!

    Empathy

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What you like is his daughter.

    Although her father invaded your privacy.

    You should understand too.

    Parents who do not want their children to find their true belonging.

    I don't want my children to suffer.

    You should understand him.

    I wish you and your girlfriend a speedy marriage.

    Cherish this love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Being together is a matter of two people.

    Besides, as long as you work your own, let others see that your future is a great thing.

    Don't break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know much, but I do know that true love can go beyond material satisfaction. True love will not be shaken no matter what experience is experienced, I believe that the times are different, as long as we are happy, our parents will be happy. I don't know if you guys really want to love !!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's just the in-laws, it's not the two of you!

    The lives of the two of you have nothing to do with other people, as long as you are happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My girlfriend and I were like this when we first got together, our parents didn't agree, my parents thought my girlfriend was not good, her parents thought our home was too far away, I was in Guangdong, she was in Henan, the world was far away, but we all had to be together, my girlfriend said as long as she was with me, the others would be ignored.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you should be angry.

    But it's a bit too much.

    I don't think you have a very deep relationship.

    It's true. My ex-boyfriend once said this to me.

    Why can't I grow up with you?

    Growing up together in the same place.

    Be happy together and spend your childhood together.

    Love doesn't care about family, it doesn't care so much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    His parents made mistakes, why did you break up with him?

    Kid, are you impulsive?

    If you love each other, you should insist on it, and your parents' opinions should be taken into account, and you should not hurt your parents, but love is the most important thing.

    Why do you say that you will divide it, don't you love each other?

    I don't understand what you think?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If together, it takes a lot of energy to cope with his parents.

    What is the purpose of getting married? In order to "cope with his parents".

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't think about anything in the last half a year, don't Dali gg, talk about it after the test.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    yes, if only he loved you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's up to you to do this, and he's on his knees...

    Seems to love you very much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The door-to-door talk is about the economic foundation and life experience between the two children, and the difference in life experience and growth environment will indeed have a great impact on the personality of the two people, and even affect the emotional development of the two people. If both children can be confident that they can understand the gap and that they are willing to support each other, the relationship can continue, even if the parents disagree.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    People say that love is free, and in the new era, people are no longer so particular about the portal relationship, but is it really not at all?

    If you don't have the right door to fall in love, it's best not to continue, otherwise the gateway to the south is lower, you will be discriminated against, and there will be a lot of family conflicts after marriage, which will overwhelm you and live a very painful life.

    Sometimes it's not that the other party really looks down on you, but because of the problem of living habits, because the other party's family conditions are better, her living conditions, and her thoughts are completely different from those of her family conditions, because the height of the station is different, the views are different, and the thoughts are different, so many views and values are different.

    It's not that you can be together forever if you fall in love now, you can try to stay together for a while, and see that in fact, there are many contradictions between the two of you, but it's just because you are far away at the beginning and can't see it.

    For example, the living habits are completely different, and the way of doing things is not the same, the family is poorer, his pattern is relatively smaller, and when he encounters something, his thinking problems are also different, which are all brought to his bones by the original family, and there is no way to change it.

    If the other person happens to look down on these problems, then there will be more and more conflicts between you.

    Of course, sometimes you can try it, after all, not all people are like this, some families are particularly amiable, they don't have a gateway view, you have to go to see the other party's parents' attitude towards you, so to consider whether you should continue this problem?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Is the door not the right one still together?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think you should continue, the relationship between the two of you is very good, both of you are very assertive people, if the two of you are together, I believe that the two of you will be very happy, the two of you will be more complementary, the two of you will be very happy together, and your parents will be very happy, I believe that your parents also hope that you can find a better condition, but I think you should find someone you love and love you, if you find a better condition, Then if you get married in the future, there will be some differences between you, and there will be a lot of contradictions between you, so you should find someone who loves you and loves you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When you really fall in love, you will find a lot of things that you don't know or don't know deeply enough. Specifically, these things include love that focuses on love but needs strong strength to guarantee, the right pair is really key for love, and love at first sight, although romantic sail model, is not necessarily reliable. 1. Love focuses on love, but it needs strong strength as a guarantee.

    In the minds of the vast majority of people, love is the state of focusing on love. These people will think that there is only love and nothing else in love. Such a view is inaccurate.

    In fact, falling in love requires a solid material foundation, and if you don't have strong strength or sufficient superior economic conditions, the difficulty of succeeding in love is very low. This matter can only be understood after falling in love. 2, Door-to-door pairs are really important for a relationship, and it's very crucial.

    Many people think that the right pair is an outdated notion that simply doesn't matter to the person who is in a relationship now. But in fact it is by no means so. There will be very big differences between two people who are not in the right household in terms of living habits, economic conditions, ways of thinking about problems, and recognition of each other, which will lead to many problems in the relationship between them.

    The two people who are in the right place have similar living conditions, similar ideas and concepts, so it is easier to produce a common language, and it will be easier for two people to succeed in love. This exciting thing can only be known after falling in love. 3. Love at first sight is romantic, but it is not necessarily reliable.

    Love at first sight is very romantic, and many people are extremely envious of it. But in fact, this kind of love will have a lot of problems because of the lack of understanding of each other, so love at first sight is not necessarily reliable, and many such relationships do not end up with the desired results. This situation can only be known after falling in love and having personal experience.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The fundamental reason for falling in love is that the relationship can be together, you and this person can consume together to look at things, can tend to be consistent, and can be peaceful and stable when dealing with things in terms of education, so that your relationship will be stable, and you will become stronger when you enter marriage in the future.

    The reason why you have to be in love is that fundamentally speaking, you can strengthen the improvement of genes, two emotionally stable people or people with strong ability, after the combination, you will find that the days will get better and better, one party can open the other party's state of mind, in the process of getting along with both parties, and will become particularly annoying because of money or those things that are not there, the biggest advantage of the right love is that you can join forces to create a life you want, Some of the things you think of in a relationship, the other party can help you do it, whether it is in love or after marriage, your life will be better than before, stronger than when you were single, and it will not turn marriage into a cage, both parties are trapped by this cage, otherwise, this is a mistake.

    Therefore, all the young men and girls who are in love, if you want to fall in love, please choose the right person, you must pay attention to your own conditions, it is the corresponding person, you can be a little higher or lower, but there must be no huge difference, otherwise once you get married, it will become a disaster, or if you don't get married, you will also be tortured very uncomfortable in love, which is not advisable.

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