What kind of feelings are love, and what kind of feelings is love?

The true meaning of affection lies in not seeking. Loving someone is not about getting any benefit from them, you love someone, you want to be nice to them, because you feel happy. That's why we criticize this as a ruthless time, because everybody is giving their emotions as if they were doing business.

When we love someone, we like to make sure that they love me first, and if they don't love me, I don't want to love them. But the other party will also think like this, so the two have to wait for the good days to slip by. Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you should not care about how much the other person can give you, because you have nothing in the first place. You can also sacrifice for love, but this sacrifice must be willing, not aggrieved, reluctant, and then ask the other party to repay you.

Some people say: Great love should stand the test, but since the relationship is so precious, it should be carefully cared for, rather than being tested if there is nothing to do. It's like an egg in your hand, you should take care of it, not throw it on the ground and wonder how it can break!

Don't test love, but don't be afraid of the test, and don't be afraid that the test will fail. Of course, we all hope that love can be talked about ordinarily and smoothly, and there will be no problems in a lifetime. But if love has to suffer some twists and turns, some blows, some hurts, we can also stand up and accept it.

If we do lose it, it is only superficial or formal, but we can have it forever in life. In this day and age, on the one hand, we should not overestimate love, because love does not allow us to overcome everything, to obtain everything, and not to be entirely beautiful; On the other hand, don't underestimate love, because love is a talent that everyone has, and don't be reluctant to give. When you meet someone who suits you and loves you, choose what you love and love what you choose!

Try to maintain your feelings well. But how do you measure whether love can last? Maybe there's a standard:

You are more happy than bitter in love, and it makes you more motivated than you fall. It makes you more satisfied than you want. If there is no fame, wealth, and power in life, it is still possible to be happy.

If there is no love in life, the chances of happiness are slim. Be brave enough to embrace the love you have received, and try your best to enjoy the beauty of love, and avoid the pain and hurt it will bring us. Look at it from an open-minded perspective.

It mainly depends on how you treat it, plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many kinds of love methods, this everyone's way of love is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, you will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last long. No matter what you do, what matters is your mindset is your attitude towards life.

If you love him, he loves you, it's love.

Love is a complex relationship that needs to be managed and maintained. In love, we often encounter some difficulties and challenges, one of which is how to deal with our partner's lies. If it's a white lie, I, the Cave Silver, can forgive him, after all, no human being is perfect.

But if it is a matter of principle, we should not be wronged to tolerate him.

Love is a process of constant growth and change that requires both parties to operate together. Time can prove love, and it can also overturn love. There are some things that we must forget, such as the pain and the hurt that the other person has done to us.

If time can't make us forget those we shouldn't, then what's the point of our lives?

In love, we need to learn to cherish and hold on, and at the same time, we must also learn to let go and let go. Only in this way can we feel true happiness and fulfillment in our family life.

Love should possess the following characteristics:

1.Mutual understanding and trust. The foundation of love is understanding and trust. Two people are able to accept each other's shortcomings and faults, believe in each other and support each other. Without these, it is difficult for feelings to develop into love.

2.Sacrifice and compromise. Love requires the dedication and sacrifice of both parties. Be willing to give up some of your ego for the other person and compromise when you have a disagreement. If everyone is stubborn and difficult to reach a consensus, such feelings will not last long.

3.Loyalty and responsibility. Love requires loyalty and responsibility from both parties to their feelings. It is not only a theoretical responsibility, but also needs to be fulfilled and expressed with practical actions. If there is more than one suitable object, and it is difficult to be truly loyal, then it is difficult to talk about true love.

4.Thoughts at the time of separation. The expression of true love lies in the thoughts at the time of separation. Because of love, so missed; Because I miss it, I suffer from gains and losses. If there is indifference at the time of separation, then the daily interaction is likely to be a habit, not an emotion.

5.Rationality and emotion coexist. Love requires a combination of reason and sensibility.

Sensuality makes people blindly obsessed, and rationality makes feelings mature. If you are only sensual and not rational, it is easy to be deceived in the period of love. Reason can test feelings so that they do not detach themselves from reality.

Therefore, love is not only sensual, but also rational. It requires mutual dedication and compromise, loyalty, responsibility and sincere thoughts. Understanding, trust, the test and growth of separation, these are all important elements of love.

Love is not only a momentary love and restlessness, but also a life attitude, which requires time to precipitate and the joint efforts of both parties, which can achieve a sincere love.

Each of us is very much looking forward to love, because we all know that love is happy and very sweet. Especially when we meet someone we like, then we see that many people will want to be with their favorite person even more.

Therefore, we see that many people will be more attentive after meeting the person they like, and they will take the initiative to care about each other and love each other, because they hope that through their own care and love, they can be with the person they like, and eventually they will be able to have a more happy and beautiful love.

We see that there are many people who are very impulsive in love, but now there are also people who will remain very sober and rational in love. So some people want to know if they should be very impulsive in love.

Indeed, we see that there are a small number of people whose love is very impulsive, and it is precisely because they are very impulsive that they can want to be with each other more. But such people are a minority after all, because we see more and more people nowadays, they are very sober and rational in love, because they know that if love is very impulsive, it will only make them love. If you want to keep their love for a long time, then they must learn to care about each other and love each other.

Because only when they are in love, they are more cautiously sober and rational, so that they can find a love that is more suitable for them.

So each of us is very looking forward to love, and we also know that love is happy and beautiful, and we see many people in love, they are very impulsive. But now we are also seeing more and more people, they are very sober and rational in love. So some people just want to know that love doesn't just need to be irrational and impulsive?

Indeed, we see a small number of people, their love is very impulsive, and it is precisely because they are in love that they are very impulsive, so they want to be with each other more, but we see that for more people, their love is now more and more sober and more and more rational. Because we know that love, if very impulsive, may allow us to have love for a while.

But if we want to have a truly happy and beautiful love, then we must be more sober and rational, and we must also better learn to care for and love each other, I believe that when we can be more sober and rational in love, this will not only allow us to find a more suitable person for ourselves, but also will eventually make our love more happy and beautiful.